Married Couples How Long Were You Married Before You Cheated?

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Jul 28, 2012
 
I need some help for a project I am working on. This is for married / divorced people only. Ideally, I need at least 40 responses.

Are you a female or male and how long were you married before you had an affair?

Thank you.
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Jul 28, 2012
 
Male. Divorced. I believe a woman will only stay in a relationship 4 to 5 years so it depends on when you get married in that time frame. Been married and divorced 3 times and no marriage lasted much over a year.
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Jul 28, 2012
 
Female. Married. Been married for a year the first and been together 2 years on the 30th. The only reason a relationship doesn't last is either a) because they don't really love each other b) because someone cheat. I know penlity of marrages that lasted longer than 4 or 5 years so before you go making statements like you did. You apperently don't know what you are talking about. There a lot of married couples that love & care for each other and don't need to cheat
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Jul 28, 2012
 

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FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
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Jul 28, 2012
 
Male..... first affair three years

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Jul 28, 2012
 

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Female. Married. Never cheated, nor has he. We have been together since 2001 and married since 2008. We are happy and very serious about our vows. We agree that we'd divorce before cheating.
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Jul 28, 2012
 
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Male..... first affair three years
. What about the second? Or third? You said first one, how many after that? People make mistakes, one is a mistake. How many has to happen? Can a couple not be happy in love with each other anymore in life?
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Jul 29, 2012
 
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
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Jul 29, 2012
 
Full of regrets wrote:
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
Classy!
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Jul 29, 2012
 

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If it is your hand, it's not cheating. It's called alone time! lol
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Jul 29, 2012
 
Hmmm wrote:
FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
Why?(Did your husband cheat?) Were they long term affairs or just one-nighters?
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Jul 30, 2012
 
Full of regrets wrote:
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
ditto for me.
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Female married 20 years. Had first affair after 2 years married, he cheated, I cheated. Second after married 12 years, same deal, he cheated, I cheated. Had 3rd after 18 years, again with the he cheated, I cheated. They all felt like a get even thing, but it never made me feel better. We are still married by the way. Had a fight/talk about all the cheating, got it all out on the table and forgave. Hopefully he is done with the games, I know I am.

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Jul 30, 2012
 
female. married 10 years. cheated after 3 years. no affection, terrible relationship. stayed for the kids. divorced on tenth year.
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Jul 31, 2012
 
Hmmm wrote:
FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
when's the next? And... What do you look like :)
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Jul 31, 2012
 
Got married when I was 24 on a Saturday. I managed rental properties for a local business man. Got a call from a hottie that she locked her keys inside the apartment. Ended up having sex with her on that Wednesday. I guess 4 days was not that good of start. Ended up screwing a stripper about 3 years later that wanted a ride home, and a one month affair with a young waitress about 6 years into marriage. Got divorced on the 8 th year of marriage. Should have never said " I do". Been married to 2nd wife for 10 years with no slip ups. She never tells me no, and vice versa.
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Jul 31, 2012
 
Cheating after 4 days was bad, but the real shame was not having a chance to wash up and getting home to the new bride who gave me a BJ. Kept thinking she was going to complain about the taste.

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Jul 31, 2012
 
Ronnie wrote:
Got married when I was 24 on a Saturday. I managed rental properties for a local business man. Got a call from a hottie that she locked her keys inside the apartment. Ended up having sex with her on that Wednesday. I guess 4 days was not that good of start. Ended up screwing a stripper about 3 years later that wanted a ride home, and a one month affair with a young waitress about 6 years into marriage. Got divorced on the 8 th year of marriage. Should have never said " I do". Been married to 2nd wife for 10 years with no slip ups. She never tells me no, and vice versa.
Sounds like you said I do to everybody the first time around!
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Jul 31, 2012
 

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About 28 hours, give or take, but cheating is when you are not true to yourself.
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Jul 31, 2012
 

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Male. Married 21 yrs. First affair after 18, next one ongoing right now & having a great time.

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