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Married Couples How Long Were You Married Before You Cheated?

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information for a project

Huntington, WV

#1 Jul 28, 2012
I need some help for a project I am working on. This is for married / divorced people only. Ideally, I need at least 40 responses.

Are you a female or male and how long were you married before you had an affair?

Thank you.
Happy

Ardsley, NY

#2 Jul 28, 2012
Male. Divorced. I believe a woman will only stay in a relationship 4 to 5 years so it depends on when you get married in that time frame. Been married and divorced 3 times and no marriage lasted much over a year.
love

Front Royal, VA

#3 Jul 28, 2012
Female. Married. Been married for a year the first and been together 2 years on the 30th. The only reason a relationship doesn't last is either a) because they don't really love each other b) because someone cheat. I know penlity of marrages that lasted longer than 4 or 5 years so before you go making statements like you did. You apperently don't know what you are talking about. There a lot of married couples that love & care for each other and don't need to cheat
Hmmm

South Hill, VA

#4 Jul 28, 2012
FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
Affair

Ardsley, NY

#5 Jul 28, 2012
Male..... first affair three years

“You are your own worst enemy.”

Since: Jun 12

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#6 Jul 28, 2012
Female. Married. Never cheated, nor has he. We have been together since 2001 and married since 2008. We are happy and very serious about our vows. We agree that we'd divorce before cheating.
what about

Fenton, MI

#7 Jul 28, 2012
Affair wrote:
Male..... first affair three years
. What about the second? Or third? You said first one, how many after that? People make mistakes, one is a mistake. How many has to happen? Can a couple not be happy in love with each other anymore in life?
Full of regrets

Ardsley, NY

#8 Jul 29, 2012
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
happy face

Saint Albans, WV

#9 Jul 29, 2012
Full of regrets wrote:
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
Classy!
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“Pissing off Vegan's since 1972”

Since: Jul 12

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#11 Jul 29, 2012
If it is your hand, it's not cheating. It's called alone time! lol
faithfool

Huntington, WV

#12 Jul 29, 2012
Hmmm wrote:
FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
Why?(Did your husband cheat?) Were they long term affairs or just one-nighters?
have at it

Huntington, WV

#13 Jul 30, 2012
Full of regrets wrote:
male just over 40. married over 20 years and never strayed. might start though sadly. tired of the infrequent sex life. always the same pattern, seriously. bust my ass all the time working, cleaning the house, dishes, send flowers, do date nights, it's bullsh1t really.
ditto for me.
No you didnt

Manakin Sabot, VA

#14 Jul 30, 2012
Female married 20 years. Had first affair after 2 years married, he cheated, I cheated. Second after married 12 years, same deal, he cheated, I cheated. Had 3rd after 18 years, again with the he cheated, I cheated. They all felt like a get even thing, but it never made me feel better. We are still married by the way. Had a fight/talk about all the cheating, got it all out on the table and forgave. Hopefully he is done with the games, I know I am.

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#15 Jul 30, 2012
female. married 10 years. cheated after 3 years. no affection, terrible relationship. stayed for the kids. divorced on tenth year.
yea right

Ardsley, NY

#16 Jul 31, 2012
Hmmm wrote:
FEMALE MARRIED. I had first affair at 3 years, second affair at 7 years and third affair at 29 years. Hope this helps!
when's the next? And... What do you look like :)
Ronnie

Ardsley, NY

#17 Jul 31, 2012
Got married when I was 24 on a Saturday. I managed rental properties for a local business man. Got a call from a hottie that she locked her keys inside the apartment. Ended up having sex with her on that Wednesday. I guess 4 days was not that good of start. Ended up screwing a stripper about 3 years later that wanted a ride home, and a one month affair with a young waitress about 6 years into marriage. Got divorced on the 8 th year of marriage. Should have never said " I do". Been married to 2nd wife for 10 years with no slip ups. She never tells me no, and vice versa.
Ronnie

Ardsley, NY

#18 Jul 31, 2012
Cheating after 4 days was bad, but the real shame was not having a chance to wash up and getting home to the new bride who gave me a BJ. Kept thinking she was going to complain about the taste.

“Pissing off Vegan's since 1972”

Since: Jul 12

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#19 Jul 31, 2012
Ronnie wrote:
Got married when I was 24 on a Saturday. I managed rental properties for a local business man. Got a call from a hottie that she locked her keys inside the apartment. Ended up having sex with her on that Wednesday. I guess 4 days was not that good of start. Ended up screwing a stripper about 3 years later that wanted a ride home, and a one month affair with a young waitress about 6 years into marriage. Got divorced on the 8 th year of marriage. Should have never said " I do". Been married to 2nd wife for 10 years with no slip ups. She never tells me no, and vice versa.
Sounds like you said I do to everybody the first time around!
Kyle Broadneck

Cincinnati, OH

#20 Jul 31, 2012
About 28 hours, give or take, but cheating is when you are not true to yourself.
metoo

Avella, PA

#21 Jul 31, 2012
Male. Married 21 yrs. First affair after 18, next one ongoing right now & having a great time.

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