people cheat

Charleston, WV

#22 Nov 30, 2012
People, men, husbands cheat wtf ever!
up2nogood

Kearney, NE

#23 Apr 27, 2013
omg myra i know what you mean i think thats the problem with my wife!
Disgusted

Tornado, WV

#24 Apr 27, 2013
You need to get a divorce. If you are to that point that you don't even care.
Is it true unhappiness or is it just some attractive girl who is flirting with you at the workplace?
Many times when people want to cheat it is because someone good looking pays alot of attention to them. Just keep in mind that your wife paid attention to you like before the very time consuming life of having a family distracted her. If you care about your wife and kids try one more time. Arrange a sitter and have a date night. Go out to dinner. Hell, go walk by the river at park. It may not be a walk on the beach but it's the closest thing we have around here. Many marriages don't have adult alone time and it hurts the intimacy and sexual part of the relationship. Also, many women tend to not things are so bad. When they become mothers it's harder to get fixed up and give a man attention. Most men think that family care stops at 9pm and the wife can go into stripper mode and perform for them. So are you not getting the love you have put in or are you just complaining about sex? You wanting to cheat makes it sound as if you are just upset you aren't getting laid as often as you would like.
mommy

Nitro, WV

#25 Apr 28, 2013
Disgusted wrote:
You need to get a divorce. If you are to that point that you don't even care.
Is it true unhappiness or is it just some attractive girl who is flirting with you at the workplace?
Many times when people want to cheat it is because someone good looking pays alot of attention to them. Just keep in mind that your wife paid attention to you like before the very time consuming life of having a family distracted her. If you care about your wife and kids try one more time. Arrange a sitter and have a date night. Go out to dinner. Hell, go walk by the river at park. It may not be a walk on the beach but it's the closest thing we have around here. Many marriages don't have adult alone time and it hurts the intimacy and sexual part of the relationship. Also, many women tend to not things are so bad. When they become mothers it's harder to get fixed up and give a man attention. Most men think that family care stops at 9pm and the wife can go into stripper mode and perform for them. So are you not getting the love you have put in or are you just complaining about sex? You wanting to cheat makes it sound as if you are just upset you aren't getting laid as often as you would like.
i did not give it to my husband as much as i should have. i never thought he'd leave us but sadly he did. i.wishi wold have listened to him when he tried talkig to me about this issue. now, im barely above poverty and he has a girlfriend in her 20s while i am in my 40s. my point is ladies you need to show your man love or else you could end up like me.
usedup

Valparaiso, IN

#26 May 1, 2013
Just talk to her. If you can work it out thats awesome. if not. Move on. I tried to work it out with my girl for a long time. She ignored the issue and I cheated. i felt horrible about it until I fell in love again and it is amazing.
imo....

Freedom, PA

#27 May 1, 2013
There is never a reason to cheat. It is a cowardly action done by selfish people who are too immature to just be truthful. If your not happy either try to fix it or just get divorced in a civil manner.....once a cheater always a cheater.....and if you have kids... They'll probably resent the parent that cheated.
Sexslut281

Pontotoc, MS

#28 May 1, 2013
[QUOTE who="imo...."]There is never a reason to cheat. It is a cowardly action done by selfish people who are too immature to just be truthful. If your not happy either try to fix it or just get divorced in a civil manner.....once a cheater always a cheater.....and if you have kids... They'll probably resent the parent that cheated.[/QUOTE]if you get a Divorce Please Don't Bring the Kid's in it its Bad enough that mommy&Daddy are probably fighting
Jif

Brooklyn, NY

#29 May 1, 2013
This happened to me! It hurts like Hell, worse to cheat than to just be honest, leave, get out of the relationship your in first. Just be HONEST & get on with your life but also so she can get on with hers.
Sexslut281

Pontotoc, MS

#30 May 2, 2013
If you still love her tell her Work things out its 4 the Best
Todd

