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anotherman

Huntington, WV

#1 Feb 13, 2014
Is it wrong to not like my girlfriends kid? He is sweet most of the time but can be a little B|tch. I love her but fu|k me running he can annoy me!
gary

Minford, OH

#2 Feb 13, 2014
no not at all. been there done that. makes it hard on the relationship though.
whist

United States

#3 Feb 13, 2014
anotherman wrote:
Is it wrong to not like my girlfriends kid? He is sweet most of the time but can be a little B|tch. I love her but fu|k me running he can annoy me!
You clearly aren't a Father figure nor do you want to be one, if you really dislike kids or just this particular kid, then you need to move on.
In the end you are just going to mess the child's life up, how would you like to have been raised by someone who didn't want you or like you?

So quit being an adult bitch, be a man find common ground with the child or get stepping.
anchorman

United States

#4 Feb 13, 2014
whist wrote:
<quoted text>You clearly aren't a Father figure nor do you want to be one, if you really dislike kids or just this particular kid, then you need to move on.
In the end you are just going to mess the child's life up, how would you like to have been raised by someone who didn't want you or like you?

So quit being an adult bitch, be a man find common ground with the child or get stepping.
Oh ok because I'm pretty sure I treat this kid as mine, nor do I strike or yell or get complacent with him. Your probably some woman who can't pick a good man to save your life. I do my part and work a job so this kid has everything. I don't dare treat this child any different because of the love I have for his mother. Just wanted a mans perspective not some woman who thinks all men are garbage because she spreads her legs like butter!
John Adkins

Huntington, WV

#5 Feb 13, 2014
anotherman wrote:
Is it wrong to not like my girlfriends kid? He is sweet most of the time but can be a little B|tch. I love her but fu|k me running he can annoy me!
My fiancé's son & I get along really well, I am closer to him than his father. The past 2 yrs, he has chosen not to go with him when it is his visitation & yes, it's caused some problems. But, he is at the age when he knows what he wants & I enjoy doing things with him & being active in his life.
whist

United States

#6 Feb 13, 2014
anchorman wrote:
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Oh ok because I'm pretty sure I treat this kid as mine, nor do I strike or yell or get complacent with him. Your probably some woman who can't pick a good man to save your life. I do my part and work a job so this kid has everything. I don't dare treat this child any different because of the love I have for his mother. Just wanted a mans perspective not some woman who thinks all men are garbage because she spreads her legs like butter!
Yea the girly bitch replied, you might want to ask your dad if he can borrow a pair of nuts from your mom, as he clearly doesn't have any to raise a sissy boy like you.
Did your mom dress you as a girl for most of your life? Sounds like you are still wearing a dress. Only a few of us men left, the homo and girly boy's are taken over.
anchorman

United States

#7 Feb 13, 2014
John Adkins wrote:
<quoted text>My fiancé's son & I get along really well, I am closer to him than his father. The past 2 yrs, he has chosen not to go with him when it is his visitation & yes, it's caused some problems. But, he is at the age when he knows what he wants & I enjoy doing things with him & being active in his life.
See he is still young and it's not like he is cool he just is whiny. I'm here day and day out and raise this boy as my own.. I never had a dad growing up so I'm not real sure what to do. This is all really new to me.. I'll figure it out.
anchorman

United States

#8 Feb 13, 2014
whist wrote:
<quoted text>Yea the girly bitch replied, you might want to ask your dad if he can borrow a pair of nuts from your mom, as he clearly doesn't have any to raise a sissy boy like you.
Did your mom dress you as a girl for most of your life? Sounds like you are still wearing a dress. Only a few of us men left, the homo and girly boy's are taken over.
Yah I bet your a real man.. I was asking people's opinion and your opinion blows ass dude. Your probably in your 40s and have to get hookers on the reg. I hope you get hit by a bus
whist

United States

#9 Feb 13, 2014
anchorman wrote:
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Yah I bet your a real man.. I was asking people's opinion and your opinion blows ass dude. Your probably in your 40s and have to get hookers on the reg. I hope you get hit by a bus
You ask for and got a man's opinion, you just didn't like it, as a girly boy, you really wanted a girly answer.

Like it's OK to call a small child a bitch, this is what all men do, well it's a lie. Only immature selfish girly boys like yourself does that.

As a man you wouldn't do that, as adult you wouldn't do that, only as a childish girly boy would you do that.
anchorman

United States

#10 Feb 13, 2014
whist wrote:
<quoted text>You ask for and got a man's opinion, you just didn't like it, as a girly boy, you really wanted a girly answer.

