why do men treat good women bad

why do men treat good women bad

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diva girl

United States

#1 Dec 19, 2010
when a man has a good woman he wants to treat her bad i dont understand why.
Maybe

Oak Hill, WV

#2 Dec 19, 2010
diva girl wrote:
when a man has a good woman he wants to treat her bad i dont understand why.
Because she will let him. Period.
Wondering

United States

#3 Dec 19, 2010
I wonder the samething I love my husband with all my heart and all he can do is fuss and yell at me he never hits me but it is so emotional abuse:(
know the feeling

United States

#4 Dec 19, 2010
I have been there. If you treat em like shit they like it and kiss your ass but as soon as you start treating good they turn to dickhead mode. IDK what's up with them.
tell ya what

Hansford, WV

#5 Dec 19, 2010
It's not all men. And I think the biggest problem is the men we choose. Being a "good woman" myself, I know that I have always wanted to help people. Whether it was my man , my family, my friends...I always tried to "fix" things for them or even "fix" them, so I always went for the bad boys. People are who they are, and we can't get into a relationship with the goal of "fixing" them, or changing them. If we do that, then we're only asking for heartache.
The "good men" and "good women" need to either learn to accept someone with all their faults and learn to love it, or decide that it's not something they can live with in a partner and cut their losses. Because you don't want to spend years dealing with someone's faults hoping they are going to change, only to wake up one day and realize that the only thing that has changed is 10 years have gone by; wasted on a relationship that wasn't meant to be.
Just Steve

Cleveland, OH

#6 Dec 19, 2010
tell ya what wrote:
It's not all men. And I think the biggest problem is the men we choose. Being a "good woman" myself, I know that I have always wanted to help people. Whether it was my man , my family, my friends...I always tried to "fix" things for them or even "fix" them, so I always went for the bad boys. People are who they are, and we can't get into a relationship with the goal of "fixing" them, or changing them. If we do that, then we're only asking for heartache.
The "good men" and "good women" need to either learn to accept someone with all their faults and learn to love it, or decide that it's not something they can live with in a partner and cut their losses. Because you don't want to spend years dealing with someone's faults hoping they are going to change, only to wake up one day and realize that the only thing that has changed is 10 years have gone by; wasted on a relationship that wasn't meant to be.
Excellent advice. If any man starts showing you aggression in your relationship, run, don't walk, away from it. This behavior will not change; it will only escalate. The basic personality traits of anyone can be modified by only ten to fifteen percent. An aggressive male can not be changed no matter how you try and handle the problem. Again, at the first signs of aggression or dominance, move on. If you remain , you will lose.
i dont know

Oak Hill, WV

#7 Dec 23, 2010
i havent figured it out yet but i would like to know but that could take the rest of my life and i dont have time for it anymore something has got to give a little ethier way if i got to be bye myself i will be sick of dealin with it all the time
anonymous

United States

#8 Dec 27, 2010
Try lying to him works for my wife
Working Women

Oak Hill, WV

#9 Dec 27, 2010
What about the young men that looks for a woman that has a job to work and support them. I am not saying all young men do it but most of the men stay home playing video games while the women goes out and works to pay the bills . Or if they do have a job that is their money while the woman has to pay the bills. No i am not one of the woman doing it but I see so many that do it.
Anywho

Mount Hope, WV

#10 Dec 27, 2010
I don't understand why men treat woman like they do. Most men around here are either liars, cheaters or players... Married and single guys alike. Seems like all they want to do is sit around at the bars picking up anything with 2 legs that will give them a chance that night. I don't go to bars, so where do you go around here to find a good man?
angel

United States

#11 Dec 27, 2010
Working Women wrote:
What about the young men that looks for a woman that has a job to work and support them. I am not saying all young men do it but most of the men stay home playing video games while the women goes out and works to pay the bills . Or if they do have a job that is their money while the woman has to pay the bills. No i am not one of the woman doing it but I see so many that do it.
It dont have to be a young man that does this.How they say that they work to hard and wont even take out the trash or make themself a sandwich when they want a snack but when the woman has worked hard all day she still has to come home and cook wash clothes and do the stuff that he wont do and then if she sits down to rest he gets mad and start runing his mouth like it should only be him that is aloud to rest he thinks u should be his slave or mom.
mami

