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angry wife

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Feb 8, 2013
 

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would anyone consider it cheating if your husband texts and chats and emails with his ex girlfriend over 1500 messages during a month
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Feb 8, 2013
 
angry wife wrote:
would anyone consider it cheating if your husband texts and chats and emails with his ex girlfriend over 1500 messages during a month
I think it would depend on the topics of the texts, emails and chats. 50 per day seems excessive.
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Feb 8, 2013
 
YES MOST DEFINITELY!!!!!
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angry wife wrote:
would anyone consider it cheating if your husband texts and chats and emails with his ex girlfriend over 1500 messages during a month
No, just because they are texting, chating & emailing doesn't mean they're cheating. It just means they are talking. I text, chat & email married & single guys I know all the time & at all hours.
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Feb 8, 2013
 
He's cheating. People can say what they want about not knowing if he's banged her or not but that's irrelevant. That much conversation with an ex is cheating. Unless he has kids with her that have problems he needs to discuss. Other than that why not just call her in front if you if he has nothing to hide?
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Saint Albans, WV

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Feb 8, 2013
 
angry wife wrote:
would anyone consider it cheating if your husband texts and chats and emails with his ex girlfriend over 1500 messages during a month
Yes. That just isn't right.
Faithfool

Huntington, WV

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Feb 8, 2013
 
Doesn't sound right... How long has this been going on?
arngwife

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Feb 8, 2013
 
www.spectorsoft.com

It's worth it trust me! It's 4 phones and comps. Your spouse will never know.

It saved me a lot of pain!This way you could find out either way.
Faithfool

Huntington, WV

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Feb 8, 2013
 
arngwife wrote:
www.spectorsoft.com
It's worth it trust me! It's 4 phones and comps. Your spouse will never know.
It saved me a lot of pain!This way you could find out either way.
Not sure that's legal... Wouldn't it constitute a form of wiretapping?
KFC

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when u get my age it doesn't matter anyway. So I say GO 4 IT
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Feb 8, 2013
 
I think it would be hurtful regardless if he has actually slept with her or not. When I are married the two of u should become 1. I would be hurt if my husband was finding that much to talk about with another woman.
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Hurricane, WV

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#12
Feb 8, 2013
 
It's disrespectful to to anyone's wife if there husband did this! I wouldn't like it either! What if u were talking and texting to your ex all the time??!! You know damn well he wouldn't like it or put up with it! It's always different when the shoe is on the other foot. You treat people the way you want to be treated!!!
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Feb 8, 2013
 
Faithfool wrote:
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Not sure that's legal... Wouldn't it constitute a form of wiretapping?
NOPE...check it out on the net & similar companies. I did my research & besides its between spouses so it's all legal.
me me me

Huntington, WV

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Feb 9, 2013
 
I know if I'm texting someone that much, I'm gonna be getting something out of it. The guy is most likely banging her. Guys don't like to talk, let alone type that much. Maybe they're just FWB.
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Feb 9, 2013
 
Not cool....he should be spending time w you...and that is time w her....
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#16
Feb 9, 2013
 
I left my ex and he was seeing someone else and when he knew I was seeing someone else he would call and try to talk and wanted to get back together. So he played out like he did. Thank goodness I didn't listen to him. I really liked the new man in my life to much to do him that way!! I'm still with the new man til this day!!!

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Simply_Curious wrote:
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No, just because they are texting, chating & emailing doesn't mean they're cheating. It just means they are talking. I text, chat & email married & single guys I know all the time & at all hours.
How can you say no? Doesn't texting, etc take time? That is time they should be spending with their loved ones, not you or their ex and difinately not 50 times a day. If he has that much to say, pick up the phone, the old fashion way, and say what you have to say in just a few minutes, not a day. And if you're texting at all hours, you must not have any respect for the guys' relationships outside of his connection to you.
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I_m WoNdErInG wrote:
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How can you say no? Doesn't texting, etc take time? That is time they should be spending with their loved ones, not you or their ex and difinately not 50 times a day. If he has that much to say, pick up the phone, the old fashion way, and say what you have to say in just a few minutes, not a day. And if you're texting at all hours, you must not have any respect for the guys' relationships outside of his connection to you.
I'm not the type of girl that would have an affair, I'm just a friendly person that likes to talk & text with others.
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daughter

Huntington, WV

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Feb 10, 2013
 
pony9 wrote:
Just Do It :) then we will talk about it
What do u think of Cheating men? Do u think its ok?? Or do u think it says a lot for how a person was raised ? Just asking an opinion.......
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daughter

Huntington, WV

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Feb 10, 2013
 
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<quoted text>I think it's up to the person, and what you think is right or wrong,Most people get caught in the end, because one or the other falls in love, Then the trouble starts
Pony how do u knows when the person falls in love? What will the trouble be & how do u tell if its already to that point ?

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