lebanon student, just want to say to you that its not the school that makes the cool in a student but its the heart that shows you are not like the rest. but what you possess is different from all them who think or pretend to be cool.just keep being yourself and if you do change do it to the fact that all them around you know it was a change that made them wish they could be you.not to the place you get all the dates, but that they all wish you was their date.you sound like someone who wants to be like someone else but i say continue being yourself and one day you will be glad you wasn't like the rest but stayed the person you always were.because you'll realize one day that being cool to fit in with or like others, isn't always cool. and having to change from being yourself to fit in to please others will never workout.the cool in a person isn't pleasing others but its having something different that deep down they all want and wish they were different like you. for the most of them who act cool are only doing it to try fitting in with others but really and truly they are unhappy and are trapped in it and ashamed to go back to the person the really was.so good luck to you in life and i hope you don't change your own lifestyle just to make others think your cool because your already cooler than what you see or think.