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Cops: Girl, 16, killed in Holtsville drunken driving crash

There are 304 comments on the Newsday.com story from Sep 8, 2008, titled Cops: Girl, 16, killed in Holtsville drunken driving crash. In it, Newsday.com reports that:

A Centereach teen was charged with driving while intoxicated after a late-night crash claimed the life of a 16-year-old Selden girl who was a passenger in his sport utility vehicle, police said Monday.

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“Slappy X. Sanchez, Esq.”

Since: Jun 08

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#292 Mar 24, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
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I am very well educated. I attend a top rated university and study law. My GPA is currently 3.8. Judging by the way you are writing and the grammatical errors... I suggest you take some english classes...I still feel extremely bad for your child...No adult should speak to a child that way. It is a form of child abuse wether he/she is your child or not. I hope for your sons sake you never speak to him like that. I also hope your child never goes through a rough patch like some of these kids have. As for being misinformed...I am not. I know and have spoken to the principal of night school. Not all those children have behavioral problems. There are more than a few children who have medical issues such as severe anxiety. Please...try not to respond until you bring your grammatical skills up to par...It pains me to have to correct such a "great educated parent" like youself...lol
Are you still crying? Somebody needs to call you a wambulance.
To the forum

AOL

#293 Mar 24, 2009
Night school: Children go there for many reasons. The biggest is the fact that they get bullied and are in constant fear from being stabbed with a syringe, or beat up, or robbed because the Highschool that you are so proud your son goes to is a complete disaster. It should be called Centereach Hell school.

slappy: how many times are you going to use the same expression: call a wambulance????? your getting boring now.

to the perfect mom with the perfect son: careful how you treat people. it will come back to haunt you one day. and if not you....then your son. be nice. your a mom. act like one.

to all the parents and the siblings of the children who have passed: im so so sorry. life is unfair sometimes. our children know it. if only these adults that are putting them down would figure it out, maybe all this sadness and madness would stop.

To the children: Stop hating. Start forgiving. Begin with yourselves. Its too late for these adults on this forum. They know not what they say. I have faith in all of you. Stay focused. Although you have had many hard times in your life.....you can and will overcome them if you stay focused. I'm proud of all of you in night school that didn't quit. Keep up the good work.
proud of you

AOL

#294 Mar 24, 2009
A friend of amy wrote:
look im a night school kid myself and i knew amy better then most of you talking on here, and since when is night school a fucking crime ? yea we got some kids in the who are really assholes with serious behavior problems and we have kids who just couldent deal with day school simple as that and the Alternative learning center is working if not why did the kids in ALC get higher test scores on the new york state regents the 95% of regular day time students....so dont make alc out to be this horrible thing for bad kids,were not but besides that amy was a good person with a big heart ,she lost a dear friend of hers a couple months back to a drug overdose and she was in the process of getting her life back on track,she wanted to be a social worker and was really trying hard,why do you guys have to talk negative about her ? she made a mistake and she paid for it and her family is paying for it everyday and everynight and i pray for debbie,vinny and frankie and my heart goes out to them,im an ex-addict myself and ill tell you first hand the kids have to want to stop if you stick them in a rehab for 28 days on the 29th day if your child wants to use he/she will use.it is the power of your childs mind to stop and parents need to be aware of that,grounding your child isnt going to work ive done everything from weed to coke from codiene to morphine i am not bragging nor proud of that but i am very proud that i have kicked the habbit and if i can do it all of you can come on man we gotta stop living like this the world is already fucked up enough,but to you close minded fucks why do you bash amy on here? you dont even know her and it is hurtful to her friends and family so cut the shit,i agree you guys should have a meeting about drugs and alchol one day and i would love to speak about my experiences with both if it is any help to you,it is true we are products of our enviroment and im originally from queens but never touched a drug intill i moved to centereach parents watch you sometimes you should blame yourselfs for your child problems,so for all you people who bash my post god bless you and may he watch over you and for everyone else god bless and be safe
Rest peacefully amy bartolotta you live on in our hearts and memories
You dont know me. But I know you. And I want to say that I am very very proud of you. You gave up the drugs. You are still in school. You are making something of your life. You are overcoming the hard times that you have experienced. Please remember there will always be critics like those on this forum that will never give you the credit you deserve. Please ignore them. You are obviously a strong person to have overcome a drug addiction. Once again........I AM PROUD OF YOU.
U R PATHETIC

