Help me please I am Cheating with CoWorker

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Aug 28, 2013
 
Bet u work at the VA administration on 4th Ave
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Because of your reference to a marriage and the assumption you're from we and follow our traditions I'm going to assume the vows you made to your wife were in a church with a member of clergy officiating. So really you need to get back to that point. You started your relationship with a vow that included God. Seems to me you need to include him again. I've personally seen God completely turn situations like this around for the good because someone who'd stepped away from him went back and prayed. You need to pray for yourself that God becomes your #1. Then you need to pray that he'll take those adulterous feelings you have for someone else and place them with your wife where they belong in his eyes anyway. If you trust that he can do that, it'll happen and not only that, you'll marriage will be better than it ever was because God is running the show.
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HELLO TO YOU ALL OUT HERE,

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My name is Vanessa i am from Bakersfield North America am here to testify the great work of doctor ZUMBA,ZUMBA is a powerful spell caster who helped me in getting the love of my life back,i and my boyfriend were in a relationship for over 10 years since our high school days we live and grow up together as one we love and care for each other so much,we assist each other in time of problems and financial needs i love him with the most deepest part of my heart i never thought that any thing could happened between both of us,so after schooling we graduated same year we were both working and we earn good money monthly the most surprising part of it was that my boyfriend never thought of we getting marry in mind i thought that is not yet time for that,because we love each other in my believe he can never betrayed me,so few years back i raved to USA to pay my uncle a visit i spent 2 months their so when i return i discovered that my boyfriend is having an affair with some one else this person am talking about happen to be his manager in the company were he works so i believe she most have use her money and her fiances to get him,i feel the world was over for me because they were even planning to get marry very soon i was confuse i don't know what to do because i can't afford to loose him to another woman after 14 years of our relationship so now is time for we to come together as one family bring up our children together now he what to live me and go for another how can i love again? i was about drugging my self to death one day i feat sick my parents took me to the hospital for treatment i spent 3 days in the hospital the doctor said to my parents that am under going a broken heart through the hands of a trusted love one,i latter head that my ex boyfriend and his new lover are about getting married,i cried day and night every day of my life i feel like living this world because i don't have any reason living again on this planner called earth,one day the nurse that was taking care of me when i was in the hospital came to visit me at home i told her all my stories about my broken heart from a trusted lover,she feel petty for me and she advise me,she introduce me to an online spell caster called DOCTOR ZUMBA who also help her when she was having problem in her marriage,i followed DOCTOR ZUMBA online and i obeyed him and i did every thing he ask me to do he is a kind man and he is harmless,DOCTOR ZUMBA cast a spell for me after 7 days my ex boyfriend came back to me and beg me for forgiveness,so 2 months latter we got married as am talking to you all now we are the best couple so far,spell is real and there are still real spell caster,all thanks to DOCTOR ZUMBA,if you need his help you can email him with this email: zumbaspelltemple@gmail.com
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Do what makes you feel better bro. Don't get to hard on yourself.
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Aug 28, 2013
 
Husband who strayed wrote:
I am lost.

I am having an affair with a woman who is much younger than me. I work with her. I have been married for a long time (20+years).

My wife has not really done anything to cause me to stray, but there is a lack of passion between us. I want to cut it off with the younger woman but I feel so alive when we are together. It is crazy. The conversations, the touching. It is so passionate but on the other hand, I do not want to hurt my wife.

Idk why I am on here venting, but I can't tell anyone I know about this.

How can I get rid of these feelings of excitement I have for my co-worker? I want my marriage to feel like this again. Grrr. I hate this.
DO U WORK AT BATEMAN?
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#34
Aug 28, 2013
 
As an ex-wife that had to kick out a cheater while she was pregnant with 3 kids already, sod off. Are you looking for sympathy here? Own up to it...tell your wife and see what SHE wants to do. It's HER relationship now.You forfeit any say so when you broke your vows. If you really want to feel something with your wife again, like you said earlier, you're going to have to tell her.
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Aug 29, 2013
 
sickening wrote:
As an ex-wife that had to kick out a cheater while she was pregnant with 3 kids already, sod off. Are you looking for sympathy here? Own up to it...tell your wife and see what SHE wants to do. It's HER relationship now.You forfeit any say so when you broke your vows. If you really want to feel something with your wife again, like you said earlier, you're going to have to tell her.
Seems like the guy wants to do right at this point. Sorry about what happened to you.
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if you like what u r doing than keep doing it but keep it on the down low. nothing wrong with enjoying life provided you can control it and keep it secret.
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Aug 29, 2013
 
Husband who strayed wrote:
I am lost.
I am having an affair with a woman who is much younger than me. I work with her. I have been married for a long time (20+years).
My wife has not really done anything to cause me to stray, but there is a lack of passion between us. I want to cut it off with the younger woman but I feel so alive when we are together. It is crazy. The conversations, the touching. It is so passionate but on the other hand, I do not want to hurt my wife.
Idk why I am on here venting, but I can't tell anyone I know about this.
How can I get rid of these feelings of excitement I have for my co-worker? I want my marriage to feel like this again. Grrr. I hate this.
Do you work for the BOE as an administrator or teacher?
BOE Employee

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#38
Aug 29, 2013
 
Or is the lady you are involved with a teacher?
UareIdiots

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BOE Employee wrote:
Or is the lady you are involved with a teacher?
Ummm.. my guess is the guy is not gonna reveal where he works!! lol He'd be crazy to do that!
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#40
Aug 29, 2013
 
