INTIMATE RELATIONS after getting marr...
warning to you all

Cuba City, WI

#28 Jun 17, 2013
Ex-wife wrote:
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This is a good warning. I once had a really good guy who worked hard and took care of me and our kids. I took him for granted for so long (I wasn't as nice as I could have been and I treated sex like a tool to be used only to get what I want). He eventually came to me and told me he wanted a divorce. He was gone that day and we haven't lived together since. While he still takes good care of the kids (pays child support and does all the extras), he also now has a new wife and they are very happy while I'm still alone. If I could go back, I would have tried harder to make him feel appreciated.
That's is excellent advice. <3 With I could give you a hug :) Good luck!
She Made Me Cheat

Houston, TX

#29 Jun 17, 2013
My current wife forced me to cheat.

I had all the talks, dr visits, meds, flowers, housework, etc. You name it, I tried it. SHE was and is the problem. A happy s/e/x life = a happy marriage most of the time.

I stopped thinking I had too high of a s/e/x drive and that there was something wrong with me. I am normal. She is the one who changed after us having a family.

It seems like my happiness is not important to her so I have affairs now. I do not care what anyone says, she forced me to stray.
Army Chick

Huntington, WV

#30 Jun 17, 2013
She Made Me Cheat wrote:
My current wife forced me to cheat.
I had all the talks, dr visits, meds, flowers, housework, etc. You name it, I tried it. SHE was and is the problem. A happy s/e/x life = a happy marriage most of the time.
I stopped thinking I had too high of a s/e/x drive and that there was something wrong with me. I am normal. She is the one who changed after us having a family.
It seems like my happiness is not important to her so I have affairs now. I do not care what anyone says, she forced me to stray.
She made you cheat? Did you accidentally fall into somebody's muff garden? You sound like a jerk. Just get a divorce, your wife would be much happier I bet.
Rachel

Saint Albans, WV

#31 Jun 17, 2013
Ok. Question for men. Like I stated earlier; me and my husband have sex I would say on average 2 nights a week. Every so often it may be 3, then sometimes it may only be one night. Everytime we have sex, it's for well over an hour with lots of Foreplay and different positions etc.. Is that enough sex for a man? I always give him oral for at least 15-20 min, and I don't ever object to anything he wants to do. But do you think he wants it more often and just doesn't say anything? I just don't want to deprive my husband and at the same time (I really love to sleep lol). I just don't want out sex life to become boring or same ole routine to him. Sometimes I think going a few days adds to excitement for when we do come together. Any advice or thoughts on the subject? Also I should add that I'm so attracted to my husband and I'm so satisfied that I squirt every night we have sex several times. So he knows I'm enjoying myself to the fullest.
It is not real

Huntington, WV

#32 Jun 17, 2013
Rachel wrote:
Ok. Question for men. Like I stated earlier; me and my husband have sex I would say on average 2 nights a week. Every so often it may be 3, then sometimes it may only be one night. Everytime we have sex, it's for well over an hour with lots of Foreplay and different positions etc.. Is that enough sex for a man? I always give him oral for at least 15-20 min, and I don't ever object to anything he wants to do. But do you think he wants it more often and just doesn't say anything? I just don't want to deprive my husband and at the same time (I really love to sleep lol). I just don't want out sex life to become boring or same ole routine to him. Sometimes I think going a few days adds to excitement for when we do come together. Any advice or thoughts on the subject? Also I should add that I'm so attracted to my husband and I'm so satisfied that I squirt every night we have sex several times. So he knows I'm enjoying myself to the fullest.
You urinate on your husband*? Not a fan at all. I think you are a troll looking for responses.
One study by Gary Schubach used urethral catheterization in order to separate urine from orgasmic expulsions from elsewhere in the body. Seven women claiming to have ejaculations expelled large volumes of urine through the catheter at orgasm, and little to no other fluid.*
http://www.ejhs.org/volume4/Schubach/abstract...
*Gary Schubach (August 2001). "Urethral Expulsions During Sensual Arousal and Bladder Catheterization in Seven Human Females". Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality.
jolly old santa

Charleston, WV

#33 Jun 17, 2013
Honestly it depends on how hot you are. If you are smokin hot blonde that does the makeup and clothes right, then hes gonna want it everyday for sure. But if you are on topix then I can safely assume that you are the complete opposite of this description.
wow thats what that means

Huntington, WV

#34 Jun 17, 2013
i always heard about sum females squirt.

didnt know squirt= pissed on.

YUCK!!!
double yuck

Latham, NY

#35 Jun 17, 2013
It is not real wrote:
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You urinate on your husband*? Not a fan at all. I think you are a troll looking for responses.

One study by Gary Schubach used urethral catheterization in order to separate urine from orgasmic expulsions from elsewhere in the body. Seven women claiming to have ejaculations expelled large volumes of urine through the catheter at orgasm, and little to no other fluid.*

http://www.ejhs.org/volume4/Schubach/abstract...