Elizabeth, NJ

#295 Mar 24, 2009
Denial is the root of all evil....As far as my 3.8 not doing me any good...I'll be the one buying your house when it goes into forclosure because obviously you don't have a job...How could u have a job without having decent english skills. As a parent you should be teaching your child to not judge others and have an open mind...obviously your closed mind and shallow thinking has gotten you this far..Congrats!!!!! Keep up the good work and I thank God you are not my parent!!!!
U R PATHETIC

Elizabeth, NJ

#296 Mar 24, 2009
To the forum wrote:
Night school: Children go there for many reasons. The biggest is the fact that they get bullied and are in constant fear from being stabbed with a syringe, or beat up, or robbed because the Highschool that you are so proud your son goes to is a complete disaster. It should be called Centereach Hell school.
slappy: how many times are you going to use the same expression: call a wambulance????? your getting boring now.
to the perfect mom with the perfect son: careful how you treat people. it will come back to haunt you one day. and if not you....then your son. be nice. your a mom. act like one.
to all the parents and the siblings of the children who have passed: im so so sorry. life is unfair sometimes. our children know it. if only these adults that are putting them down would figure it out, maybe all this sadness and madness would stop.
To the children: Stop hating. Start forgiving. Begin with yourselves. Its too late for these adults on this forum. They know not what they say. I have faith in all of you. Stay focused. Although you have had many hard times in your life.....you can and will overcome them if you stay focused. I'm proud of all of you in night school that didn't quit. Keep up the good work.
I could not have said it better myself...
please

Baldwin, NY

#297 Mar 25, 2009
To the forum wrote:
Night school: Children go there for many reasons. The biggest is the fact that they get bullied and are in constant fear from being stabbed with a syringe, or beat up, or robbed because the Highschool that you are so proud your son goes to is a complete disaster. It should be called Centereach Hell school.
slappy: how many times are you going to use the same expression: call a wambulance????? your getting boring now.
to the perfect mom with the perfect son: careful how you treat people. it will come back to haunt you one day. and if not you....then your son. be nice. your a mom. act like one.
to all the parents and the siblings of the children who have passed: im so so sorry. life is unfair sometimes. our children know it. if only these adults that are putting them down would figure it out, maybe all this sadness and madness would stop.
To the children: Stop hating. Start forgiving. Begin with yourselves. Its too late for these adults on this forum. They know not what they say. I have faith in all of you. Stay focused. Although you have had many hard times in your life.....you can and will overcome them if you stay focused. I'm proud of all of you in night school that didn't quit. Keep up the good work.
First off my son doesn't go to CHS for those very reasons.I never said he did.I pay for him to get a real education.You keep having an open mind and hopefully your child,mother,father,sister,bro ther etc.. wont be killed by one of these people your so proud of.People do deserve second chances but the person that killed this girl was arrested several times.He was an alcoholic,drug addict and thief.Let's let him out of jail again this way maybe he will wipe out a whole family this time.Remember the little flower girl that was killed.That driver got several chances too.So keep on believing in these repeat offenders I chooses not too.
please

Baldwin, NY

#298 Mar 25, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
Denial is the root of all evil....As far as my 3.8 not doing me any good...I'll be the one buying your house when it goes into forclosure because obviously you don't have a job...How could u have a job without having decent english skills. As a parent you should be teaching your child to not judge others and have an open mind...obviously your closed mind and shallow thinking has gotten you this far..Congrats!!!!! Keep up the good work and I thank God you are not my parent!!!!
I can guarantee you wont be buying my home.You obviously have no kids and probably should never have any.I've seen to many kids get killed in this area.Night School is not working and these kids should be in day school.If they need to be seperated because they can't survive than throw them out they can get a GED if they choose to act like that.As far as people being bullied or if they have a true medical condition,they have the right to an education at any cost.The drug addicts,bully's,alocoholics,ki ds that can't get up becAUse they are hung-over do not deserve an education on the taxpayers dime.Let thier parents pay.You will see how fast they straighten up when thier parents have to foot the bill.
U R PATHETIC

