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Feb 13, 2013
 

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Have you ever had a person in your life that you hate so bad you can't see straight? If so how did you or did you get over it? I would love to hear your thoughts.

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Hate is the most evil thing on earth, if your hate for this person is so strong maybe you should be looking for your answer someplace other than topix.
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Well that's one thought. Thank you
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Many years ago I had a coworker that I despised.The sheer thought of this guy drove me nuts.One day while at an office lunch I was forced to sit and listen to him.He grew up in a orphanage his parents died when he was 3 in a car wreck. He had one hardship after another.He worked himself through college with 2 jobs often only getting an hour of sleep. The funny thing is I thought he was born with a silver spoon in his mouth.Not so.After that my perception of him changed.What I was taking for cockiness in him was just his hard life showing through.He turned out to be a very good friend and still is.Hes a great guy volunteers most of his time and money.So my suggestion is to try to change your perception of the person, you never know what load they are carrying.If I would have continued hating this guy I would have missed out on knowing a great person who has made me want to be a better one too.
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Feb 14, 2013
 
Thank you. I wish I could say I didn't know this person. She married into the family and she has tried over and over to break this whole family apart. Her own parents can't stand her and they are afraid of her. Her children are afraid of her. Just thinking about this witch makes me sick to my stomach. I tell you if carma is a real thing then I don't ever want to be within 500 miles of this person cuz hell will end up swallowing her whole. But if someone is unlucky to be close to her when that happens please take pics and send it to me cuz that would make my day!! I know I shouldn't feel this way but I don't think I've ever hated someone as much as this. Maybe someday I will not have this hate in my heart but I'm not going to hold my breath on that one. Lol I hope this isn't a test on life cuz I'm flunking BIG time.
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Feb 15, 2013
 

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Unfortunately toxic people do exist. If you google 'how to deal with toxic people' you will find a lot of informative articles and even books out there that can be of help.
Most importantly know that we cannot change people but we can change the way we react to them.
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Also, sometimes the people who are harboring all the hate are in fact the toxic ones, they just refuse to see or fix their own faults. ask yourself what you could've possibly done on your part to add to the problem?
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Feb 15, 2013
 
You really just don't know what that person may be going through. It is always better to love than to hate. Of course, there are people who really get on my nerves, but I can't say that I hate anyone!
"But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you"--Matthew 5:44
It may be hard to follow sometimes, but it IS what Jesus had to say about it, and I am sure he meant it and wants us to obey
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Feb 16, 2013
 
love to love wrote:
You really just don't know what that person may be going through. It is always better to love than to hate. Of course, there are people who really get on my nerves, but I can't say that I hate anyone!
"But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you"--Matthew 5:44
It may be hard to follow sometimes, but it IS what Jesus had to say about it, and I am sure he meant it and wants us to obey
you are right but boy it's hard.

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Feb 16, 2013
 
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<quoted text>you are right but boy it's hard.
Pray then pray some more. Ask god to release u from the hate you. Be the better person and just be kind no matter the pain u may feel inside. Kindness is the best weapons have cuz the must know u do not like her and she will wonder what in the world is going on in ur head. It will drive her crazy. I use this method all the time. Lol
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Feb 16, 2013
 
Cadiz lady wrote:
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Pray then pray some more. Ask god to release u from the hate you. Be the better person and just be kind no matter the pain u may feel inside. Kindness is the best weapons have cuz the must know u do not like her and she will wonder what in the world is going on in ur head. It will drive her crazy. I use this method all the time. Lol
lol I have done that before. a lady worked at a store and she was mean and rude to everyone but I smiled and was as kind and sweet as sugar. it took a few months but I did it she started smiling and speaking very kindly to me. Funny how that happens. lol
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Feb 16, 2013
 
keep your friends close and your enemies closer. And get even.
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Feb 16, 2013
 
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keep your friends close and your enemies closer. And get even.
amen to that. lol
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Feb 16, 2013
 
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keep your friends close and your enemies closer. And get even.
The problem with that is the other person might be doing the same with you.
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Feb 16, 2013
 
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The problem with that is the other person might be doing the same with you.
no shes not keeping me close. she runs her mouth and all things get back to me. Time will come when she will get hers. I am looking forward to that day.
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Feb 16, 2013
 

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By the time it "gets back to you" there's no telling what's been added or subtracted from the truth. I'd stop waisting so much energy and time on here discussing your rage, that's not healthy by the way. Concentrate on something good in your life that makes you happy. Revenge isn't ours, that's the Lord's job. you said hell will swallow her.....well judging others and this hate in your heart will get you gobbled up too so just let it go, be happy. Live and let live
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Feb 16, 2013
 
Just maybe wrote:
By the time it "gets back to you" there's no telling what's been added or subtracted from the truth. I'd stop waisting so much energy and time on here discussing your rage, that's not healthy by the way. Concentrate on something good in your life that makes you happy. Revenge isn't ours, that's the Lord's job. you said hell will swallow her.....well judging others and this hate in your heart will get you gobbled up too so just let it go, be happy. Live and let live
I understand what you are saying. this is my reason why I'm ranting on here. this is my way of getting out some rage. Trust me everyone that knows her knows her by the fruit she bares. You can only abuse your child for so long you can only spread rumors so much before someone knocks your teeth down your throat you can only take so much drugs and cheat on your spouse. that's just a tid bit about this person. that's not rumors that is all facts. So you see I'm using this as a sound bored. sometimes it feels good to get things off your chest without stepping on others.

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