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Moorefield, WV

#21 Apr 7, 2010
Maybe you had "once last chance" many times before and this time she meant it.

She may be waiting for proof that you've changed before restoring the relationship.

Could be she wasn't invested in this relationship from the beginning.

Or, maybe you just breathed. When a woman is in the mood to be contrary it doesn't take much to spark a flame.

I'd like to hear her side because it's hard to believe you haven't a clue as to why she's not responding to your efforts. I guess lack of response is a response in itself regarding this situation.

Relationships are hard work to sustain on both sides. It's not a 50/50 deal; it's 100% from both 24/7. Love makes it worth the effort. Since you care so deeply, I hope you are able to change whatever you feel needs changing and you are reunited. I believe everyone deserves forgiveness, but I'm not sure everyone deserves a second chance. It would depend on the situation. I hope you deserve and get both.

I'm sorry that so many women have been hurt or disappointed by their men. There are good men out there, though. My husband is the most honest and loving man I know. I believe he has been faithful through the 19 years of our marriage. He is the best thing that ever happened to me, and I treasure him as a gift from God. I hope all of you who are alone and lonely will meet a man you can compliment like this. A man worthy of your love.

Just wondering, I hope your lady takes you back and lets you know what it was you did so you won't do it again! I know the pain of a break-up, and realize it isn't easy to let go and begin again.
If she truly loves you and you are sincere, she'll probably take you back.

However, changed phone number, new locks, and a restraining order says "it's so over" like the token end-of-relationship roses never could.
Hey

Mount Hope, WV

#22 Apr 8, 2010
I agree you "my view" if he has really change and she loves him she will give you other chance. i wish you the best, i hope things work out for you.
Wonder why

Maidens, VA

#23 Apr 8, 2010
just wondering wrote:
if he is trying don"t you thank he deserve a chance then if it is the same you can always leave again unless you don thank you would be able to leave if you have ever loved someone you would give them a chance
Oh ya,sure,beleave him,why not, Haaaa Haaaa Haaaaa !!!!!!!!
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Mount Hope, WV

#24 Apr 8, 2010
just wondering wrote:
if he is trying don"t you thank he deserve a chance then if it is the same you can always leave again unless you don thank you would be able to leave if you have ever loved someone you would give them a chance
ok let me tranlate the Bobby Adkins talk! lol

If he is trying to change, don't you think he deserves a chance? Then when she comes back, if its the same, she could always leave again! Unless you dont think you would be able to leave. If you ever loved him/her, you would give them another chance.

And by the way Bobby, if you keep putting all of your and Amanda's buisness online for the whole town to read, not only is she not going to come back, but you also going to have everyone laughing at you! Just stop, your making yourself look retarded!!
GreenEyez

Princeton, WV

#25 Apr 11, 2010
I was married for several years. He cheated once I took him back cause of all his promises of "I will never do that again, baby I love you". He cheated again so I divored his ass and told him never again. I do believe "once a cheater always a cheater".
close friend

Oak Hill, WV

#26 Apr 11, 2010
if she does give him a second chance she could always leave again when he goes to work i know bobby and i have seen a change but i know amanda to and she has changed to amanda please don't take this the wrong way but bobby really wasn't that bad and you know it people say things they don't mean when they are mad but you know he loves you and think about it when did he have time to cheat i am not saying he didn't but it is hard to cheat when you don't go any where and when he did he was always with someone you knew and they would of told you
friendly

Oak Hill, WV

#27 Apr 11, 2010
by the way bobby didn't start this i did amber hay amanda i am speaking from the heart if he is still trying and it hasd been months that is really love and you need to ask your self if he loves this much i don't thank he would cheat on you don't ou thank that is true
crazy

United States

#28 Apr 11, 2010
would a man give women a second chance if they cheated no they would not once a cheater always a cheater and the man always promies to change and they never do it is hard when you love someone but there is always a solution walk away I have done it for twenty years and walked away because nothing never changed.
happy

Oak Hill, WV

#29 Apr 11, 2010
thats no true i gave my wife a chance an when have been together ever since so amanda if you ever did love him and he has told you he would change you should give him a chance don't listen to people that tell you not to it sounds like he really loves you and if you talk to him like me and my wife did and see what happens it can't hurt me and my wife has had a good life ever since and if you have kids don't you thank you should give it a try for them to love is worth the gamble TRUST ME
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Oak Hill, WV

#30 Apr 11, 2010
i don't mean to make anyone mad but it sounds like she was the one cheating and she left because she started feel guilty about it but i am sure he would forgive her it sounds like he really loves her

“look up and laugh”

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#31 Aug 18, 2013
maybe they should make the change first......then get a second chance maybe.
Being Informative

Charleston, WV

#32 Aug 18, 2013
If you truly love someone and are committed, you will walk away from temptation. If you give in once, you will repeat it. Marriage is a relationship based on trust. Once that trust has been broken, it is always there in the back of your mind. Where is he, why is he late, etc. I stayed because of my kids and I did truly love my ex. He did it over and over. I didn't know it at the time. But in the end he found someone who also did not have a conscience and was just like him. It has been a long time now, and I am still just as hurt as I was when it happened. Best thing you can do is meet a man in church. If he is a God fearing man, he won't be looking for things he shouldn't be.

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#33 Aug 19, 2013
Omce burner - twice warned.
Juniorq

Charleston, WV

#34 Aug 26, 2013
everyone has a right to try to change but once hope and trust is lost in a relationship, you have to change without thinking that person will take you back.

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#35 Sep 11, 2013
You can only judge on what has happened in the past - not what is promised in the future.

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