Bronx, NY

#299 Mar 26, 2009
please wrote:
<quoted text>I can guarantee you wont be buying my home.You obviously have no kids and probably should never have any.I've seen to many kids get killed in this area.Night School is not working and these kids should be in day school.If they need to be seperated because they can't survive than throw them out they can get a GED if they choose to act like that.As far as people being bullied or if they have a true medical condition,they have the right to an education at any cost.The drug addicts,bully's,alocoholics,ki ds that can't get up becAUse they are hung-over do not deserve an education on the taxpayers dime.Let thier parents pay.You will see how fast they straighten up when thier parents have to foot the bill.
I do not have any children yet but I have several siblings that I took on the responsibility for. If any of them went to night school, I would try to steer them on the right path and help them get back to where they need to be instead of telling them they are a waste of life and all that crap you were talking. You could be the straw that breaks the camels back and causes one of these kids to harm themselves. You cannot blame night school for what happened to the children who got killed. I knew two of them. One very well and believe me you have absoloutly no idea what your talking about...and once again ...SPELL CHECK PLEASE...or stop responding because its very annoying...
please

Baldwin, NY

#300 Mar 26, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
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I do not have any children yet but I have several siblings that I took on the responsibility for. If any of them went to night school, I would try to steer them on the right path and help them get back to where they need to be instead of telling them they are a waste of life and all that crap you were talking. You could be the straw that breaks the camels back and causes one of these kids to harm themselves. You cannot blame night school for what happened to the children who got killed. I knew two of them. One very well and believe me you have absoloutly no idea what your talking about...and once again ...SPELL CHECK PLEASE...or stop responding because its very annoying...
If you can't figure out that it's actually the people in night school that are killing people, well than your just dumb.Im sure you do know these people very well.You sound like one of the group.

“Slappy X. Sanchez, Esq.”

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#301 Mar 26, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
<quoted text>
I do not have any children yet but I have several siblings that I took on the responsibility for. If any of them went to night school, I would try to steer them on the right path and help them get back to where they need to be instead of telling them they are a waste of life and all that crap you were talking. You could be the straw that breaks the camels back and causes one of these kids to harm themselves. You cannot blame night school for what happened to the children who got killed. I knew two of them. One very well and believe me you have absoloutly no idea what your talking about...and once again ...SPELL CHECK PLEASE...or stop responding because its very annoying...
Before you tell someone else to check their spelling, you should learn the difference between "your" and "you're".

Just saying.
please

Baldwin, NY

#302 Mar 27, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
<quoted text>
I do not have any children yet but I have several siblings that I took on the responsibility for. If any of them went to night school, I would try to steer them on the right path and help them get back to where they need to be instead of telling them they are a waste of life and all that crap you were talking. You could be the straw that breaks the camels back and causes one of these kids to harm themselves. You cannot blame night school for what happened to the children who got killed. I knew two of them. One very well and believe me you have absoloutly no idea what your talking about...and once again ...SPELL CHECK PLEASE...or stop responding because its very annoying...
BTW absolutly is spelled absolutely.I guess that's your 3.8 from night school.
STOP TALKING TRASH

Bronx, NY

#303 Mar 28, 2009
Slappy Sanchez wrote:
<quoted text>
Before you tell someone else to check their spelling, you should learn the difference between "your" and "you're".
Just saying.
This will be my last post so don't bother replying. Family and friends of Amy have been put through enough. This "forum" which is more like a place to bash those poor kids who had their lives taken from them way to soon beacause of some bad choices, is to painful as it is for them to read all these horrible things being said about their children who are no longer with us. I wrote on this forum to express my beliefs about night school and have made my opinion heard. As far as all of you that have nothing better to do than sit here and talk about people you don't even know...I hope none of you go through what their families went through. To all of you kids I see everyday that are changing your lives around...I commend you!!! Keep up the good work!!!! I know you will accomplish whatever you want to in life. Good luck to all of you!!!

