My RoomMate Had Sex In The Living Room....while I was ten feet away in bed!!!

[confused roommate]

OMG is this normal for roomie behavior?? This is my first roomie, anyway, the other night, he had his gf over. Instead of using his bedroom downstairs, he pulled out the couch bed and had sex with her right there!! My room is ten feet away! I was totally feeling disrespected, and wonder...is it normal for a roomie to have sex in the common areas?

Heres our ages, he is way too old for this behavior. He is 30, his gf is 19, and I am 32.

Oh, and the other day he left a condom out on the dryer.

I dont know how to bring up this subject either, but I feel really uncomfortable with him doing this in the common area, on the couch we both use at that.

Advice?

[Just Me Talkin]

confused roommate wrote:

OMG is this normal for roomie behavior?? This is my first roomie, anyway, the other night, he had his gf over. Instead of using his bedroom downstairs, he pulled out the couch bed and had sex with her right there!! My room is ten feet away! I was totally feeling disrespected, and wonder...is it normal for a roomie to have sex in the common areas?
Heres our ages, he is way too old for this behavior. He is 30, his gf is 19, and I am 32.
Oh, and the other day he left a condom out on the dryer.
I dont know how to bring up this subject either, but I feel really uncomfortable with him doing this in the common area, on the couch we both use at that.
Advice?

This is definitely NOT normal. If he lived alone, I would say just about anything goes, go for it. He apparently has no respect for his gf, you or himself. He obviously cannot care anything for the girl. I hope she did not know he shared an apartment/home?

He is a little too old to be acting like a "19 year old" on his first sexual experinece. Unless this was his first, and he could not control himself.

I would definitely have to say something, if you feel too uncomfortable addressing him face to face, give him a call when you both are away from each other and tell him the situation has been bothering, you need to talk. Or, leave a note saying you both need to discuss what happen the other night, you felt uncomfortable, then tell him you would like for it not to be repeated IN YOUR LIVING ROOM!
If people don't say things that need to be said, situations get out of control and escalate.
There is no sense in being nasty and disrespectful to someone you are sharing a home with.
There are too many "germs" going around to leave "things" laying around.
He is just plain nasty! You may not want to tell him that, althought he probably already knows.

[Myra]

I think he is giving you a hint male/female Do you wanna do me? Is what he is asking. Leaving a condom out---ready and willing.

[Richard]

He definately isnt a friend or he would have invited u to join. The Ba***rd

[triple6vamp]

Richard wrote:

He definately isnt a friend or he would have invited u to join. The Ba***rd

LMAO !! richard you're a perv

[Paladin]

confused roommate wrote:

OMG is this normal for roomie behavior?? This is my first roomie, anyway, the other night, he had his gf over. Instead of using his bedroom downstairs, he pulled out the couch bed and had sex with her right there!! My room is ten feet away! I was totally feeling disrespected, and wonder...is it normal for a roomie to have sex in the common areas?
Heres our ages, he is way too old for this behavior. He is 30, his gf is 19, and I am 32.
Oh, and the other day he left a condom out on the dryer.
I dont know how to bring up this subject either, but I feel really uncomfortable with him doing this in the common area, on the couch we both use at that.
Advice?

Are you a guy...I can't tell by your writing.

[Richard]

triple6vamp wrote:

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LMAO !! richard you're a perv

Why thank u trip. Now tell me, were u thinking same thing? lol

[triple6vamp]

Richard wrote:

<quoted text>Why thank u trip. Now tell me, were u thinking same thing? lol

Nooo man,Im much 2 into safe sex to jump into a freak gangbang.

**Keep your friend informed though ok**

;-)

[Confused roomie]

I am a female fwiw. Thanks for the advice all. I am glad to see others think his behavior is dissespectful.

[Bambi trampy]

Confused roomie wrote:

I am a female fwiw. Thanks for the advice all. I am glad to see others think his behavior is dissespectful.

I dont. I think you need to grab a camcorder and make it a Kodak moment! And why not join in? You might actually unloosen that uptight prudish attitude and enjoy life instead of complaining about someone else who already is!

[Billy Ringo]

Got any pics?

[Richard]

Bambi trampy wrote:

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I dont. I think you need to grab a camcorder and make it a Kodak moment! And why not join in? You might actually unloosen that uptight prudish attitude and enjoy life instead of complaining about someone else who already is!

She thinks like me lol

[i agree]

Bambi trampy wrote:

<quoted text>
I dont. I think you need to grab a camcorder and make it a Kodak moment! And why not join in? You might actually unloosen that uptight prudish attitude and enjoy life instead of complaining about someone else who already is!

i agree with bambi. freak fest? use protection.

[Bad Boogie Man]

confused roommate wrote:

OMG is this normal for roomie behavior?? This is my first roomie, anyway, the other night, he had his gf over. Instead of using his bedroom downstairs, he pulled out the couch bed and had sex with her right there!! My room is ten feet away! I was totally feeling disrespected, and wonder...is it normal for a roomie to have sex in the common areas?
Heres our ages, he is way too old for this behavior. He is 30, his gf is 19, and I am 32.
Oh, and the other day he left a condom out on the dryer.
I dont know how to bring up this subject either, but I feel really uncomfortable with him doing this in the common area, on the couch we both use at that.
Advice?

your roomate is inconsiderate, disrespectful and nasty. Im all about being freaky but when you are disrespecting others that live in the same home, then its bad.

[Bambi trampy]

Bad Boogie Man wrote:

<quoted text>your roomate is inconsiderate, disrespectful and nasty. Im all about being freaky but when you are disrespecting others that live in the same home, then its bad.

Oh shutup! You'll get freaky as long as its not an inconvenience? Who are you, the Ward Cleaver of Swingers? Jeez.

[Bad Boogie Man]

Bambi trampy wrote:

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Oh shutup! You'll get freaky as long as its not an inconvenience? Who are you, the Ward Cleaver of Swingers? Jeez.

nO I CAN BE FREAKY WITHOUT BEING A DISRESPECTFUL SLUT, GET THE POINT!

[Bambi trampi]

Puuuhhleeeze.... How can you be freaky without disrupting other people in the house?YOU CANT! Get the point Ward? You're more of a Geek than Freak! Hahahahahahaaa

[Bad Boogie Man]

Bambi trampi wrote:

Puuuhhleeeze.... How can you be freaky without disrupting other people in the house?YOU CANT! Get the point Ward? You're more of a Geek than Freak! Hahahahahahaaa

Tramp is a good name for you for sure, it isnt about being freaky, its about common decency and respect, but then again if you knew better, you would do better. id rather be a geek than a tramp

[Bambi trampi]

Ok, pay attention....

House specs:(hypothetically)
Built: 1970
Sq Ft: 1100
Walls: No insulation

Translation: Getting freaky in a house that is anything remotely close to the details listed above means you would be heard no matter where you're at. You might as well do it in the living room and the owner of the house should KNOW THIS BEFORE BRINGING IN A ROOMMATE!!!!

Boogie Boy (aka Ward, Geek)- You need a lesson in rationalizing logic, boy......and I do mean, little boy.

[triple6vamp]

Im wearing socks and thats it

;-)