Since: Aug 13

Lancaster, OH

#51 Aug 29, 2013
Husband who strayed wrote:
I hope to goodness she is pregnant and if she tries to ruin my marriage I will tell my wife that we can get a dna test to prove my innocence.
I do not want her causing my marriage to have problems or fall apart by calling my wife. It is over and I just want her to be gone. There were several people who saw her going nuts this morning so I think my word will hold up better than hers. There is no way I am going to confess a thing to my wife. There is zero proof as I always eliminated the "evidence" down the toilet when we were finished with our flings.
Sooo Happy now that this is all over :)
I would think that people seeing her going apeshit on you would be a negative. When word gets out that you were cheating, coworkers will remember this morning and wonder if it's true. They'll wonder why you didn't file a complaint or something regarding a hostile work place. In fact, if you really wanna cover your tracks, you should go to your boss and make a bogus report. You're already a skilled liar. Take it over the top...do whatever you can to cover your ass.

I seriously doubt you used protection...if you had, then you would have said so. "Not only did we always use protection, but I've had a vasectomy." but no, you only mentioned "getting fixed". Don't lie.

Pleased as punch with yourself, huh?

Since: Aug 13

Lancaster, OH

#52 Aug 29, 2013
God, I hope your mistress stumbles upon this post. How awesome would it be to hear HER side of it and see what all he has to say about her. Yesterday, he thought he may be falling for her "for real". Today, lol. Stupid cheating men.
its not love

Proctorville, OH

#53 Aug 29, 2013
scumdrop wrote:
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I would think that people seeing her going apeshit on you would be a negative. When word gets out that you were cheating, coworkers will remember this morning and wonder if it's true. They'll wonder why you didn't file a complaint or something regarding a hostile work place. In fact, if you really wanna cover your tracks, you should go to your boss and make a bogus report. You're already a skilled liar. Take it over the top...do whatever you can to cover your ass.
I seriously doubt you used protection...if you had, then you would have said so. "Not only did we always use protection, but I've had a vasectomy." but no, you only mentioned "getting fixed". Don't lie.
Pleased as punch with yourself, huh?
In one of his above posts he did say that he got rid of the evidence by flushing it down the tolit..
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Army Chick

Lavalette, WV

#56 Aug 29, 2013
Husband who strayed wrote:
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I am an idiot.
Agreed
Army Chick

Lavalette, WV

#57 Aug 29, 2013
I think the op is a serial liar. He had a secret phone and threw it away to conceal his cheating a$$. Gifted liar for sure. I hope his wife finds out the truth. As a woman, I feel so terrible for her. Didn't he say he had kids. Wonder how they would feel if they found out their dad was a LIAR AND CHEAT.
oh bull

Lancaster, OH

#58 Aug 29, 2013
Husband who strayed wrote:
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Thank you both for your input.
I am not proud by any means.
I had a vasectomy years ago however I used protection just to protect from potential issues. Even a vasectomy is not foolproof, although close.
I guess in many ways, I am the cause of this. I knew she was flirting with me and it made me feel awesome. It was like I was a teenager again. I got wrapped up in this feeling of elation / lust and lost track of how my wife might feel should she discover my infidelity.
I do not see any reason to let her know now. I think my best bet is to play the odds and see if the other woman tries to tell on me.
I did not need to file a complaint at work. One of the blue shirts saw her and pulled her into h.r. and since it is her word against mine, she got in trouble for flipping out lol. She has zero proof of anything. She made herself look like a nut, for real. H.r. told her to stay away from me during work hours and not to bring her personal issues into the workplace.
I had a few people ask me about it but I told them she went crazy because I had been spurning her advances so she looks wacky. I played the victim and garnered a lot of sympathy from those around me. I am sure someone will make a wisecrack about the episode to my wife. I am prepared for this. I am going to tell my wife I did not tell her that the other woman kept hitting on me because I did not want her worrying about someone I had no feelings of attraction to. I think my wife will believe me over someone she has never met.
That's a great idea on the home décor fib. I will use that if needed.
Your wife will not believe that "fib". Seriously..think about it. Why would you ask someone who doesn't know your wife's tastes? C'mon, now.
Luther

Chesapeake, VA

#59 Aug 29, 2013
My wife used to chest on me 8 or 10 times per month, now it is about 3 times a month, so yes, she is getting better and I feel good about our marriage, I believe it will last if I can just hang in there a while longer, causer she is improving.
its not love

Proctorville, OH

#60 Aug 29, 2013
oh bull wrote:
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Your wife will not believe that "fib". Seriously..think about it. Why would you ask someone who doesn't know your wife's tastes? C'mon, now.
have you ever heard of general conversation, and its THEIR bedroom why should it be what the wife likes?
oh bull

Lancaster, OH

#61 Aug 29, 2013
Ya know, you're right. That is a PERFECT excuse for why she knows everything about your bedroom. Use it. But be warned that women knows details. If this scumbag's mistress tells his wife, she's going to go into more details than what would be in a photo of a bedroom. Plus, if you're redecorating, you don't show a photo of the room in it's current state. You'd show someone photos of what the options are. "Do you like this or this more?".

