any women ever feel violated at a ob/...

any women ever feel violated at a ob/gyn appointment by a student doctor

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rosalie

United States

#1 Mar 20, 2013
I went to the huntington health department today and the doctor brought in one of his male students who obviously didnt know what he was doing, before he did the breast exam he winked at me and the whole time he had a big goofy smile on his face. The whole time was very awkward and uncommfortable and to me that was a violation of my rights. I was already uncomfortable that i had to see a man cause Im used to seeing women then they bring this guy in without my permission so i could be his guinea pig. I have been so upset about it all day. Has anyone else ever been through this and wish there was something you could do about it? What would you do if this happen to you? What should I do?
Delbert McFarland

Kuwait, Kuwait

#2 Mar 20, 2013
You could have just left.
rosalie wrote:
before he did the breast exam he winked at me and the whole time he had a big goofy smile on his face.
I guess that means you got a nice set.
Seen too much

Huntington, WV

#3 Mar 21, 2013
You should have refused to allow the student to do the exam. You have a right to do that. Report this to the clinical director at the Health Department. No one should be that unprofessional, even a student.
learning things

Huntington, WV

#4 Mar 21, 2013
Seen too much wrote:
You should have refused to allow the student to do the exam. You have a right to do that. Report this to the clinical director at the Health Department. No one should be that unprofessional, even a student.
ah shutup you liberals. aint nothing wrong with the guy getting a wooody while checking out the fresh (or unfresh) merchandise. would you rather someone put on a mask and act repulsed by the sight and smell of you?
learning things

Huntington, WV

#5 Mar 21, 2013
btw, do taxpayers pay for your exam or do you pay it on your own?
Gyno slave master

Claremore, OK

#6 Mar 21, 2013
Did he stick anything in your butt or vag?
Susan

United States

#7 Mar 21, 2013
learning things wrote:
btw, do taxpayers pay for your exam or do you pay it on your own?
Taxpayers pay the salary of the doctors and instead of trying to turn this around to make the OP feel the victim, you should be outraged that one of your employees may be taking advantage of women.

To the original poster- It could be that the student was as nervous as you and caused the behavior but if you feel he was way out of line you should report it. He may need some lessons in ethical behavior towards patients and it could help him to become a good doctor someday.
rosalie

United States

#8 Mar 21, 2013
thank you ladies for you advice and wow when you try to get honest advice about things you seem to get a lot of perverts along with it. Guys are disgusting they never take anyting seriously and are just nasty
rosalie

United States

#9 Mar 21, 2013
And I might have been able to leave but I dont have anyting money and i had some pretty bad symptoms tat i needed to see a doctor for as i had cervical cancer a few years ago. I had to see a doctor i had no choice. Just because im poor tough dosent mean these doctors have a right to bring who ever they want into the room without my permission and let this guy touche all over me and treat me like a lab rat. I am soon to be married and I didnt want to see a man to being with but like i said i had no choice. but when our sitting there waiting for the doctor to come in and your naked and all of a sudden a crowd of people come through the door without your permission thats just insane and awkward for peopel who have morals and arent perves.Bottom line is the doctor was unprofessional for not asking me first and the young student was unprofessional because obviously hes not mature enough to behave properly around naked women
Popper

Cedar Grove, WV

#10 Mar 21, 2013
rosalie wrote:
And I might have been able to leave but I dont have anyting money and i had some pretty bad symptoms tat i needed to see a doctor for as i had cervical cancer a few years ago. I had to see a doctor i had no choice. Just because im poor tough dosent mean these doctors have a right to bring who ever they want into the room without my permission and let this guy touche all over me and treat me like a lab rat. I am soon to be married and I didnt want to see a man to being with but like i said i had no choice. but when our sitting there waiting for the doctor to come in and your naked and all of a sudden a crowd of people come through the door without your permission thats just insane and awkward for peopel who have morals and arent perves.Bottom line is the doctor was unprofessional for not asking me first and the young student was unprofessional because obviously hes not mature enough to behave properly around naked women
I sympathize with you on this. I am a guy. I am not nasty but anyone can be.
I think they see so many patients they become cold and desensitized to bedside manner. Then again the guy could have been an all out perv. There is all kinds out there.
Wow

Huntington, WV

#11 Mar 21, 2013
learning things wrote:
btw, do taxpayers pay for your exam or do you pay it on your own?
I'll bet you would have enjoyed owning slaves. You seem to have the right mindset to do so.
rosalie

United States

#12 Mar 21, 2013
yeah i know not all guys are perves but there are alot of them out there in this messed up world. You are one of the very few popper thanks for being understanding.
rosalie

United States

#13 Mar 21, 2013
Thanks to all of you who are being so nice about this its nice to hear from people who have morals and who would stand up against something that is wrong. God bless you guys hope you have a great life and have many wonderful things
learning things

Huntington, WV

#14 Mar 21, 2013
Wow wrote:
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I'll bet you would have enjoyed owning slaves. You seem to have the right mindset to do so.
If the op is not a troll (i think they are), and they use government benefits (our taxes) to pay for the exam, I have a right to know.

I think the whole story is b.s.
bored today

Vienna, WV

#15 Mar 21, 2013
troll alert
wienerking

Hurricane, WV

#16 Mar 21, 2013
We aim to please.

Don't come to topix looking for legit advice.
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Huntington, WV

#17 Mar 21, 2013
rosalie wrote:
I went to the huntington health department today and the doctor brought in one of his male students who obviously didnt know what he was doing, before he did the breast exam he winked at me and the whole time he had a big goofy smile on his face. The whole time was very awkward and uncommfortable and to me that was a violation of my rights. I was already uncomfortable that i had to see a man cause Im used to seeing women then they bring this guy in without my permission so i could be his guinea pig. I have been so upset about it all day. Has anyone else ever been through this and wish there was something you could do about it? What would you do if this happen to you? What should I do?
I've been to the health department and felt the same way. I told them on my next appointment I absolutely did not want that scenario to happen again. If you were uncomfortable, like I was, you need to tell them. The nurses there are great.
Ben Dover

Huntington, WV

#18 Mar 21, 2013
You should have brought it to the main Dr's attention that the student winked at you & stated you did not want to be examined by him. It only looks like you are trying to start something (trashing someone or someplace) because you did not speak to the appropriate people. Instead, you come on Topix, a trash site that trashes others for the fun, & asked for our opinion that does not affect us...I would not have left the office until the issue was addressed appropriately.
Get Real

Greensburg, PA

#19 Mar 21, 2013
learning things wrote:
btw, do taxpayers pay for your exam or do you pay it on your own?
I want to know if us taxpayers paid the bill for your lobotomy or if you paid for it on your own?
Get Real

Greensburg, PA

#20 Mar 21, 2013
learning things wrote:
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ah shutup you liberals. aint nothing wrong with the guy getting a wooody while checking out the fresh (or unfresh) merchandise. would you rather someone put on a mask and act repulsed by the sight and smell of you?
You can't even differentiate between morals and politics.
I hope your next doctors appointment involves a wink and an anal probe. You're a sicko!

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