INTIMATE RELATIONS after getting married is boring

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mad at her

Vandergrift, PA

#1 Jun 15, 2013
How long after you got married did the passion and bedroom fun stop? Took all of about two to three years for us. I'm pretty resentful and ready to make a drastic change. I'm totally miserable at the moment.
Run Forrest Run

Hurricane, WV

#2 Jun 15, 2013
mad at her wrote:
How long after you got married did the passion and bedroom fun stop? Took all of about two to three years for us. I'm pretty resentful and ready to make a drastic change. I'm totally miserable at the moment.
If you don't have kids run like crazy man. Don't be like me and have kids and get stuck being unhappy. If she stops being into you and s e x after that soon, it ain't a good sign, she won't change...just saying. Plenty of hot ladies out there who'd love to take care of you.
Angela

Williamson, WV

#3 Jun 16, 2013
Is it normal for your husband be intamate once a week?That's all mine prefers!
Angela

Williamson, WV

#4 Jun 16, 2013
Oops I meant to be!!
schrodinger

Huntington, WV

#5 Jun 16, 2013
A relationship goes through ups and downs you just have to work through it. Try doing new stuff and spice it up a little. Nothing in life worth anything comes easy.
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evastetruck is bi sexual

Kenova, WV

#9 Jun 16, 2013
evastetruck wrote:
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Depending on his age his sex drive is supposed to drop but at 43 I only want it about 6 or 7 times a week instead of 3 or 4 times a day ever day
too hut and put
Psycho

Milton, WV

#10 Jun 16, 2013
evastetruck wrote:
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It took about 15 years for us then she decided once a week twice if she's in a good mood and oh yea when wants something it becames a tradeing tool sometimes I wonder when they became prostitutes
Lol.... I am a woman and my opinion is to keep your man at home and keep him happy!!

If you r not in the mood, just do it anyway!! It can make u in the mood and make u feel better!!
kenova harley man is gay

Kenova, WV

#11 Jun 16, 2013
evastetruck is bi sexual wrote:
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rumble hut
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evastetruck is bi sexual

Kenova, WV

#13 Jun 16, 2013
mad at her wrote:
How long after you got married did the passion and bedroom fun stop? Took all of about two to three years for us. I'm pretty resentful and ready to make a drastic change. I'm totally miserable at the moment.
sam got red
evastetruck is bi sexual

Kenova, WV

#14 Jun 16, 2013
evastetruck is bi sexual wrote:
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diamond

United States

#15 Jun 16, 2013
H 3ll I'm 35 my hubby is 48 he ua the one who don't want it .won't do it .says u can't make him wtf. we been married 9 yrs and been intimate one time in a yr.
Kenova Harley Man Is Gay

Kenova, WV

#16 Jun 16, 2013
mad at her wrote:
How long after you got married did the passion and bedroom fun stop? Took all of about two to three years for us. I'm pretty resentful and ready to make a drastic change. I'm totally miserable at the moment.
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women

Apollo, PA

#18 Jun 16, 2013
They are notoriously famous for bait and switch. At least my wife was. Got the ring and kids then clammed up. That's why I cheat all the time.
jaja is bi sexual

Kenova, WV

#19 Jun 16, 2013
mad at her wrote:
How long after you got married did the passion and bedroom fun stop? Took all of about two to three years for us. I'm pretty resentful and ready to make a drastic change. I'm totally miserable at the moment.
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Rachel

Richmond, VA

#20 Jun 17, 2013
I hope none of this happens in my marriage. Married under a year, but we've been together 5 years. So far the sex had always been steamy, and full of passion. Yes we do have busy weeks where we are more tired and may only have sex 1 or 2 nights. But we always seem to make up for it as soon as we can. But every night that we do have sex it's always for several hours with lots of foreplay. I'm happy with out sex life and I hope my husband stays satisfied and if he ever becomes unhappy I hope he talks to me about it and not just go out and cheat. Have any of you talked to your spouse about it??
Level 3

Since: Jun 13

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#21 Jun 17, 2013
Is sex the only thing you idiots worry about in a marriage? You all have some learning to do.
i know

Huntington, WV

#22 Jun 17, 2013
ladies, you better keep that man happy at home. if you don't i assure you someone will. my wife didn't and i found it elsewhere. she kinda got a clue and stepped up her game at home for a few months but now she has fallen back into treating me like she is doing me the biggest favor ever if she stoops so low as to have sex with me. it makes me realize nothing ever really changes
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not a gym teacher

Latham, NY

#25 Jun 17, 2013
GYM TEACHER wrote:
Is sex the only thing you idiots worry about in a marriage? You all have some learning to do.
You have some learning to do mam. Calling people names stops in middle school for most people. I see in your case, it did not...smh.
not a gym teacher

Latham, NY

#26 Jun 17, 2013
women wrote:
They are notoriously famous for bait and switch. At least my wife was. Got the ring and kids then clammed up. That's why I cheat all the time.
Same here!
Ex-wife

Huntington, WV

#27 Jun 17, 2013
i know wrote:
ladies, you better keep that man happy at home. if you don't i assure you someone will. my wife didn't and i found it elsewhere. she kinda got a clue and stepped up her game at home for a few months but now she has fallen back into treating me like she is doing me the biggest favor ever if she stoops so low as to have sex with me. it makes me realize nothing ever really changes
This is a good warning. I once had a really good guy who worked hard and took care of me and our kids. I took him for granted for so long (I wasn't as nice as I could have been and I treated sex like a tool to be used only to get what I want). He eventually came to me and told me he wanted a divorce. He was gone that day and we haven't lived together since. While he still takes good care of the kids (pays child support and does all the extras), he also now has a new wife and they are very happy while I'm still alone. If I could go back, I would have tried harder to make him feel appreciated.

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