Washington, DC

#31 May 2, 2013
I cheated about 4 years ago....and was thinking the same thing - didn't really care if I got caught. But when I let it out that I had done it, it became the worst time in my life. When I saw the hurt that was caused, it ripped me apart. I then realized what I had done, and though I had felt taken for granted at times, she didn't deserve this at all. Fortunately, she eventually saw my remorse and after several counseling sessions and a lot of bumps in the road, our relationship is healed and my family is back together. Think about this kind of thing really hard. You don't want to cause anyone this kind of pain. Nothing good comes from cheating.
Confused Dad

Apollo, PA

#32 May 2, 2013
I've still not cheated but the sex life still is not what it should be. I find myself lusting after other women and I fear that it's only a matter of time before I stray.
Iamnotyoubut

Rancé, France

#33 May 2, 2013
I'd like you to think about this seriously for 5 minutes :)

Consider sex like food. Try to remember the feelings you had 10 years ago while eating something and do the same with a sex moment of your life.

Usually people won't be able to remind more than 3 or 4 situations perfectly but they all remember with who or where it was.

So even if you wanna cheat just for sex seriously you won't remember the " pleasure " one year after but you'll always remember you cheated.

Your sex life is not " fun " or " good " for you ? Talk talk talk talk and talk again with your wife.
Lots of solutions, starting with re-learn each other to having an affair with her/ his approval.

But cheating is not the answer.
just do it

Montréal, Canada

#34 May 2, 2013
Confused Dad wrote:
I've still not cheated but the sex life still is not what it should be. I find myself lusting after other women and I fear that it's only a matter of time before I stray.
go for it man. i am in the same boat. i just decided i am going to screw anything decent looking if i get the chance. i have given my wife so many talks my jaws hurt. i want and deserve to have more sex than every couple of weeks.
Sexslut281

Pontotoc, MS

#35 May 2, 2013
Confused Dad wrote:
I've still not cheated but the sex life still is not what it should be. I find myself lusting after other women and I fear that it's only a matter of time before I stray.
She still loves you did you Think About That
love women

Henderson, NV

#36 May 2, 2013
Sexslut281 wrote:
<quoted text>She still loves you did you Think About That
Perhaps she should think about him leaving before cutting him off. Think About That.

Men are sexual creatures. Why should he be deprived?

OP, I hope you get laid all you want and when you come home, just act like everything is fine. Do not get caught!
Iamnotyoubut

Rancé, France

#37 May 2, 2013
Don't cheat on her come on be a man.

Tell her you need more sex or different kind of sex and THEN if she says she won't change anything tell her you'll look for an extra affair.

But don't cheat.
Lola

Charleston, WV

#38 May 2, 2013
Come on over, I've got what you need.
yep

Huntington, WV

#39 May 2, 2013
mommy wrote:
<quoted text>
i did not give it to my husband as much as i should have. i never thought he'd leave us but sadly he did. i.wishi wold have listened to him when he tried talkig to me about this issue. now, im barely above poverty and he has a girlfriend in her 20s while i am in my 40s. my point is ladies you need to show your man love or else you could end up like me.
We all take each other for granted sometimes, especially after several years of marriage. We also all tend to get busy with day-to-day stuff and forget to pay attention to the really important stuff. What saved my marriage was talking with each other openly about these issues - and listening actively to each other. We did it over the course of several weeks, as this isn't a conversation you can just have all at once. We all have to digest it in small pieces and relearn our behaviors. If you both really work at it though, you actually can turn the clock back on your relationship and rediscover the things that made you want each other in the first place.
watch out

Hurricane, WV

#40 May 9, 2013
If you do cheat, which I disagree with, you need to be careful about who you cheat with. There have been numerous times that married/taken women have been caught cheating and they cry rape to try to get out of responsibility when they are caught. Then you're in an even worse life ruining mess. Try your best NOT to cheat, but if you do, watch your damn back.
Lindsey D

Huntington, WV

#41 May 9, 2013
Talk to her about it and if that doesn't work then try counseling and if that doesn't work and you both can't seem to come to an agreement then maybe the best thing to do is file for a divorce. Cheating is not the answer. Put yourself in her shoes. Would you be hurt if she cheated on you? The heartache that this will cause for her and your children is not worth an hour or less of pleasure from someone else. You might enjoy it at the time but if you have any heart in you then you will live with the guilt and pain that it caused your family for the rest of your life. Don't do it!

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