Wife cheating on me while deployed.

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The Doc

Sterling, VA

#1 Aug 10, 2008
So, I'm originally from Tipp, as is my wife. She still lives there, while I am in Baghdad serving our country. My parents caught her cheating in my apartment (on walnut) tonight, on the brand new bed I just bought her with her ex boyfriend, TOMMY, from Pleasant Hill. She's taken over 9.5K dollars in the last month, and might be pregnant come to find out. Just a heads up. Tiffany Bowlin Hardin Long (gee, should have taken a hint when her first military marriage didn't work) is a lying, cheating theif.

“My posse's on Broadway”

Since: Aug 08

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#2 Nov 7, 2008
Sorry to hear this. Obviously we don't know each other, but I've been in your position. I will pray for this to be resolved. There are plenty of good and honest women out there.
Semper Fi

Wichita, KS

#3 Nov 13, 2008
Let me tell ya brother, I know what it's like. These girls nowdays just are not the same as the women who waited while our grandfathers fought the Japanese or Germans.

It's been this way for a long time, the clubs around the bases fill up every time a unit pulls out.

I just after 30 years of service to my beloved Marine Corps. I was married to a woman 9 years my junior for 18 years, and we have 3 children who are now 18, 16, and 10.

She was with me 18 of the 30, and is getting nearly 3k/month of my retirement, plus 25% of my earned income.

All of this for a woman who had a "crisis" on me with some hot shot real estate guy while I was serving my country, and dealing with the stress of having literally thousands of lives in my hands on a dailey basis!

As if it wasn't tragic enough, she never really kept the spark alive between me and my kids. My letters were seldom answered, phone calls not picked up...

I got home and found my kid's weren't even all that interested in me anymore. I've been deployed for 1/2 of my youngest daughters life, and the teenagers are pretty caught up in themselves.

All I can tell you is BE PATIENT, and continue on with your life doing the right thing. As for myself, I took a job overseas, my pay is sheltered from all taxes, and the prying eyes of any U.S. Court, so she get's NOTHING from a $350k/year salary. I hold a high level management position for a company that contracts with the DOD.

I'm a 48 year old man, but I've spent my life staying in top shape, always piled on the sunscreen, and can hold my own with men 10 years my junior. So now, I'VE FOUND A WOMAN 20 YEARS MY JUNIOR! who is a pediatrician! She also serves this country, providing medical care to Iraqi children. We both came home for a few months together.

As for my ex... the hot shot real estate guy went broke. They are packed into a 2 bedroom apartment, essentially living on my pension. Of course, she ditched him when the well went dry, serves him right for having the balls to get involved with a married woman whose husband is serving our nation!

I do provide for my oldest daughter's college education, and she lives comfortably in a small apartment, and we have begun to reconcile. She does not blame me a bit for what I did. The 16 year old is trouble/in trouble, and my little girl, well, I'm working on that, and hope one day that she will choose to come and live with me.
Wifey21

Urbana, OH

#4 Dec 18, 2008
WOW!~ I am a wife of a deployed soldier...ANd can I say that not all of us are like her!!! Some wifes of soldiers are very devoted to their husbands....I AM ONE OF THEM!! I cant imagine what you are feeling in this situation! She aint even worthy of being called a woman!! I know TOMMY from pleasant hill. I know how he goes from woman to woman and uses them for EVERYTHING!! He is a mooch and a scavenger. To sum it all up, piece of shit! So dont feel bad, you actually got the better end of the deal!!
Z-Axis

Glen Ridge, NJ

#5 Feb 20, 2009
Reading this and all......for a fact this isn't a surprise and the truth is that there are great wives out there.
Well i am a Guy and i will be getting married to a US Army Captain in a few months (August) and i don't know i don't see much about men dealing or talking with their Deployed spouse i don't know if its the fear of long distance relationship but i Love my Fiance to death and i have been patiently waiting for her to get home which will be in a few week, its not easy trust me for either of us but when you make God the center of your relationship everything falls right into place and i mean all the spouse at home remember its not easy being out there i don't even want to imagine what its like it cant be good so be patient and understanding and stay Firm....
truewoman

