first offer and explain to her about all your love for herHow can I tell my wife without hurting her feelings that her massive weight is a big turn off?
She was so fine when we met, but she has really let herself go. I do not want to make love to her anymore. She needs to drop a bunch of weight. I find myself attracted to women who are in shape. I am afraid I am going to cheat.
dont beat around the bush and explain that her weight has became a problem and i assure you she realizes that she has gained and it probably bothers her too if you truly love her offer to help her, with working out together, info videos etc. and maybe even try some diet supplements if u both agree and if u truly love her, stay by her side and try to work through it, but she has to help herself and explain that [hysical attraction did have a small amount to do with why you wanted her to begin with, andi find myself looking T OTHER women not wanting to cheat wishing she would help herself.out of love you dont wanna say nothing but out of conciousness it bothers you and u dont wanna hurt her...idk hope it helps