My bf is a pill head and I dont no wh...
stressed
#22 Nov 19, 2012
_Marksman_ wrote:
Sorry, he'll continue to use you and lie. Only he can change and it's apparent that he doesn't want to.
...... sad thing is your probably right, and I really dont no how much more I can take of it, I hate being lied to all the time, and if he's always lying about that what else could he be lying about, my trust for him is gone, I just cant believe anything he says any more
trudy

United States

#23 Nov 20, 2012
Why is this a hard decision? Leave him now, especially if you have children with him.

Leave. Now. No, not later, now. Whoever you are, you deserve better.
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Level 9

Since: Jan 08

Location hidden

#25 Nov 20, 2012
break up with him
Harley Davidson

Bluefield, WV

#26 Nov 20, 2012
I would love to talk to you and tell you some of the things I went through with my ex wife,and didnt have a clue that she was on drugs. Damn Was I ever played a fool. You would be suprised and shocked on some things that she was doing to me,and me unaware of this.and the money she went through.You would be really shocked.
stressed

Proctorville, OH

#27 Nov 20, 2012
Recovered pillhead wrote:
If he really wants to help himself and get off them without professional help he can ween himself off. If he stops immediately it can cause seizures, muscle contractions, convulsions, etc. weening was the easiest for me. Its a hard road but can be done with determination. I would go for longer minutes, then hours, then dropped my dosage and so on. There were times I literally watched the second hand on the clock, but its worth it in the end. People dont realise how much pain the pills actually cause. Its crazy, but when your off of them you feel a million times better. Hope this helps someone. Good luck.
Thank you, he is going thru the stomach cramps now
Recovered pillhead

United States

#28 Nov 20, 2012
stressed wrote:
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Thank you, he is going thru the stomach cramps now
The day I realized I had a problem was the day I ran out completely and I hit the floor in a seizure. Then after the seizure was over with the muscle contractions started. I called my husband crying, begging him to leave work to find me pills. He didnt know how bad I actually was till he got home and found me. From that day forward was a long rough road. It took me 6 months and I finally got off. If I could go from where I was then to where I am now, then anyone can. Good luck
stressed

Proctorville, OH

#29 Nov 20, 2012
Recovered pillhead wrote:
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The day I realized I had a problem was the day I ran out completely and I hit the floor in a seizure. Then after the seizure was over with the muscle contractions started. I called my husband crying, begging him to leave work to find me pills. He didnt know how bad I actually was till he got home and found me. From that day forward was a long rough road. It took me 6 months and I finally got off. If I could go from where I was then to where I am now, then anyone can. Good luck
I'm so very glad that you are able to over-come this habit, I want my bf to as well, but it is hard to deal with the money that is involved is unreal and the stress that the partner (myself) has to go thru, I will be honest I do not want to leave I want to be able to help him but if he is not willing to help his-self then there is no way that I can, I want to give the chance that he is telling the truth, this is the first time that he has tried to quit, thank you for your support
Wonder

Harts, WV

#30 Nov 20, 2012
stressed wrote:
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I'm so very glad that you are able to over-come this habit, I want my bf to as well, but it is hard to deal with the money that is involved is unreal and the stress that the partner (myself) has to go thru, I will be honest I do not want to leave I want to be able to help him but if he is not willing to help his-self then there is no way that I can, I want to give the chance that he is telling the truth, this is the first time that he has tried to quit, thank you for your support
Is his name Jeff????
Truth Flinger

Elkview, WV

#31 Nov 20, 2012
Leave his lying, pill snorting, pathetic excuse for a human being, buttocks.

Just leave.

You deserve better.
Recovered pillhead

United States

#32 Nov 20, 2012
stressed wrote:
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I'm so very glad that you are able to over-come this habit, I want my bf to as well, but it is hard to deal with the money that is involved is unreal and the stress that the partner (myself) has to go thru, I will be honest I do not want to leave I want to be able to help him but if he is not willing to help his-self then there is no way that I can, I want to give the chance that he is telling the truth, this is the first time that he has tried to quit, thank you for your support
Trust me, he has to want to quit with everything in him to do it. If not, its not gonna work. And if he doesnt want to quit, then maybe u should leave him, because its just going to get worse. The more u take, the more u hurt, the more u hurt, the more u take. Its a never ending cycle, and he has to want to reak that cycle in order to quit. U cant do it for him.

Since: Aug 12

Huntington, WV

#33 Nov 20, 2012
stressed wrote:
<quoted text>...... sad thing is your probably right, and I really dont no how much more I can take of it, I hate being lied to all the time, and if he's always lying about that what else could he be lying about, my trust for him is gone, I just cant believe anything he says any more
You need to seriously take sometime to yourself and consider where in life you want to be. With an individual that makes you miserable, lying constantly, abusing medication, drugs (maybe both) or would you rather leave that life behind? The choice is yours, only can give advise.
trudy

United States

#34 Nov 20, 2012
Are you going to leave the pill head?
Aleathia

Front Royal, VA

#35 Nov 20, 2012
I feel for you, we are doing the weaning right now! Best of luck whatever your decision is.
Recovered pillhead

United States

#36 Nov 20, 2012
Aleathia wrote:
I feel for you, we are doing the weaning right now! Best of luck whatever your decision is.
Good luck to you! I know how hard it is! But trust me, its well worth it in the end!
?? seriously

Springfield, NJ

#37 Nov 21, 2012
Run dumbass! Unless you want to loose everything you own, even your sanity!! No win situation with a pill head! I know too many!! Truth is, they don't want help! Again I scream....RUN!!!

Level 2

Since: Jun 11

Earth

#38 Nov 21, 2012
stressed wrote:
Any postive comments would be good, but how do you deal with it when you support them in stopping give them your all, and they go behind your back and lie to you and get drugs anyway, then you get the 3rd degree for being in their business.
If he's just your boyfriend then walk away and don't look back.
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shelly

Nashville, TN

#40 Nov 22, 2012
stressed wrote:
Any postive comments would be good, but how do you deal with it when you support them in stopping give them your all, and they go behind your back and lie to you and get drugs anyway, then you get the 3rd degree for being in their business.
It's a boyfriend not a husband, leave

“Often copied, never duplicated”

Level 8

Since: Nov 11

BelAir, CA

#41 Nov 22, 2012
Join him. MIsery loves company.
Been there

Huntington, WV

#42 Nov 23, 2012
I had a boyfriend with the same problem. He did go to the 12 steps program (several times) Also went to drug rehab. Got right back on them. Had his own business, which was doing well. Lost it. Wrecked 2 vehicles in 2 months(totaled)Watched him lay and sweat and vomit to get clean. Tried to feed him healthy meals and got him to go walking with me in the evenings. He went back every time.I said that is it. Can't live like this. Stole from his parents, even pushed his own mother down while stealing their TV and eventually attacked me one afternoon when I came home from work as I was going into my house.His eyes were stone cold. Inhuman. Threw me down and stole my pocketbook.Had a baseball bat at my house and threatened to bash my head in. I had to get an order of protection. Get away!If it comes down to you or the dope it will be the pills!
Been there

Huntington, WV

#43 Nov 23, 2012
Do what is best for YOU! Because he probably cares more about his pills than you! He may say he is not doing them and then you may find cut up straws in his car or things he uses to crush pills up in his pockets. Maybe even pills in his pockets. I found pills in a mentos container once. He was on oxy's but also got other pills when he couldn't get them. Xanax, valium, loratab ... whatever. He will lie to you. Pinpoint pupils is a good indication. Just get away and see if he straightens up. Don't be his victim!That is what you are right now. He is blowing money and making you hurt and suffer!

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