Abandoned my wife and kids today

Abandoned my wife and kids today

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walk away dad

United States

#1 Dec 24, 2013
After 17 years of my wife's belittling and the kids learning it from her, I left them today. I warned and warned her for years that one day I'd do it and today I went berserk. She made her last complaint about me and my kids joined in. I told them all to go to %=×%, packed my clothes and split. I'm never going back. I'll be darned if I send one dime to them. I hope that they lose the house and car cause I am no longer paying a darned penny towards the flipping loans. So long. I feel extremely liberated.
hershy hi-way

Saint Louis, MO

#2 Dec 24, 2013
did you give her ana*L sex before you dropped the bomb?
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sartila

West Newton, PA

#4 Dec 24, 2013
walk away dad wrote:
After 17 years of my wife's belittling and the kids learning it from her, I left them today. I warned and warned her for years that one day I'd do it and today I went berserk. She made her last complaint about me and my kids joined in. I told them all to go to %=×%, packed my clothes and split. I'm never going back. I'll be darned if I send one dime to them. I hope that they lose the house and car cause I am no longer paying a darned penny towards the flipping loans. So long. I feel extremely liberated.
should have waited until after the holidays bro. Spineless move imo.
RRr

Jackson, WI

#5 Dec 24, 2013
Good for you! I am going through the same thing. Conciderating the same thing. Just disappear.
Lindy Ann

Huntington, WV

#6 Dec 24, 2013
I'm not judging, but it's not your children's fault that they took after traits of their mother. What if the shoe was on the other foot and they were more like you than her? I don't know how old your children are, but I think you'll probably end up regretting abandoning them, especially if they are younger. If their mom is shitty, so be it, kick her to the curb. But you chose to make children with her and you have to own up to that. And from what you've posted, abandoning them would just prove your wife's point (you're worthless etc ) and probably end up emotionally bothering them also.
blackhairedhotti e

Ashburn, VA

#7 Dec 24, 2013
this is sad.
Troll

Lynchburg, VA

#8 Dec 24, 2013
Quit attention seeking. Troll post.
sympathizer

Chesapeake, OH

#9 Dec 24, 2013
Your wife and kids don't respect you. You've not been the man of the house. Tell that disrespectful nag of a wife how it's gonna be. Whip them kids into shape and let them know who's boss. You've let things slip. Time to man up and wear the pants in the household for a change. They don't like it? Too bad. The man has had enough. But by leaving and not taking care of the situation ... you lose. You'll always be a loser, and you'll regret this decision if you don't step up and put her in her place. You can get through this, but it comes down to what you are willing to do about it? Walking out is pussing out. Be a man. Be the man.
crazy

Nellis, WV

#10 Dec 24, 2013
Justin Cardwell is this you?
walk away dad

Saint Albans, WV

#11 Dec 25, 2013
16 and 15 year old smart mouth twits like their mother. I could not take it anymore. Either I left or I was going to hurt them. Telling me I'm not making enough money in front of my girls and then they joined in agreeing with their mom...it's all I could do to not hit them all. Yes I know that they don't respect me. At least now I won't be hearing their bitc%y nagging any more. I've never been so confident in a decision as I am this one. I promise I hope they lose the roof over their heads. They are undeserving of happiness.
NSA

Bowie, MD

#12 Dec 25, 2013
walk away dad wrote:
16 and 15 year old smart mouth twits like their mother. I could not take it anymore. Either I left or I was going to hurt them. Telling me I'm not making enough money in front of my girls and then they joined in agreeing with their mom...it's all I could do to not hit them all. Yes I know that they don't respect me. At least now I won't be hearing their bitc%y nagging any more. I've never been so confident in a decision as I am this one. I promise I hope they lose the roof over their heads. They are undeserving of happiness.
Ok, you walked away for your own piece of mind. But once they are out of your life, why wish that they suffer. Move on and wish them well or it is you that will continue to suffer and shows that you contributed to the rotten family relationships. Leave and find peace.
youre disgusting

Pittsburgh, PA

#13 Dec 25, 2013
walk away dad wrote:
16 and 15 year old smart mouth twits like their mother. I could not take it anymore. Either I left or I was going to hurt them. Telling me I'm not making enough money in front of my girls and then they joined in agreeing with their mom...it's all I could do to not hit them all. Yes I know that they don't respect me. At least now I won't be hearing their bitc%y nagging any more. I've never been so confident in a decision as I am this one. I promise I hope they lose the roof over their heads. They are undeserving of happiness.
Any man who would wish bad things to happen to kids is a POS disgusting dirtbag of a person who doesn't deserve kids. You're a weak little man who decided to leave his wife with all the responsibilities and blame instead of stepping up and being a real dad. I bet you feel good because you are selfish and think now you can do whatever you want since you're rid of the weight. Easier to blame the wife instead of taking on the responsibility of teaching your kids yourself. You leaving will probably be the best christmas present you could've ever given then. You don't deserve happiness.
Love peace happiness

Johnstown, PA

#14 Dec 25, 2013
Don't listen to the haters on here who have not walked in ur shoes. Put ur self 1st and happiness will follow u. Good luck.
youre disgusting

Pittsburgh, PA

#15 Dec 25, 2013
Give me a break. I have walked in those shoes. I would never leave my kids, their butts would go with me. Especially if I was blaming the mother for their behavior. If I was too much of a weasel to take them with me, I certainly wouldn't wish bad things to happen. Sounds to me like this dude probably deserves the disrespect he receives. It might be that he was a lousy dad and husband that the only thing they could get from him is money, and as they went on in life they became so miserable with the life he was giving them that no amount of money could fill the void.
NSA

Richmond, VA

#16 Dec 25, 2013
Love peace happiness wrote:
Don't listen to the haters on here who have not walked in ur shoes. Put ur self 1st and happiness will follow u. Good luck.
Put yourself first and happiness will never arrive.

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Since: Dec 12

Front Royal, VA

#17 Dec 25, 2013
Leaving your family and the responsibilities that accompany, seems like the perfect holiday gift!
Whipped me mentally

Tazewell, TN

#18 Dec 25, 2013
I dont blame the man 1 iota. I suffered for years verbal taunting and mental abuse from my ex husband and I packed up and left his sorry rump with the boys who treated me the same. Best thing I ever did in fact. I a happy with another man and have children who treat me like a princess now.
wtf

Huntington, WV

#19 Dec 25, 2013
Whipped me mentally wrote:
I dont blame the man 1 iota. I suffered for years verbal taunting and mental abuse from my ex husband and I packed up and left his sorry rump with the boys who treated me the same. Best thing I ever did in fact. I a happy with another man and have children who treat me like a princess now.
you don't blame him but yet you say you took the kids with you when you left? Or, are you saying that you left your husband and the kids? If its the latter, you are a sellfishbitch.
Lindy Ann

Huntington, WV

#20 Dec 25, 2013
Again, it is not the children's fault that you made them with this woman. They are a product of your choices. I didn't like my dad while I was growing up, but after 27 years, I think he's probably the best man in the whole world.

And if this woman has any sense at all, she's going to file for child support. So be prepared to continue to pay out to the family. My guess is that, unless the woman is a druggy and alcoholic, they'll continue to live fine, on your dime. Maybe you should start thinking about your decision making skills, as clearly getting together with this woman was not a good decision.
walk away dad

Saint Albans, WV

#21 Dec 26, 2013
Those of you who support me, I offer my gratitude. Those who are bashing me simply don't understand.

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