Cruel Intentions?
doesitmatter

Hindman, KY

#1 Sep 8, 2012
Why do men (or women) have so much fun playing mind games? Really, what is the point? I've been head over heels for this guy I know for quite some time and, at times, it seems he really likes me too, but then, out of the blue, he'll say he doesn't know what he wants, he's not ready for a relationship, etc. Then, inevitably he will start flirting with me hard and heavy once again, but when I show any interest the little game starts all over again. I'm a patient person and I don't mind waiting on a good thing but I never did understand the point of leading someone on or giving them false hope if you have no intentions of ever being with them or, even worse, you have no feelings for them whatsoever. One would think that even the cruelest of persons would understand that it's not right to break someone's heart just because you can.

neil

Hindman, KY

#2 Sep 8, 2012
doesitmatter wrote:
Why do men (or women) have so much fun playing mind games? Really, what is the point? I've been head over heels for this guy I know for quite some time and, at times, it seems he really likes me too, but then, out of the blue, he'll say he doesn't know what he wants, he's not ready for a relationship, etc. Then, inevitably he will start flirting with me hard and heavy once again, but when I show any interest the little game starts all over again. I'm a patient person and I don't mind waiting on a good thing but I never did understand the point of leading someone on or giving them false hope if you have no intentions of ever being with them or, even worse, you have no feelings for them whatsoever. One would think that even the cruelest of persons would understand that it's not right to break someone's heart just because you can.
do him the same way if he shows interest in you.act like you don't care.don't wait on him he's trying to be cool.don't let him treat you like that.
Right on

Clayhole, KY

#4 Sep 15, 2012
He is using you at his convenience. I've seen this time and time again and even have went thru it personnally 1 time myself. It is a game to him, he wants a challenge. Once he has you he doesn't want you. In the end you will only get hurt. cut the strings now and move on. the best way to get over someone is having someone new. Go out and have fun. Give it time and you will be completely over him. The most important thing is cutting off all contact with no intentions of ever going back. Don't have any contact with him. Promise yourself for 2 weeks no calls, text, don't even look on his facebook page or anything. It will get easier.
love doctor

Hindman, KY

#5 Sep 15, 2012
Right on wrote:
He is using you at his convenience. I've seen this time and time again and even have went thru it personnally 1 time myself. It is a game to him, he wants a challenge. Once he has you he doesn't want you. In the end you will only get hurt. cut the strings now and move on. the best way to get over someone is having someone new. Go out and have fun. Give it time and you will be completely over him. The most important thing is cutting off all contact with no intentions of ever going back. Don't have any contact with him. Promise yourself for 2 weeks no calls, text, don't even look on his facebook page or anything. It will get easier.
this person is telling you the truth.if you do this it will get easier.best thing find somebody that want play games with you.
doesitmatter

Hindman, KY

#6 Sep 15, 2012
I know you guys are right. Sometimes, I wish I'd never met him. Life would be so much easier. I do enjoy his friendship but I'm not sure I know how to separate the two. I guess it's time to move on. It's not like I don't have other guys interested in me. I just click with him so well. We share so many of the same interests and we laugh about the same things. Sometimes we even finish each others' sentences. I guess the worst part is that I'm not a quitter by nature. I don't give up on things easily, partly because I don't like failure but mostly because I think anything worth having is worth waiting for. Also, he has been hurt in the past and I guess I want to believe that he's just afraid of being hurt again. He's made several comments which would suggest that he thinks maybe I just treat every man the same way I treat him and nothing could be farther from the truth. I'm very shy around nearly all men but I find it very easy to be outgoing and vivacious around him simply because I enjoy his company so much.

I feel so frustrated.

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