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qwerty

Lincoln, NE

#1 Aug 28, 2009
If a person cheated on their mate and you were the person they cheated with... could you trust them?
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#2 Aug 28, 2009
qwerty wrote:
If a person cheated on their mate and you were the person they cheated with... could you trust them?
Depends on many specifics.
Have they cheated with others, or just you?
Are they SERIOUSLY contemplating divorce?

Players are players, and will always cheat.
With some, there can always be a first time- and a last time.
Depends on the motives, integrity and morals of the individuals, and also if there are legitimate reasons for their failing marriage/relationship.

But most of all- it's all about LOVE.
TRUST is a key part to long-lasting relationships.
And no- I haven't cheated on anyone I've loved, but unfortunately, it has become more common, and more accepted in this world and these times.

“Buzz, Buzz, Buzz”

Since: Mar 09

Bumblebee Colony

#3 Aug 28, 2009
Since you have to ask, you already know the answer
huh

Lincoln, NE

#4 Aug 28, 2009
Bumblebee1 wrote:
Since you have to ask, you already know the answer
What?
Now Single

Lincoln, NE

#5 Aug 28, 2009
qwerty wrote:
If a person cheated on their mate and you were the person they cheated with... could you trust them?
That person can't be trusted but neither can you..You will be the homewrecker. If you knew there was a mate why were you with the partner? You both are cheaters and once a cheater always a cheater!!!!
depends

Lincoln, NE

#6 Aug 29, 2009
qwerty wrote:
If a person cheated on their mate and you were the person they cheated with... could you trust them?
Depends on the individuals. Forgiveness is not easy. And trust after something like that would be very hard. But holding together any marriage is hard and many, many people divorce for far simpler reasons than this. It takes a special kind of person to forgive this and a determined couple to work through it.

Someone is obviously aiming their posts at specific people. This is sick, probably worse than the dirt you are attempting to dig up. I am just glad that the many people in this town who read topix are not playing your sick game. We all know we have done things that we regret and would be embarrassed to have aired on the internet. Some people enjoy tearing others apart. And some of us hope and pray they can stay together.
whatever old man

United States

#7 Aug 29, 2009
depends wrote:
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Depends on the individuals. Forgiveness is not easy. And trust after something like that would be very hard. But holding together any marriage is hard and many, many people divorce for far simpler reasons than this. It takes a special kind of person to forgive this and a determined couple to work through it.
Someone is obviously aiming their posts at specific people. This is sick, probably worse than the dirt you are attempting to dig up. I am just glad that the many people in this town who read topix are not playing your sick game. We all know we have done things that we regret and would be embarrassed to have aired on the internet. Some people enjoy tearing others apart. And some of us hope and pray they can stay together.


You a preacher? Seems to be quite a few here.
If I need a sermon I will go to church tomorrow.
You just pray and others will just play!
illegal

York, NE

#8 Aug 30, 2009
whatever old man wrote:
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You a preacher? Seems to be quite a few here.
If I need a sermon I will go to church tomorrow.
You just pray and others will just play!
Hope you went!!!!!
huh

Lincoln, NE

#9 Aug 30, 2009
Someone is obviously aiming their posts at specific people. This is sick, probably worse than the dirt you are attempting to dig up. I am just glad that the many people in this town who read topix are not playing your sick game. We all know we have done things that we regret and would be embarrassed to have aired on the internet. Some people enjoy tearing others apart. And some of us hope and pray they can stay together.

What are you dying to tell?????????
qwerty

Lincoln, NE

#10 Aug 30, 2009
sorry Depends this is just a subject my mate and I were discussing. Both of us wondered why the person thats a cheater (or gonna be one) just didn't leave. Maybe its the excitement of getting caught.

Get the impression I hit a nerve. This is a topic,no ones judging you.
depends

Lincoln, NE

#11 Aug 31, 2009
No need to apologize, I don't feel judged. I am curious as to the answer to your question too. I do not cheat, don't understand cheaters, and won't pretend to. I just know it seems like now-a-days it is becoming common practice. Some of the ones you hear about make you lose a little faith in what vows are. I sometimes think that everyone is doing it and just not getting caught. Of course this is not the case, but just makes one wonder.

