My bf is a pill head and I dont no wh...

My bf is a pill head and I dont no what to do,

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stressed

Proctorville, OH

#1 Nov 19, 2012
Any postive comments would be good, but how do you deal with it when you support them in stopping give them your all, and they go behind your back and lie to you and get drugs anyway, then you get the 3rd degree for being in their business.
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#3 Nov 19, 2012
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i understand

Medina, OH

#5 Nov 19, 2012
Try getting him into the Healing Place in Huntington, its free and they can help him only if he wants the help. Phone # is in the Phonebook.....Good Luck!
Roy

Ardsley, NY

#6 Nov 19, 2012
He'll only get help if he wants it. I been through the same thing. They'll tell you anything you want to hear and go behind your back and keep on doin what they do.
Don't know your whole situation but my advice is RUN! If you're not married and no kids are involved, RUN like your trying to win a gold medal. Life is too short.
Harley Davidson

Bluefield, WV

#7 Nov 19, 2012
stressed wrote:
Any postive comments would be good, but how do you deal with it when you support them in stopping give them your all, and they go behind your back and lie to you and get drugs anyway, then you get the 3rd degree for being in their business.
Im sorry for you baby. But your best bet would be to get rid of him and run as fast as you can. It will only get worse as time goes by. Trut me,I went through it with an ex wife. She went through thousands of dollars before I found out about it. I have been in business for several years and she had a very good life. she never wanted for anything and she always had the best of everything. Now shes living in a low income apartment and driving a car about 10 years old.people cannoy believe how hard and fast she went down.But she choose it.I hate it for her,It really hurt me so bad and I had a hard time getting over her,But I survived.I begged and pleaded for her to go to the best rehab in the US,and she denied she needed help.I really feel for you. But youre fighting a loseing battle.
Mil

Huntington, WV

#8 Nov 19, 2012
Leave him
stressed
#9 Nov 19, 2012
Thanks you guys for being honest, it is so unreal what has happened in the 5 years we been together, but in the past year it has really gotten worse, he has taken money from his mother that she new nothing about and now is almost wipped out, he has until this friday to be off the things or else she will press charges, he says I dont no what he's going thru and I dont, but as I told him many times I cant help if you go behind my back, I will mention to him to get the professional help, if he denys it I will no he is not serious. and we are not married an we have no kids together, thanks again
safe

Wexford, PA

#10 Nov 19, 2012
is his name eric ?
Advice

Novi, MI

#11 Nov 19, 2012
With no children or marriage my advice is get away from him. I've seen/heard everything under the sun. If I didn't have children with this person I would have, and I still may. They won't get help until they are ready. Unfortunately sometimes death comes before that ever happens. Move on with your life sweetheart.
stressed
#12 Nov 19, 2012
safe wrote:
is his name eric ?
No
wifey to be

Huntington, WV

#13 Nov 19, 2012
I wouldn't call my fiance a pill head but he has his problem but he's not addicted yet thank God but his Mowas for years now she's clean and has been for 2yrs but anyways if I was in your situation I would set him down and throw out there some options that he has like another poster said or tell him about prestera they will help him too. I hope everything gets better for you good luck they will change if they want to
stressed
#14 Nov 19, 2012
wifey to be wrote:
I wouldn't call my fiance a pill head but he has his problem but he's not addicted yet thank God but his Mowas for years now she's clean and has been for 2yrs but anyways if I was in your situation I would set him down and throw out there some options that he has like another poster said or tell him about prestera they will help him too. I hope everything gets better for you good luck they will change if they want to
my bf hurt his shoulder and got put on them was on them about two years and then the doctor cut him off, now that he's addicted to them he has to have them, I do love him dearly and only pray that he will get help, because I dont think that he can do it on his own, as far as you your finace he needs to ween himself off or it will get worse, its not fun to go thru because they think that your the one with the problem they accuse you of getting in their business even if your a couple, he will try to hide things from you.
out wayne

Ironton, OH

#15 Nov 19, 2012
Simple. Leave him. Duh!!!!
Concern

Powell, OH

#16 Nov 19, 2012
Does he have family that you can talk to and all of you together can get him into rehab ? I don't know your name but I will say a prayer for you tonight.
stressed
#17 Nov 19, 2012
Concern wrote:
Does he have family that you can talk to and all of you together can get him into rehab ? I don't know your name but I will say a prayer for you tonight.
......... no there is no family that we can talk to, if we were to talk to the family it would be really bad, he already feels like he's not part of the family because his mother stepped out on her husband when he was concieved, and she wasnt sure of the father, which also bothers him, I really want to help him so thank you for your prayers they are much needed
..

United States

#18 Nov 19, 2012
safe wrote:
is his name eric ?
What eric are you talking about?

Since: Aug 12

Glasgow, WV

#19 Nov 19, 2012
Sorry, he'll continue to use you and lie. Only he can change and it's apparent that he doesn't want to.
stressed
#20 Nov 19, 2012
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What eric are you talking about?[/QUOTE]...... I told you no, his name is not eric
Recovered pillhead

United States

#21 Nov 19, 2012
If he really wants to help himself and get off them without professional help he can ween himself off. If he stops immediately it can cause seizures, muscle contractions, convulsions, etc. weening was the easiest for me. Its a hard road but can be done with determination. I would go for longer minutes, then hours, then dropped my dosage and so on. There were times I literally watched the second hand on the clock, but its worth it in the end. People dont realise how much pain the pills actually cause. Its crazy, but when your off of them you feel a million times better. Hope this helps someone. Good luck.

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