*Gary Schubach (August 2001). "Urethral Expulsions During Sensual Arousal and Bladder Catheterization in Seven Human Females". Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality.
Gag. Too much information.
Rachel

Saint Albans, WV

#36 Jun 17, 2013
Ok.. First off, squirting is NOT PEE! It comes from hitting the spongy feeling G spot, and it is a very very intense orgasm. You need to google more resources honey. I always pee before and after sex. So if all the fluids and juices I have during sex is pee then why is it I pee after sex with no problem? Also, I have came during oral sex and kissed my husband immediately after and all I could taste was my sweet juices. Not pee. Also a male ejaculates from his pee hole so is his cum pee to?? Seriously google it: it might just change your life. Oh and maybe your woman isn't interested in having sex very often because you obviously aren't hitting it right. And maybe if you could cause her to explode with a squirting orgasm she would want it more often.
Oh and while I may not be a hot "blonde".. I'm a very attractive brunette. Medium length hair, nice complextion, in good shape 135 lbs 5 ft 4. So don't assume bc I'm on topix that I'm ugly or desperate.
From the responses to my squirting I am feeling really sorry for people who haven't expirenced such an awesome orgasm.
wow thats what that means

Huntington, WV

#37 Jun 17, 2013
k. i am a female. & im a fire cracker... my sexlife is excellant. but i dont know nothing about "squirting" & dont really care too. mayb it just depends on each womans body.

but i will say u r 100% rite. the men who aint gettin laid by there wife? guys? u aint doin it rite, u bitch at her & piss her off too much, mayb ur a lil sloppy, out of shape & cant push her buttons.

then again.. u culd b a minute man too.. u know what im sayn fella's?.....BORING.
local urologist

Saint Albans, WV

#38 Jun 17, 2013
Rachel wrote:
Ok.. First off, squirting is NOT PEE! It comes from hitting the spongy feeling G spot, and it is a very very intense orgasm. You need to google more resources honey. I always pee before and after sex. So if all the fluids and juices I have during sex is pee then why is it I pee after sex with no problem? Also, I have came during oral sex and kissed my husband immediately after and all I could taste was my sweet juices. Not pee. Also a male ejaculates from his pee hole so is his cum pee to?? Seriously google it: it might just change your life. Oh and maybe your woman isn't interested in having sex very often because you obviously aren't hitting it right. And maybe if you could cause her to explode with a squirting orgasm she would want it more often.
Oh and while I may not be a hot "blonde".. I'm a very attractive brunette. Medium length hair, nice complextion, in good shape 135 lbs 5 ft 4. So don't assume bc I'm on topix that I'm ugly or desperate.
From the responses to my squirting I am feeling really sorry for people who haven't expirenced such an awesome orgasm.
It's urine. I'm an educated physician.
Angela

Logan, WV

#39 Jun 17, 2013
evastetruck wrote:
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Depending on his age his sex drive is supposed to drop but at 43 I only want it about 6 or 7 times a week instead of 3 or 4 times a day ever day
He's 36 now ,but from the time we've been together, 15 years ago he's always been that way!!!That's always something I've always argued to him about!I wondered if it was normal for a man to be so young and only want it once a week!I sometimes blame myself for marrying him and knowing he was like that.Sometimes people just don't change!
tenohnine

Huntington, WV

#40 Jun 17, 2013
It is not real wrote:
<quoted text>
You urinate on your husband*? Not a fan at all. I think you are a troll looking for responses.
One study by Gary Schubach used urethral catheterization in order to separate urine from orgasmic expulsions from elsewhere in the body. Seven women claiming to have ejaculations expelled large volumes of urine through the catheter at orgasm, and little to no other fluid.*
http://www.ejhs.org/volume4/Schubach/abstract...
*Gary Schubach (August 2001). "Urethral Expulsions During Sensual Arousal and Bladder Catheterization in Seven Human Females". Electronic Journal of Human Sexuality.
I read the link. Highly informative. Thanks for posting.
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Rachel

Saint Albans, WV

#42 Jun 17, 2013
But once again I will stress this fact to the men on here stating they are not getting enough sex. I have been in relationships in the past that I felt like sex was a chore. My boyfriend would literally just "bang" my brains out till he came and I always had to fake it. While I may get wet enough for him to think I was satisfied, I would never really orgasm with full pleasure. Oh I would seem like I was satisfied bc I didn't want to hurt his feelings. My boyfriend may give me oral for a while and not to say that he was purposely out for himself, I really think he thought he was doing a good job. But let me tell you; my husband makes it a known fact that his whole goal is to push me over the edge. He will go for hours without coming to make sure I am fully satisfied. He takes so much time with me bc for a woman it's different: we can't just boom be in the mood and after a few strokes BOOM orgasm like that.. We need to have out minds in the right mood as well. Plus we have to be warmed up a great deal. We often do 69 or some type of mutual stimulation for a while and once again I will say.. Don't rush it!! U have all night, don't have a mind set that your trying to cum, just relax and enjoy it and explore each other. Don't be all lips pressed hard while giving her oral trying to force her to cum, go sensual and slow and..( look make love to the P($$!) kiss and be gentle, and caress and touch and play. Sex should be fun, exciting, and pleasing. If you get to a point that everytime you give it to your woman she is soaking you with pleasure: then trust me she will want it a lot more. Explore and experiment with each other. Try new things. Most females don't enjoy anal but I do when the moods right with lubricant and when he goes slow. Sex isn't gross people. Only prude people who are up tight insecure and not enjoying sex think its gross.
Ex Employee