Like it's OK to call a small child a bitch, this is what all men do, well it's a lie. Only immature selfish girly boys like yourself does that.

As a man you wouldn't do that, as adult you wouldn't do that, only as a childish girly boy would you do that.
I give you that. Super poor word choice. I hate his dad and he acts so much like him.. I guess that's what gets to me.. I apologize and thank you
John Adkins

Huntington, WV

#11 Feb 13, 2014
anchorman wrote:
<quoted text>See he is still young and it's not like he is cool he just is whiny. I'm here day and day out and raise this boy as my own.. I never had a dad growing up so I'm not real sure what to do. This is all really new to me.. I'll figure it out.
Instant bonding won't happen over night, been working on it for almost 5yrs. But, as he has gotten older, we both have matured for the good. If you really care about the mother, then you'll have to learn to get along with the child. If not, might as well give it up before all 3 people involved get hurt. My father left when I was young, but my stepdad, was the best father I could have had, always put his love for my mother & siblings first. Best of luck to you.
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lmao

Clifton Forge, VA

#14 Feb 13, 2014
my2sense wrote:
No it's not wrong to hate the whiney brat.
He is not yours and you need to get rid of him.
This is what is natural, as animals in the wild will get rid of offspring which is not theirs.
Do your best to get on her good side and do your best to make the kid hate you behind her back.
Eventually, he will wind up with his real father if he is around or with his grand parents.
Hopefully he goes through CPS and foster care, can't stand whiney brat tards.
Omg! What an azz u are!!!!
anchorman

United States

#15 Feb 13, 2014
Getout Queerz wrote:
Generally, boyfriends and replacement husbands are not fond of a woman's kids. It is sad but true.

There are exceptions. You are probably just not family oriented or she does not make him behave or have taught

him respect and proper behavior.

That's why a lot of single women do not date or have relationships.

I think most women need to be very choosy about introducing their children to boyfriends. They create a lot of confusion for the child.

The boy could also be resenting that his father is not in the picture.
I really do my best.. I do like the kid. And I want him to love me. It just biters me that his dad doesn't do much.. Weekend warrior.
gary

Minford, OH

#16 Feb 14, 2014
i married a woman that had 4 kids. i already had 2. but when your in love , what can you do. 3 out of the four (hers) have gave me nothing but trouble. today they all call me dad, but i wish some of them wouldnt. some things you just cant forgive or forget. but we have been married 30 yrs now. if its what you need in your life? its worth fighting for.
John Adkins

Huntington, WV

#17 Feb 14, 2014
anchorman wrote:
<quoted text>I really do my best.. I do like the kid. And I want him to love me. It just biters me that his dad doesn't do much.. Weekend warrior.
There are a lot of dads that are the Weekend Warrior (if even that often). You have to remember that the kid probably wants approval & some love from his dad, over time the dad will find other things to do that is more important than the kid, just be there for him & more than likely your relationship will grow stronger. Before love, there has to be trust.
Huntington Citizen

Huntington, WV

#18 Feb 14, 2014
I'm glad my girlfriend has white kids. I don't like hip hop or pants on the ground.
wow

United States

#19 Feb 15, 2014
my2sense wrote:
No it's not wrong to hate the whiney brat.
He is not yours and you need to get rid of him.
This is what is natural, as animals in the wild will get rid of offspring which is not theirs.
Do your best to get on her good side and do your best to make the kid hate you behind her back.
Eventually, he will wind up with his real father if he is around or with his grand parents.
Hopefully he goes through CPS and foster care, can't stand whiney brat tards.
Im fu#@ing rolling here..lmao I honestly hope this is a joke bc its funny..if not then im goig to hell for laighing...
retarded

United States

#20 Feb 17, 2014
This is just a stupid forum whoever u are that started this u need to get your sh# and get out anyone that complains about a child like this doesn't deserve to be around them at all!!!!!
retarded

United States

#21 Feb 17, 2014
anotherman wrote:
Is it wrong to not like my girlfriends kid? He is sweet most of the time but can be a little B|tch. I love her but fu|k me running he can annoy me!
Pack your stuff and get gone!!!! You called a child a lil b''ch something is wrong with you and u don't need to b around children!!!!!!
Amy

Coraopolis, PA

#22 Feb 25, 2014
As a mother of two boys, would have to say, I think u should maybe leave. In the long run all three of u will be hurt and end up resenting each other. My oldest son has a biological father and step father. His biological father hasn't really been there much, even went to jail! His step father has been there for him since he was one. If u don't like the kid u need to leave. It takes a special kind of man to fill those shoes and it's obvious u are just not one of those kind of men.

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