High Point Superintendant nude confrontation with a student at Minerals Spa

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ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#1 Aug 7, 2012
OK, ONLY IN VERNON would it be not a crime to have an adult, no less the Superintendant of High Point High School, walk up NUDE to a High Point student and begin a discussion. WHO IN THEIR MIND would do such a thing?????????? Please let's get rid of Vernon Chief of Police Wherry!!!!!!!! He must be a sex addict or a pedophile himself because he has let SOOOOOOOOOOOOO many sex crimes in VERNON go unprosecuted. Sounds to me like he has something to hide. What adult or anyone else would walk up to ANYONE in a lockeroom TOTALLY nude and start a discussion let along a person of authority in education to a student!!!!!! And again only in Vernon is this not considered a crime!!!!!!!! Sounds to me like the police force likes this behavior or maybe the chief of police gets his "KICKS" off of this type of shameful behavior. TIME FOR A REVOLT IN THIS TOWN. WE ARE ALL TIRED OF THIS BEHAVIOR!!!!!!
Vernon Resident

Sparta, NJ

#2 Aug 7, 2012
What behaviour? Sounds to me the Superintendent handled the situation well, what was he supposed to do, run into a corner and hide? You admit it was a locker room! Any children you have must be eally messed up!
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#3 Aug 8, 2012
Vernon Resident wrote:
What behaviour? Sounds to me the Superintendent handled the situation well, what was he supposed to do, run into a corner and hide? You admit it was a locker room! Any children you have must be eally messed up!
You must be clearly been a student of VTSD; see misspelling of behavior. Again, no one should be addressing anyone, in particular a Superintendent of Schools, naked in a locker room. It is especially horrible when the person the Superintendent approached was a student!! Only in Vernon is this considered acceptable behavior!!!! My children are not "easily messed up"; we do our best to keep them away from sex addicts and the pedophiles that exist in this world. I would bet my life that Sussex County has the largest percentage of those on Megan's Law Registry. Nothing to do and useless unemployed persons spending far too much time crawling the Internet for minors. One only need to recall a few years back when a member of the Vernon Township Board of Education, who had several young daughters of his own, attempted to meet up with a 13 year old girl for sex and he was so desperate that he did not realize or cared that those sites are patroled by sex crime authorities.
vernon mom

Warwick, NY

#4 Aug 8, 2012
Have you ever been in the locker rooms at the Spa? The majority of the people are nude.
Vernon Resident

Sparta, NJ

#5 Aug 8, 2012
Here we go again, what a dweeb! Don't take you children to locker rooms if you are that much of a prude. Seems to me the incident was handled well.
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#6 Aug 9, 2012
Vernon Resident wrote:
Here we go again, what a dweeb! Don't take you children to locker rooms if you are that much of a prude. Seems to me the incident was handled well.
THE POINT IS THAT NO ONE IN AUTHORITY SHOULD CONFRONT A STUDENT NUDE OR HAVE A DISCUSSION. Does anyone in Sussex County follow modesty rules?????????? Hanging out nude and literally "hanging out" as a Superintendent of schools should in no WAY be having a discussion in a locker room with a student. It's just weird and only in Vernon would the police find this behavior "OK".
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#7 Aug 9, 2012
vernon mom wrote:
Have you ever been in the locker rooms at the Spa? The majority of the people are nude.
Yes, that's because Minerals is in Vernon. Locker rooms are for changing your clothes; NOT hanging out for periods of time have discussions with students!!!!! Marital affairs, date rapes, statutory rape, incest, etc. is a way of life in this town.
Vernon Resident

Sparta, NJ

#8 Aug 9, 2012
It does not read like you were there but rather taking your (minor) child's word about what took place. If I am wrong, where were you? To answer that, certainly not ensuring your version of "prude" was complied with right! As to confronting, I wonder who pointed out who and why, perhaps your kid cannot handle situations such as this well. It is clear you cannot either.

By the way, what has High Point to do with Vernon? I do not care to know your experiences with incest either although that might explain a lot .........
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#9 Aug 10, 2012
Vernon Resident wrote:
It does not read like you were there but rather taking your (minor) child's word about what took place. If I am wrong, where were you? To answer that, certainly not ensuring your version of "prude" was complied with right! As to confronting, I wonder who pointed out who and why, perhaps your kid cannot handle situations such as this well. It is clear you cannot either.
By the way, what has High Point to do with Vernon? I do not care to know your experiences with incest either although that might explain a lot .........
First, High Point has to do with Vernon because the incident occurred in Vernon and was investigated by Vernon police. Second, it was not my child. Third, your inference that incest occurred in my household is false. You sound like someone that may be trolling the Internet or likes having discussions while nude in locker rooms. Just saying.......... Fourth, as far as handling situations like this; it was just clearly not appropriate for the Superintendent to be nude in front of a student that attends his school; plain and simple!!
vernon mom