United States

#43 Jun 17, 2013
Rachel wrote:
But once again I will stress this fact to the men on here stating they are not getting enough sex. I have been in relationships in the past that I felt like sex was a chore. My boyfriend would literally just "bang" my brains out till he came and I always had to fake it. While I may get wet enough for him to think I was satisfied, I would never really orgasm with full pleasure. Oh I would seem like I was satisfied bc I didn't want to hurt his feelings. My boyfriend may give me oral for a while and not to say that he was purposely out for himself, I really think he thought he was doing a good job. But let me tell you; my husband makes it a known fact that his whole goal is to push me over the edge. He will go for hours without coming to make sure I am fully satisfied. He takes so much time with me bc for a woman it's different: we can't just boom be in the mood and after a few strokes BOOM orgasm like that.. We need to have out minds in the right mood as well. Plus we have to be warmed up a great deal. We often do 69 or some type of mutual stimulation for a while and once again I will say.. Don't rush it!! U have all night, don't have a mind set that your trying to cum, just relax and enjoy it and explore each other. Don't be all lips pressed hard while giving her oral trying to force her to cum, go sensual and slow and..( look make love to the P($$!) kiss and be gentle, and caress and touch and play. Sex should be fun, exciting, and pleasing. If you get to a point that everytime you give it to your woman she is soaking you with pleasure: then trust me she will want it a lot more. Explore and experiment with each other. Try new things. Most females don't enjoy anal but I do when the moods right with lubricant and when he goes slow. Sex isn't gross people. Only prude people who are up tight insecure and not enjoying sex think its gross.
Lol
Rachel

Saint Albans, WV

#44 Jun 17, 2013
Maybe I should be a sex therapist lol!!
Clair

Hurricane, WV

#45 Jun 17, 2013
Rachel wrote:
But once again I will stress this fact to the men on here stating they are not getting enough sex. I have been in relationships in the past that I felt like sex was a chore. My boyfriend would literally just "bang" my brains out till he came and I always had to fake it. While I may get wet enough for him to think I was satisfied, I would never really orgasm with full pleasure. Oh I would seem like I was satisfied bc I didn't want to hurt his feelings. My boyfriend may give me oral for a while and not to say that he was purposely out for himself, I really think he thought he was doing a good job. But let me tell you; my husband makes it a known fact that his whole goal is to push me over the edge. He will go for hours without coming to make sure I am fully satisfied. He takes so much time with me bc for a woman it's different: we can't just boom be in the mood and after a few strokes BOOM orgasm like that.. We need to have out minds in the right mood as well. Plus we have to be warmed up a great deal. We often do 69 or some type of mutual stimulation for a while and once again I will say.. Don't rush it!! U have all night, don't have a mind set that your trying to cum, just relax and enjoy it and explore each other. Don't be all lips pressed hard while giving her oral trying to force her to cum, go sensual and slow and..( look make love to the P($$!) kiss and be gentle, and caress and touch and play. Sex should be fun, exciting, and pleasing. If you get to a point that everytime you give it to your woman she is soaking you with pleasure: then trust me she will want it a lot more. Explore and experiment with each other. Try new things. Most females don't enjoy anal but I do when the moods right with lubricant and when he goes slow. Sex isn't gross people. Only prude people who are up tight insecure and not enjoying sex think its gross.
Dumb post. Get real.
Rachel

Saint Albans, WV

#46 Jun 17, 2013
Hey. I'm just trying to help educate men who may need help knowing how to please a woman
really

Kansas City, KS

#47 Jun 17, 2013
A romp out in the woods....cornfield or creek bank is always fun.....we enjoy it.
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man view

Avella, PA

#50 Jun 18, 2013
Rachel wrote:
Hey. I'm just trying to help educate men who may need help knowing how to please a woman
I'd love to agree with you, Rachel, but your story isn't necessarily representative. I was once married to a woman with whom I had great sex. Every time was more than an hour with her having mind-blowing orgasms. The problem was frequency. We rarely had sex because every single factor had to be present for her to be in the mood. In other words, it was like the stars had to be perfectly aligned. It wasn't a matter of my skills or her receptivity. When it happened it was great. All the weeks in between were dry. I tried everything to get her to see that sex can create its own energy and its own mood if we are willing to maybe just jump start things with a little making out or something, but she just said I had too high of a sex drive for wanting it more that once or twice a month.
Needless to say, it wore me down. I didn't do what most men do and cheat on her. Instead, I left her to find someone who didn't make me feel like an a-hole for wanting to make love to her. I've been with my new lady for almost 2 years and we have great sex quite often - sometimes every day. So, you see, a woman's sex drive isn't always about the man. Saying that takes away any responsibility she has to meet her man halfway.
PS - the posts above that try to debunk squirting are just people who can't do it. I've spent years making it happen with every woman I was with. Its called the Skene gland - look it up. And, when you do this, you'll rock her world.

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