Russellville, AR

#12 Jul 7, 2011
i just dont get it, i lost my two kids and all i have is my boyfriend, who has three kids himself, so here i am taking care of him and his kids that are so mean with me, i do laundry, clean, cook, even clean the car that way he aint have to mess with it, he just treat me like nothing, calling me bitch, and telling me all kind of stuff, and on top of everything he is member on dating sites looking for a relationship, i dont know what to do, its hard for me and he is just making it harder, i guess they all are assholes !!!
just guessing

Mount Hope, WV

#13 Jul 7, 2011
mami wrote:
i just dont get it, i lost my two kids and all i have is my boyfriend, who has three kids himself, so here i am taking care of him and his kids that are so mean with me, i do laundry, clean, cook, even clean the car that way he aint have to mess with it, he just treat me like nothing, calling me bitch, and telling me all kind of stuff, and on top of everything he is member on dating sites looking for a relationship, i dont know what to do, its hard for me and he is just making it harder, i guess they all are assholes !!!
Have you inadvertently created your own childhood in your adult life? Only you know the answer to that. If so, get some therapy & break the cycle now or you will always be dissatisfied. Not all men are a-holes but any person can act like an asshole in the right situation.
Jesse James

United States

#14 Jul 8, 2011
I'm a good woman, dedicated very much so. If your man takes care of you ,tells you he loves you,plans on growin old with you. BUT......cheats and lies is this still classified as treatn a good woman bad?whatcha think?
Inside Guy

Oak Hill, WV

#15 Jul 10, 2011
I think it's because sometimes the good women want the good looking guys and overlook the average ones like myself. I goto college and work and when I dated, I managed to get a girl who cheated on me. It ended badly. I think that if women would take a chance on the average joes then maybe women could find mr right.
Average Guy

United States

#16 Jul 11, 2011
I agree ... Woman are always goin for the hottest guys .... Then they wonder y they got cheated on or y he abuses me or whatever .... Not sayn men don't go for the hottest girl but u get my drift .... Us nice guys always finish last ..... People wonder y theres no good guys or girls left .... It's because we have been run over so much by who we were with in the past that u don't no who u can trust anymore .... So when a good girl or guy does come along , we have our guard up ..... I'm jus sayn
wise up

United States

#17 Jul 11, 2011
mami wrote:
i just dont get it, i lost my two kids and all i have is my boyfriend, who has three kids himself, so here i am taking care of him and his kids that are so mean with me, i do laundry, clean, cook, even clean the car that way he aint have to mess with it, he just treat me like nothing, calling me bitch, and telling me all kind of stuff, and on top of everything he is member on dating sites looking for a relationship, i dont know what to do, its hard for me and he is just making it harder, i guess they all are assholes !!!
um,WISE UP. You aren't married to him,they aren't your kids,you take care of them an so on. GET RID OF THEIR UNGRATEFUL A$$ES. They aren't your responsibility. You let them treat you like that and they are going to keep treating you that way. BOOT THEM TO THE CURB. Show them you aren't going to be walked on. But more likely you won't do anything but keep on putting up with it.
ivan

Marlinton, WV

#18 Jul 12, 2011
Inside Guy wrote:
I think it's because sometimes the good women want the good looking guys and overlook the average ones like myself. I goto college and work and when I dated, I managed to get a girl who cheated on me. It ended badly. I think that if women would take a chance on the average joes then maybe women could find mr right.
exactly. but it is also reversed to. guys go for looks a lot.
people need to pull their heads out of their butts and look with their heart not their eyes. AND women need to stop looking for a man that is nothing more than wallet. the last girlfriend i had was not all that great looking. i tried, but she accused me of cheating on her when she wasn't around, nd i do not stand for being accused of something i did not do. and won't do.
Jesse James

United States

#19 Jul 12, 2011
You r correct! Don't just blame or accuse. But once caught its hard to be trusted again. Aren't these people concerned with vd ? Just sayin. All u unfaithful seem to think your immune to all of this. If the male or female u r unfaithful with is doin it with u ,their probably doin it with others. Ya think?
All Men Cheat

Clarksburg, WV

#20 Jul 14, 2011
Your never gonna find one that's faithful. It's born and bred into men to want to spread their seed and populate the earth. Your never gonna keep a man from chasing tail, even if he does love you. My advise, go out and get your own piece of strange.

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