My husband betrayed me n our children I have so much anger I want to hurt him physical as he did me emotionally mentally n verbally n the women just as much because it took 2 and they knew he was taken. Homewreckers. I never broke my vows now I don't ever want to marry again. If u truly loved ur wife n devoted ur efforts to ur marriage instead of your penis u wouldn't have strayed. You thought with the wrong head. Goodluck.
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Husband who strayed wrote:
I am lost.
I am having an affair with a woman who is much younger than me. I work with her. I have been married for a long time (20+years).
My wife has not really done anything to cause me to stray, but there is a lack of passion between us. I want to cut it off with the younger woman but I feel so alive when we are together. It is crazy. The conversations, the touching. It is so passionate but on the other hand, I do not want to hurt my wife.
Idk why I am on here venting, but I can't tell anyone I know about this.
How can I get rid of these feelings of excitement I have for my co-worker? I want my marriage to feel like this again. Grrr. I hate this.
Are you actually asking these nit-witts to help you? Lmao at you, Tehehehe
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Aug 29, 2013
 
Husband who strayed wrote:
I hope to goodness she is pregnant and if she tries to ruin my marriage I will tell my wife that we can get a dna test to prove my innocence.

I do not want her causing my marriage to have problems or fall apart by calling my wife. It is over and I just want her to be gone. There were several people who saw her going nuts this morning so I think my word will hold up better than hers. There is no way I am going to confess a thing to my wife. There is zero proof as I always eliminated the "evidence" down the toilet when we were finished with our flings.

Sooo Happy now that this is all over :)
Yeah you work in the looney hospital or your a past employee from Bateman that wants to make bs up!
If you don't work there you should you would fit in with us!
WaytoGo

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Aug 29, 2013
 
Husband who strayed wrote:
**BEST NEWS EVER**.
I have dodged a bullet. I told her this morning that we cant see each other any more. She flipped out. Straight up, no joke went all ballistic.
She said she pregnant! I AM NOT ABLE TO FATHER A CHILD. I was fixed a long time ago so if she is telling the truth, it is not my kid.
This is awesome news as she has no proof I ever did a thing with her. I am not going to tell my wife anything and if she calls her to tell on me, I am going to DENY DENY DENY. There is no proof.
After seeing how crazy she went, my feelings for her vaporized lol. I swear I have not felt so relieved in a very long time.
I am not telling anyone where I work btw.
How ironic that the morning you dump her, she says she's pregnant? My guess is that she was just telling you that to try and make you stay and love the twist that you can't have kids. Hopefully she doesn't have texts or emails that she can trace back to you. Now that she is gone, focus on your marriage. Put some romance back into your life. Go back to the time that you met your wife...what made you fall in love with her?? What about you made her fall in love with you? Maybe your the one that has changed and she has changed to accommodate having to deal with you. I don't mean that in a bad way, just saying. Maybe she has had to distance herself to keep her sanity bc you have changed. Plus, you being intimate with another woman, I would say you were very stand-offish with your wife. How would you expect her to act? Marriage is a two-way street. You both have to work at it every day. Good luck to you! Hope the co-worker doesn't turn into a psycho stalker!!!!
its not love

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Husband who strayed wrote:
I hope to goodness she is pregnant and if she tries to ruin my marriage I will tell my wife that we can get a dna test to prove my innocence.
I do not want her causing my marriage to have problems or fall apart by calling my wife. It is over and I just want her to be gone. There were several people who saw her going nuts this morning so I think my word will hold up better than hers. There is no way I am going to confess a thing to my wife. There is zero proof as I always eliminated the "evidence" down the toilet when we were finished with our flings.
Sooo Happy now that this is all over :)
glad that this has ended for you in a good way, however no need for a DNA test if your fixed, but if she's been sleepin with someone else other than you, you should consider getting tested for std's etc.. don't give something to your wife she didn't ask for.. good luck
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I hope you have HPV. I feel so sorry for your wife, though.
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deserve it wrote:
I hope you have HPV. I feel so sorry for your wife, though.
I think the guy is a jerk as well plus I detest him, but to wish someone a disease? Come on, that's going too far.
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Husband who strayed wrote:
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Thanks.
I was very careful about her being able to prove anything. I had a ghost / burner phone (prepaid throwaway cell) that "accidentally" fell in the river. It is gone thank goodness.
I never sent any pics of myself, I only received pics of her on the burner phone. If she tried to show my wife the texts from the burner phone, she can't prove they are from me so I am in the clear there.
She might be able to describe our bedroom and home as I had her over 2 times while my wife was out of town with the kids. That will be hard to explain but I will just say that she knew my wife was out of town due to a casual conversation.
The times we were at a hotel, I used a pre-paid credit card from walmart so I know there are no receipts that can come back and bite me either.
I will definitely get tested for std's. That's a good idea.
I doubt she really is pregnant, but if she is, it simply shows that I am not the father and she was doing someone else while I was doing her. Honestly, that makes me upset because I thought I was her only one, but whatever. I just want to cover my bases for now. I still think denial is better than admitting anything should she try to contact my wife.
Alot of good thinking on your part covering all bases, but what you said that it made you upset that you thought you was her only one, as an example: that is the same way your wife would probably feel as well, since you have gotten rid of her now, I dont think that I would tell my spouse either, however its wrong to lie to your spouse and not be truthful.. I hope that you have learned a great lesson from all this, and also if the woman tries to contact your wife and tell her she knows what your bedroom/home looks like you can always tell her you was thinking of suprising her with new bedroom decor and you showed her pictures to get a womans opinion.. good luck

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