I'm tired of people posting topix with the goal of running certain people through the mud. It is obvious that is what some of these were created for. Not because it is me or even people I care to hang out with. Just because I think it is cruel and I believe we have all done somethings we are not necessarily proud of. I would rather see people start topix to build the people and town up, that is all.
no one

Lincoln, NE

#12 Aug 31, 2009
Well qwerty, are they still with their spouse? If they are i can guarntee you that they are still doing stuff with their spouse. And if this person really wanted to be with you then they would have left their spouse already. But if the affair continues then you need to tell your partner that they need to make a choice and if you love them then you need to trust that they will leave and then be faithful to you.
qwerty

Lincoln, NE

#13 Sep 1, 2009
no one wrote:
Well qwerty, are they still with their spouse? If they are i can guarntee you that they are still doing stuff with their spouse. And if this person really wanted to be with you then they would have left their spouse already. But if the affair continues then you need to tell your partner that they need to make a choice and if you love them then you need to trust that they will leave and then be faithful to you.
well no one ....this is a topic, doesn't mean anyones having an affair. If I start a topic on millionairs does that mean I'm one ?
Trashed

United States

#14 Sep 1, 2009
qwerty wrote:
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well no one ....this is a topic, doesn't mean anyones having an affair. If I start a topic on millionairs does that mean I'm one ?
Be nice if that would work, huh?

Very obvious to me by your writing style, spelling, and isp that you are not connected to the 1 or 2 that have been promoting this advertising of others "alleged" marital situations.
Most people on here got very upset and found that blatant bragging of interest in married men rather disgusting.

You were just asking a hypothetical question, which is more the way these Forums should function, opposed to gossip and mud-slinging.
And a very interesting question it was ...
Wife

Clarinda, IA

#15 Sep 1, 2009
Well, I can tell you that my husband is cheating with a woman in Verdon. I have yet to find out anything other than her name, but he's not giving up any info. I only found this out through someone who knows her and knows me, but didn't know it was MY husband her friend is dating. I will get proof one way or another because this isn't the first time I've known he was up to something.
huh

Lincoln, NE

#16 Sep 1, 2009
Wife wrote:
Well, I can tell you that my husband is cheating with a woman in Verdon. I have yet to find out anything other than her name, but he's not giving up any info. I only found this out through someone who knows her and knows me, but didn't know it was MY husband her friend is dating. I will get proof one way or another because this isn't the first time I've known he was up to something.
Sorry to hear this. Don't think I'd tell this on topix as you will probably be opening a can of worms on here.
sorry to say

Clarinda, IA

#17 Sep 1, 2009
huh wrote:
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Sorry to hear this. Don't think I'd tell this on topix as you will probably be opening a can of worms on here.
I know all too well how this site works. I've been the target of a close friend's ex girlfriend for almost a year now. And believe me, if there is in deed a can to be opened, I want it opened. I want the truth for a change!
just stupid

Denver, CO

#18 Sep 1, 2009
are you really so bored that you write things like this. my husband .. blah blah blah.
get real already. this is absolutely stupid !!

don't any of you have anything better to do with your time? you all sound EXACTLY like the people who sit in the bars and gossip all night.
Wife

Clarinda, IA

#19 Sep 5, 2009
just stupid wrote:
are you really so bored that you write things like this. my husband .. blah blah blah.
get real already. this is absolutely stupid !!
don't any of you have anything better to do with your time? you all sound EXACTLY like the people who sit in the bars and gossip all night.
Just so you know, I have NEVER sat in a bar and gossiped. I don't go to bars, I have no use for that crowd, but it seems my husband does. I just want proof of what he is doing because Iowa is an alimony state and I plan to collect!
Now Single

Lincoln, NE

#20 Sep 5, 2009
Wife wrote:
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Just so you know, I have NEVER sat in a bar and gossiped. I don't go to bars, I have no use for that crowd, but it seems my husband does. I just want proof of what he is doing because Iowa is an alimony state and I plan to collect!
If you want the proof go to the bar and see it for yourself. And if you find him guilty get as much alimony and anything else you can get from the scum. That's what cheaters are in my book are scum. Good luck to you

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