Warwick, NY

#10 Aug 10, 2012
ribbon wrote:
<quoted text>First, High Point has to do with Vernon because the incident occurred in Vernon and was investigated by Vernon police. Second, it was not my child. Third, your inference that incest occurred in my household is false. You sound like someone that may be trolling the Internet or likes having discussions while nude in locker rooms. Just saying.......... Fourth, as far as handling situations like this; it was just clearly not appropriate for the Superintendent to be nude in front of a student that attends his school; plain and simple!!
It sounds to me like you are the one who trolls the internet. From what you wrote, you were not there and your child was not there, so how do you know the details of what happened? And I really don't see what this has to do with Vernon anyway. The superintendent and the student are both part of High Point, so that says more about Sussex than Vernon. Last I heard, if someone comes up to you while you are changing in a locker room, its not illegal to speak to them. If you don't like it, don't go in locker rooms.
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#11 Aug 12, 2012
vernon mom wrote:
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It sounds to me like you are the one who trolls the internet. From what you wrote, you were not there and your child was not there, so how do you know the details of what happened? And I really don't see what this has to do with Vernon anyway. The superintendent and the student are both part of High Point, so that says more about Sussex than Vernon. Last I heard, if someone comes up to you while you are changing in a locker room, its not illegal to speak to them. If you don't like it, don't go in locker rooms.
Point is; don't speak to people ANYWHERE NAKED!!!. Only in Vernon!!! Again, only Vernon police would find this behavior acceptable. Speaks volumes for their moral fiber!!! Naked discussion anywhere and anyplace other than with a husband and a wife is acceptable! Read the Bible sweatheart!!!
vernon mom

Warwick, NY

#12 Aug 12, 2012
ribbon wrote:
<quoted text>Point is; don't speak to people ANYWHERE NAKED!!!. Only in Vernon!!! Again, only Vernon police would find this behavior acceptable. Speaks volumes for their moral fiber!!! Naked discussion anywhere and anyplace other than with a husband and a wife is acceptable! Read the Bible sweatheart!!!
I see you've changed your mind and now you feel it's acceptable! And what is a sweatheart?
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#13 Aug 13, 2012
vernon mom wrote:
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I see you've changed your mind and now you feel it's acceptable! And what is a sweatheart?
Pointless to try to convince a "Vernon mom" that a discussion or any interaction that is done naked between the Superintendant of Schools and a student is inappropriate regardless of where it occurs. That is why Vernon has the reputation that it does.
Sussex resident

Sparta, NJ

#14 Aug 13, 2012
ribbon wrote:
<quoted text>Pointless to try to convince a "Vernon mom" that a discussion or any interaction that is done naked between the Superintendant of Schools and a student is inappropriate regardless of where it occurs. That is why Vernon has the reputation that it does.
Would you just give it up? No one else is joining in this conversation, because most people probably think you are overreacting. Also, someone asked you how you know this happened if you weren't there and you never even answered. So, how do you know this conversation even happened if you didn't witness it yourself? As far as I am concerned, you are just on here spreading rumors!
Fed Up

Highland Lakes, NJ

#15 Aug 15, 2012
ribbon wrote:
<quoted text>Pointless to try to convince a "Vernon mom" that a discussion or any interaction that is done naked between the Superintendant of Schools and a student is inappropriate regardless of where it occurs. That is why Vernon has the reputation that it does.
I agree with you 100%. You must know by know you can't get through to some of these people. I'm headed back to civilization (Morristown) Hooray!!!!
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#16 Aug 21, 2012
Fed Up wrote:
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I agree with you 100%. You must know by know you can't get through to some of these people. I'm headed back to civilization (Morristown) Hooray!!!!
Best of luck selling; we are headed back to Bergen County ourselves. Trouble selling a house in this town though; no one wants to pay these taxes and deal with corrupt government and rednecks.
JoeRedneck

Sparta, NJ

#17 Aug 21, 2012
Go then, the sooner the better. Watch out for the door closing behind you. Hope you both find the government better in Morris or Bergen County, but somehow I doubt it.
lol

Parsippany, NJ

#18 Aug 21, 2012
Has anyone here been to the Spa or been in a locker room before? Its a locker room people take showers "naked" and get changed. Occasionally conversation will occur. I'm not sure what the superintendent should have done differently. Its not an uncommon thing for conversation to occur in such an environment. If the parents of these students were so concerned with the students being exposed to nudity they should not have allowed them to enter the locker room at all. The spa has 2 entrances to use the facilities. One by the check in counter which gives access to the pools. The other through the locker room. The only thing I would have been concerned about is the length of the conversation that took place and the subject matter that was discussed. If it was all within reason I see no problem with it. Better parenting should have been practiced.
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#19 Aug 21, 2012
JoeRedneck wrote:
Go then, the sooner the better. Watch out for the door closing behind you. Hope you both find the government better in Morris oor Bergen County, but somehow I doubt it.
Cannot wait "Joe Redneck" to be away from the likes of you. God forbid my daughters were to be involved with any sons you may have!!!!!!
ribbon

Sussex, NJ

#20 Aug 21, 2012
lol wrote:
Has anyone here been to the Spa or been in a locker room before? Its a locker room people take showers "naked" and get changed. Occasionally conversation will occur. I'm not sure what the superintendent should have done differently. Its not an uncommon thing for conversation to occur in such an environment. If the parents of these students were so concerned with the students being exposed to nudity they should not have allowed them to enter the locker room at all. The spa has 2 entrances to use the facilities. One by the check in counter which gives access to the pools. The other through the locker room. The only thing I would have been concerned about is the length of the conversation that took place and the subject matter that was discussed. If it was all within reason I see no problem with it. Better parenting should have been practiced.
GET DRESSED DO NOT HANG OUT AND HAVE CONVERSATIONS NAKED!! IT'S THAT EASY AND SIMPLE!!!! Do you walk around nude in your home?

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