Odenton, MD

#6 Mar 7, 2009
I am a wife and my husband is deployed. I must say, as well, I am more than faithful. I answer every phone call, letter, and email. Send packages weekly. I think that this is an unfortunate situation but this is not how all women are. I found out my husband was cheating on me the day after he deployed and even still I remained true to the vows we made before God. We talked about the matter and I have forgiven him and I know that things will work out in the end. Put God first and forgive her. I'm not saying stay with her but you will feel much better if you forgive her. Be blessed and know that you will find a great woman to hold you down.
demolution

Iraq

#7 Jun 11, 2009
man...i am a deployed soldier and i look up these kinds of things because im going through the situation as i wright. my wife used to tell me everything i wanted to hear before i left,made me think she was the most loyal wife for any husband.and not even 5 month into it she admitted to seeing someone new.i dont know what to think of it i leave for my r&r in a couple days and she wont let me come home.its the weak of our 1st year anniversary too. i just dont understand how low this guy shes seeing is...is it better to leave her alone? will she come running back later on?
marinewife

Winder, GA

#8 Oct 25, 2009
im sick of this bs! not all us military wives cheat on our marines while deployed! im tired of being branded for others mistakes. ive never once cheated on my husband.
4th Marines

Longview, TX

#9 Oct 25, 2009
Brandon?
Give me a call... I still have the same cell number from SoCal... I'm still in Texas going to school...
Charles...

“Bipartisanship at last!”

Since: Aug 08

bout time!

#11 Nov 6, 2009
The Doc wrote:
So, I'm originally from Tipp, as is my wife. She still lives there, while I am in Baghdad serving our country. My parents caught her cheating in my apartment (on walnut) tonight, on the brand new bed I just bought her with her ex boyfriend, TOMMY, from Pleasant Hill. She's taken over 9.5K dollars in the last month, and might be pregnant come to find out. Just a heads up. Tiffany Bowlin Hardin Long (gee, should have taken a hint when her first military marriage didn't work) is a lying, cheating theif.
Jody never sleeps, my friend.

“Bipartisanship at last!”

Since: Aug 08

bout time!

#12 Nov 6, 2009
truewoman wrote:
I am a wife and my husband is deployed. I must say, as well, I am more than faithful. I answer every phone call, letter, and email. Send packages weekly. I think that this is an unfortunate situation but this is not how all women are. I found out my husband was cheating on me the day after he deployed and even still I remained true to the vows we made before God. We talked about the matter and I have forgiven him and I know that things will work out in the end. Put God first and forgive her. I'm not saying stay with her but you will feel much better if you forgive her. Be blessed and know that you will find a great woman to hold you down.
90% of the wives are good people. Rednecks are rednecks. I believe you call then briars up there.

“Bipartisanship at last!”

Since: Aug 08

bout time!

#13 Nov 6, 2009
Semper Fi wrote:
Let me tell ya brother, I know what it's like. These girls nowdays just are not the same as the women who waited while our grandfathers fought the Japanese or Germans.
It's been this way for a long time, the clubs around the bases fill up every time a unit pulls out.
I just after 30 years of service to my beloved Marine Corps. I was married to a woman 9 years my junior for 18 years, and we have 3 children who are now 18, 16, and 10.
She was with me 18 of the 30, and is getting nearly 3k/month of my retirement, plus 25% of my earned income.
All of this for a woman who had a "crisis" on me with some hot shot real estate guy while I was serving my country, and dealing with the stress of having literally thousands of lives in my hands on a dailey basis!
As if it wasn't tragic enough, she never really kept the spark alive between me and my kids. My letters were seldom answered, phone calls not picked up...
I got home and found my kid's weren't even all that interested in me anymore. I've been deployed for 1/2 of my youngest daughters life, and the teenagers are pretty caught up in themselves.
All I can tell you is BE PATIENT, and continue on with your life doing the right thing. As for myself, I took a job overseas, my pay is sheltered from all taxes, and the prying eyes of any U.S. Court, so she get's NOTHING from a $350k/year salary. I hold a high level management position for a company that contracts with the DOD.
I'm a 48 year old man, but I've spent my life staying in top shape, always piled on the sunscreen, and can hold my own with men 10 years my junior. So now, I'VE FOUND A WOMAN 20 YEARS MY JUNIOR! who is a pediatrician! She also serves this country, providing medical care to Iraqi children. We both came home for a few months together.
As for my ex... the hot shot real estate guy went broke. They are packed into a 2 bedroom apartment, essentially living on my pension. Of course, she ditched him when the well went dry, serves him right for having the balls to get involved with a married woman whose husband is serving our nation!
I do provide for my oldest daughter's college education, and she lives comfortably in a small apartment, and we have begun to reconcile. She does not blame me a bit for what I did. The 16 year old is trouble/in trouble, and my little girl, well, I'm working on that, and hope one day that she will choose to come and live with me.
Suck it up and reconnect with your kids. They're young, probably gonnabe OK when they grow up. Good advice: pick an older woman, the one you're with will be leaving anytime soon for a younger man. Viagra only prolongs the agony. Thanks for your service. It aint easy anymore.
Double B

