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Cole Harris
Springdale, AR
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Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn. Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural temptations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldn't change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldn't understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door. What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangeable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldn't be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didn't have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I don't want to sound like a fanatic, but I'm worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth. Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son?
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“Gotta Love Me”
Joined: Dec 17, 2008
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Fayetteville AR
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Ben Dover
Springdale, AR
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He`s gonzo,... Adopt a dog and forget the fruit. There`s no such things a s an ex-gay...
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Yermomma
Springdale, AR
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Yep.. I <3 homogays
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Joined: Nov 12, 2007
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Springdale, AR
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Are you actually being serious? When you ask "is it possible to save my son", what exactly do you mean by that? Cole Harris wrote: Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn. Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural temptations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldn't change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldn't understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door. What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangeable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldn't be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didn't have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I don't want to sound like a fanatic, but I'm worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth. Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son?
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Northstar
Talihina, OK
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Leave your son alone, he likes d;ck, get over it. It seems you're the one with the problem, not him.
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the truth
Van Buren, AR
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Cole Harris wrote: Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn. Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural temptations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldn't change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldn't understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door. What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangeable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldn't be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didn't have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I don't want to sound like a fanatic, but I'm worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth. Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son? The apple usually doesn't fall for from the tree and by that I mean you sound like you have repressed homosexual feelings.
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“ Go HIfreann Leat!!”
Joined: Jun 23, 2009
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Port Saint Lucie, FL
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Cole Harris wrote: Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn. Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural temptations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldn't change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldn't understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door. What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangeable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldn't be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didn't have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I don't want to sound like a fanatic, but I'm worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth. Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son? Hello, Mr Harris. I'm sorry but I've never heard of anyone coming back from this level of perversion. This is a reprobate state of mind. Right up there in the Bible with murder, rape, and beastiality. You're right about the media propagating and heavily promoting homosexuality. It's filthy how they make some of the most simple friend-to-friend conversations and behavior laitantly homosexual. So many kids these days have and are growing up thinking it is natural to behave more effeminately and to be attracted to the feminancy of there same-sex friends. Women are widely known for the loose grasp they have on emotions. The media, Hollywood and repulsive TV channels like MTV have since created such out of control effeminant movements like "Emo". Teaching children to love what is unatural and to cleave to a sense of entitlement and victomization. It's like a seething plague in the minds and souls of our American children. So sad. All I can suggest to you, Mr Harris, is that you not tollerate or accept his homosexuality. In doing so you will have taught him nothing and brought about your own downfall. Continue to openly speak the truth about what God says about homosexuality (and other loathsome behaviors). Also, talk openly about things and people which/whom God loves. Don't just read..but study the scripture daily. Start reviewing the Greek and Hebrew. God asks that we search for knowledge like a buried treasure. Your son may even say he hates you for what you tell him but remember that you are a messenger. It is your duty to spread the truth. If he rejects it and chooses spiritual death..and hates you...then know that he rejected and hated God (the creator of all goodness) first. Good luck to you.
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BootyButt
Springdale, AR
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“Prone To Crash”
Joined: Aug 15, 2008
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wherever i like
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Cole Harris wrote: Just recently my son Bobby came out to me. I had been worried for awhile. His teachers said most of his grades were slipping and he seemed depressed and withdrawn. Bobby said he'd been hiding it for awhile because he was afraid I would reject him. I sat him down and told him that I loved him and that God loved him, but that his salvation was in danger if he did not resist his unnatural temptations. I told him how being gay would mean he would live a shorter life, and that if he couldn't change his orientation he could be celibate like most the ex-gays are. He started crying saying something along the lines of "I knew you wouldn't understand! You're just like everyone else!" before running to his room and slamming the door. What did I do wrong? I don't want to lose my son, but I fear I already have. I talked it over with his therapist, who had the ludicrous idea that homosexuality was unchangeable and that trying to repress could lead to lots of psychological damage (I've dropped him and will try to be finding another therapist with more moral beliefs). I wouldn't be surprised if he's the one who's feeding my son all the homosexual propaganda about how its 'ok' to be gay. That, or how homosexuality has engulfed the media, making it seem 'cool' and 'hip' and how they were just another oppressed minority. You didn't have to worry about seeing two men making out on tv at my age! I don't want to sound like a fanatic, but I'm worried what other effects will come out of this increasingly secular, immoral society obsessed with filth. Am I too late? Or is it possible to save my son? By saying that its not ok to be gay is to tell him not to be himself, not to think about what he is or act for who he is. What your saying is hate. It is 100% ok to be gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender. Tell your son that its ok, and their are many people out their in this world who will love him for all hes worth and more. Sexual orientation is determined by age 6th and sometimes birth, hes not going to change, your just going to have to learn to love him even more and accept him, even though its going to be a hard task, but if you truly love him, you can do it
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Christy
Cabot, AR
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Frigga, your so full of shit. Frigga wrote: <quoted text>Hello, Mr Harris. I'm sorry but I've never heard of anyone coming back from this level of perversion. This is a reprobate state of mind. Right up there in the Bible with murder, rape, and beastiality. You're right about the media propagating and heavily promoting homosexuality. It's filthy how they make some of the most simple friend-to-friend conversations and behavior laitantly homosexual. So many kids these days have and are growing up thinking it is natural to behave more effeminately and to be attracted to the feminancy of there same-sex friends. Women are widely known for the loose grasp they have on emotions. The media, Hollywood and repulsive TV channels like MTV have since created such out of control effeminant movements like "Emo". Teaching children to love what is unatural and to cleave to a sense of entitlement and victomization. It's like a seething plague in the minds and souls of our American children. So sad. All I can suggest to you, Mr Harris, is that you not tollerate or accept his homosexuality. In doing so you will have taught him nothing and brought about your own downfall. Continue to openly speak the truth about what God says about homosexuality (and other loathsome behaviors). Also, talk openly about things and people which/whom God loves. Don't just read..but study the scripture daily. Start reviewing the Greek and Hebrew. God asks that we search for knowledge like a buried treasure. Your son may even say he hates you for what you tell him but remember that you are a messenger. It is your duty to spread the truth. If he rejects it and chooses spiritual death..and hates you...then know that he rejected and hated God (the creator of all goodness) first. Good luck to you.
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Amanda Hugginkiss
Talihina, OK
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does your son go to the park a lot?
guess what? older dudes are blowing him and I'm sure he's returning the favor
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