But then again, maybe I'm wrong. Gie it a whirl and let us know how that goes over.
oh bull

Lancaster, OH

#62 Aug 29, 2013
Also, if you're redecorating to "surprise" your wife, you're not going to decorate to your own tastes. IF that was the case, why would he need a woman's opinion.

Women look into every little thing. If it comes out and there is speculation, this is a weak excuse.
Army Chick

Lavalette, WV

#63 Aug 29, 2013
oh bull wrote:
Also, if you're redecorating to "surprise" your wife, you're not going to decorate to your own tastes. IF that was the case, why would he need a woman's opinion.
Women look into every little thing. If it comes out and there is speculation, this is a weak excuse.
Some people do not want to see the truth and will believe a lie. Hope she is not naïve enough to believe his lies.
Be ashamed

Greenville, VA

#64 Aug 29, 2013
Husband who strayed wrote:
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Thanks.
I was very careful about her being able to prove anything. I had a ghost / burner phone (prepaid throwaway cell) that "accidentally" fell in the river. It is gone thank goodness.
I never sent any pics of myself, I only received pics of her on the burner phone. If she tried to show my wife the texts from the burner phone, she can't prove they are from me so I am in the clear there.
She might be able to describe our bedroom and home as I had her over 2 times while my wife was out of town with the kids. That will be hard to explain but I will just say that she knew my wife was out of town due to a casual conversation.
The times we were at a hotel, I used a pre-paid credit card from walmart so I know there are no receipts that can come back and bite me either.
I will definitely get tested for std's. That's a good idea.
I doubt she really is pregnant, but if she is, it simply shows that I am not the father and she was doing someone else while I was doing her. Honestly, that makes me upset because I thought I was her only one, but whatever. I just want to cover my bases for now. I still think denial is better than admitting anything should she try to contact my wife.
ok. I'm shocke that you had the other woman at your house! In you and your wife's bed!! I know sometimes one can cheat w/o intending to hurt the other person: but in my mind a fantasie should be played out somewhere unfamiliar like the hotel rooms. But bringing it home is just adding insult to injury! That's a sacred place and I'm not a man so all I can do is assume if I were and did that. I wouldn't even be able to perform! Yes cheating was bad and awful. But in you and your wife's bed is sick. Not trying to beat you up. Just think that made what u did even worse!
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RFID Chipper

Brooklyn, NY

#66 Aug 29, 2013
Quit now before you lose it all.
Be ashamed

Greenville, VA

#67 Aug 29, 2013
Well I'm glad that you (hopefully) aren't going to get caught. And I agree with another poster. You should get an exam to check for STD's. IF the girl really is pregnant then she obviously was sleeping around and even with a condom some std's can still be transmitted. That would be another hurdle. Don't mean to scare you... BUT, what if u did contract something and have it to your wife!! Um that would be hard to explain and cover. See this is why cheating is so so risky! After all this I'm sure you have learned its not worth it. Spice it up with the wife and be thankful u didn't lose her.
opera fan

Saint Albans, WV

#68 Aug 29, 2013
Sad world.
Really

Branchland, WV

#69 Aug 29, 2013
Can u all not tell this is a troll story? Geez
Hammie Downs

Richmond, VA

#70 Aug 29, 2013
Really wrote:
Can u all not tell this is a troll story? Geez
They want it to be true. It helps deal with their own failures.
barb

Saint Albans, WV

#71 Aug 29, 2013
Really wrote:
Can u all not tell this is a troll story? Geez
How can people tell? It sounds legit.
No sympathy here

Proctorville, OH

#72 Aug 29, 2013
Husband who strayed wrote:
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I do not expect anyone to understand.
Oh, it's understood just fine. You betrayed your wife out of boredom. You got a case of the guilts and wanted to go back to pretending you have a shred of honor. Instead of privately telling your fling it's over, you act like a chickenshit and tell her at work. She takes it badly (I'm guessing you had told her you were starting to have feelings for her). Then you gleefully embarass and discredit her to her co-workers and employer. Sound about right?
duh

Apollo, PA

#73 Aug 30, 2013
No sympathy here wrote:
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Oh, it's understood just fine. You betrayed your wife out of boredom. You got a case of the guilts and wanted to go back to pretending you have a shred of honor. Instead of privately telling your fling it's over, you act like a chickenshit and tell her at work. She takes it badly (I'm guessing you had told her you were starting to have feelings for her). Then you gleefully embarass and discredit her to her co-workers and employer. Sound about right?
In his defense he's trying to save his marriage plus the lady sounds bizarre telling him she's suddenly gotten pregnant. He's lucky to dump her now.

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