“Slappy X. Sanchez, Esq.”

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#304 Mar 28, 2009
STOP TALKING TRASH wrote:
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This will be my last post so don't bother replying. Family and friends of Amy have been put through enough. This "forum" which is more like a place to bash those poor kids who had their lives taken from them way to soon beacause of some bad choices, is to painful as it is for them to read all these horrible things being said about their children who are no longer with us. I wrote on this forum to express my beliefs about night school and have made my opinion heard. As far as all of you that have nothing better to do than sit here and talk about people you don't even know...I hope none of you go through what their families went through. To all of you kids I see everyday that are changing your lives around...I commend you!!! Keep up the good work!!!! I know you will accomplish whatever you want to in life. Good luck to all of you!!!
Awww, don't go away mad, just go away.
U R PATHETIC

Bronx, NY

#305 Mar 29, 2009
please wrote:
<quoted text> BTW absolutly is spelled absolutely.I guess that's your 3.8 from night school.
I had to respond to this post...That was a typo...Look at your spelling and grammatical errors...My one to your every other word...come on now...instead of wasting your time coming on here, why don't you try to better yourself by maybe getting a tutor so when your son asks you for help you can actually help him instead of saying "well duh, I'm sorry honey I just don't know" and its actually spelled absolutely....It makes me laugh that you tried to correct me and still spelled it wrong...don't you look like a huge idiot...seriously...you are so not worth my time...Goodbye all!!! Good luck with whatever!!!
U R PATHETIC

Bronx, NY

#306 Mar 29, 2009
please wrote:
<quoted text> BTW absolutly is spelled absolutely.I guess that's your 3.8 from night school.
I apologize for the last part of my previous post. I was typing very fast and not really paying attention to your spelling because your so bad at it I just assumed you were wrong. lol Have a great life everyone!

“Slappy X. Sanchez, Esq.”

Since: Jun 08

Location hidden

#307 Mar 29, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
<quoted text>
I apologize for the last part of my previous post. I was typing very fast and not really paying attention to your spelling because your so bad at it I just assumed you were wrong. lol Have a great life everyone!
Still haven't figured out "your" and "you're", I see.
please

Baldwin, NY

#308 Mar 29, 2009
U R PATHETIC wrote:
<quoted text>
I had to respond to this post...That was a typo...Look at your spelling and grammatical errors...My one to your every other word...come on now...instead of wasting your time coming on here, why don't you try to better yourself by maybe getting a tutor so when your son asks you for help you can actually help him instead of saying "well duh, I'm sorry honey I just don't know" and its actually spelled absolutely....It makes me laugh that you tried to correct me and still spelled it wrong...don't you look like a huge idiot...seriously...you are so not worth my time...Goodbye all!!! Good luck with whatever!!!
Yeah ok! I look like the idiot.You look up to drug addicts and alcoholics .I think you may want to check your spelling again.Lol
rediculous

Madison, NJ

#309 Jul 22, 2009
Why is it that every time a kid does something wrong, we should forgive them because they are just kids? These aren't your typical mistakes. I know we all did stupid stuff as kids, but most of us did not kill someone else as a result and we quite obviously did not kill ourselves. Maybe if that SUV rolled into your son/daughter/mother/father/bes t friend and killed them, you'd all realize the severity of the stupidity epidemic that we are having amongst the children these days.

For those who still don't get it, this is why there is such of a lack of sympathy on these boards. Maybe one day someone you know will be killed as a result of somebody elses absolutely asinine actions and you too will realize that 'their just kids, they don't know any better' really doesn't apply.
rediculous

Madison, NJ

#310 Jul 22, 2009
'they're just kids' , sorry...no edit button and didn't proof read :) haha
fotoguy

White Plains, NY

#311 Jul 26, 2009
It's very sad & unfortunately it's the norm. Either posters joke about it or legislators do absolutely nothing

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