Arlington, TX

#14 Dec 7, 2009
I'm a veteran, and thinking about starting a service. My service would aide my brothers who are deployed, and know that their spouses are cheating.
If she has a partner, pics and video...If she is indiscriminate, pics and video.
Steve Richmond

Shelby, NC

#15 Dec 7, 2009
There is a soldier in Basra named Kyle that has a sister named Heather. We just watched that bithes dog while she wendt on a biz trip. Found out she went to NY on a booty call. with some asshole. I aqm the brother in law and I'm lookin out for an american hero! Please pass the word to any Kyles that you know
yea_right

San Juan Del Río, Mexico

#16 Dec 24, 2009
marinewife wrote:
im sick of this bs! not all us military wives cheat on our marines while deployed! im tired of being branded for others mistakes. ive never once cheated on my husband.
Twice three times or more but "never once"

When i caught my wife cheating on me, she said she loved me! that it was just a f@ck and it didn't mean a thing". Tell that to my heart! Oh and I found out because I ended up with genital warts and after much lying she admited to it.

I am and have always been a straight man, but can understand now why thes homo's are coming out of the closet... because their women were cheatin ho's. All women cheat given the opprotunity.

“Bipartisanship at last!”

Since: Aug 08

bout time!

#17 Jan 7, 2010
Jody never sleeps.
RGVM

Shippensburg, PA

#18 Jan 8, 2010
Hey "YEA Right" all women don't cheat. Some are good. Its just that when U get these pieces of crap wives - like your worthless wife, some a_hole always tries to make an excuse on why it was ok for her to cheat & that U should forgive her. What BS!!! Get ride of her. She is a selfish loser.
Sorry U had to get an STD from your worthless wife. Well. at least it sounds like U kicked her 2 the curb.
Mac

Pikeville, KY

#19 Jan 9, 2010
Sorry to hear that.
Laurie

Deridder, LA

#20 Jan 11, 2010
marinewife wrote:
im sick of this bs! not all us military wives cheat on our marines while deployed! im tired of being branded for others mistakes. ive never once cheated on my husband.
Take a look on the internet and see how common this is though. No body is targeting YOU as a cheater. This person is just sharing his grief, and trying to get help. Instead of defending yourself, read his post and try to help. Otherwise, why don't you visit a forum for women who complain over the FACTS of daily military life. I have alot of compassion for him b/c I am going through a similar situation, and both me and my husband were Army.
jimmy

Apo, AE

#21 Jan 17, 2010
I am from RI my wife gets into all my accounts, takes everthing. She has also sold my t.v. daughters t.v. and also all my military gear and at the time I am in Afghanistan serving our country while my wife turns gay and cheats on me. My wife is also doing drugs while taking care of my 3 year old girl and yet I can't do a damn thing about while I am deployed. P.S. the psyciatrist down here says just wait untill you go home to take care of this. I think I really need some type of help. I tried calling child services but they like to take there time and the police can not do anything because she is still my piece of crap wife. I need help. Does anybody have any advise trust me I will take whatever you have. This is my last option.

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