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Glenwood, NJ

#163 May 17, 2010
Is Everyone Really Happy wrote:
First of all let me say that it does take two. This happened how long ago and everyone has moved on right?. If everyone was happy these mystery people wouldn't keep posting from something that happened so long ago. This teachers personal life should have no effect on her teaching ablilities. My child has had her as a teacher and she was wonderful. She was a great teacher and we enjoyed having her she NEVER did anything wrong or out of character. I do not understand what her weight or who she is dating has to do with anything. Every humans body weight changes some for the good and some for the bad. Who really gives a shit what she looks like weight wise. Anybody that really knows the situation knows that she was injured and was off her feet for weeks which could easily put weight on. So please get off this all already. Their is nothing more I can't stand then people gossiping when they don't know what they are talking about.
These negative posts just show how half these people posting are either miserable or haven't really moved on like they said they have.
In the reality of life the ONLY thing that should matter is that we have our health and healthy happy children. Too much time is wasted hurting others and being hurt and trying to seek revenge. We live in a sick world. Instead of ripping this teacher appart don't judge her until you were in her shoes. Their is not 2 sides to every story their is 3. Your side, my side and the TRUTH. So stop giving this topic anymore attention and let everyone move on. Life is too short to spend this much time and energy on such bull shit. Everyone is said to have moved on so leave it alone. Nobodys lives are perfect and people in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. God is about forgiving and forgetting.
She made the poor choice for what she did and she has to live with that choice for the rest of her life. And knowing that she does have a heart and is a good person I am sure that she does regret it and wishes she could take it back. But the damage is done and it is only fair to let everyone be happy and move on. Like you said especially for the kids who are innocent in all of this. Stay postive and move on. If people truely were happy you wouldn't keep hearing all this crap of trying to put this teacher down. Just move on and stop wasting your time and energy trying to keep this going. We all have to answer to a higher authority. And if people are truely happy we shouldn't have to hear anymore about this unfortunate situation. Everyone has pain and was hurting. It is time to heal and move forward.
I completely agree with you on most of your post, but don't put your head on the board for this woman. She may seem very nice and heavy hearted but that is the furthest from the truth. I happen to also know this woman for many many years and she is not put togther in the least. You are correct that weight and looks are not what makes a person, but in this case the heart does not either. I have dealt with her personally and professionally and I can with full confindence say she is as coniving and manipulative as they come. Don't let a degree or a suit fool you, her intentions in this case were filled with nothing but pure jelousy and hatred. Maybe if you got to know both parties and really knew what happened, you'd be thanking yourself right now for not posting your name. Like you said, let both parties move on and dont' throw rocks.
Drama Queen

Glenwood, NJ

#164 May 20, 2010
MIXED INFORMATION your post comes accross so moving, and I hate to embarass you but you obviously don't know your friend as well as you claim. Let me clarify something for you, when a person feels bad, has a good heart, blah blah blah means they did something in the past and stopped on their own. In this case your friend didn't stop, she was CAUGHT! Therefore, she never intended on stopping this, her intent was to break up a marriage that she put so much effort into fracturing. Did she also tell you that she begged him to leave his wife and when it didnt happen all of a sudden became pregnant and the following day after she was caught spent nearly an entire day crying and begging to for the affair not to end. Oh, my friend I can go on on and YES I do know the situtation and circumstances and I am very good friends with the one and only person that was hurt here, the WIFE! Did she also tell you that her close friend is currently having an affair with a married man or that she had the balls to tell some parents that she never had an affair with a man but simply made up by the wife and her ex husband? I guess you didnt know all this Huh? Lastly just because this is discussed doesnt mean "people" arent happy, it simply means that if your friend would shut her mouth and not continue to lie and cover up for her disgusting actions then everyone else would also stop talking. Do some more research next time before you stick your hand in the fire for someone.
Past Vernon Resident

Glenwood, NJ

#165 May 20, 2010
The husband is a scumbag for cheating on his wife, the wife is stupid for staying with him. I have known CJ since high school and everyone knew she had issues. She acted like a sweet and almost stupid person but when it came to back stabbing she held the knife collection. he he he. The only person I feel sorry here for is her cause no matter what she is a dirt bag that tries to act classy. Vernon is a fun place lol.
Miami Momma

AOL

#166 May 23, 2010
My daughter and her boyfriend have been together for 10 years. He decided he didn't love her anymore after she beared two beautiful boys one is 5 years old and the other is 7 months. On the weekend of Mothers Day he packed his clothes and decided he didn't want a commited relationship.
Here's the good part ...(well it's not good)
My daughter was okay with the split thinking okay they need some time apart and they were being civil as I proposed for the sake of the boys.
On Friday night she called and passed by however
there was a car out front, it was the Pre K teachers car where there 5 year old attends and she is his teacher. Come on now this is just crazy!First off I think it's so messed up (that is not the word I want to use) that this teacher knew both parents, she came to one of the baseball games of my grandson and acted like there was nothing going on and I have done my research and this teacher has commented on every vague comment my daughters man wrote on FB that I can see the affair started in February (I'm a whiz on this investigation as my 3 X's all got caught cheating) and I'm not ugly or fat! They were just male whores!
Ha now what are your comments on this ... shall I sue the school for having to pay for this teacher who is fraternizing with the kids father? Hmm shall I sue the teacher (lil homewrecker) oh and the father is done ... C & F are on my speed dial for child support. Thing is I'm like a mother lion and I had just got my daughter getting by with the separation but to lose your man to your kids teacher that is dirty!
Concerned Jane

United States

#167 May 24, 2010
Enough already
Wrong answer

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#168 May 30, 2010
My man is having an affair with my sons teacher and I wan to sue the school (Day Care) and I want my money back since my son was in her class since last year. It's not fair I'm paying the school and now the father of my two son's has moved out (On Mothers Day weekend) and he is still seeing this teacher. It's crazy that he is sticking up for her and saying if I went in to complain he would say it started after he moved out which is not true and he has been commenting on FB inuendos but I could read between the lines.
He said he left me because he didn't want to be in a commited relationship anymore. Isn't there a moral clause for teachers?
Old New Jerseyan

Patchogue, NY

#169 Jun 3, 2010
Wrong answer wrote:
My man is having an affair with my sons teacher and I wan to sue the school (Day Care) and I want my money back since my son was in her class since last year. It's not fair I'm paying the school and now the father of my two son's has moved out (On Mothers Day weekend) and he is still seeing this teacher. It's crazy that he is sticking up for her and saying if I went in to complain he would say it started after he moved out which is not true and he has been commenting on FB inuendos but I could read between the lines.
He said he left me because he didn't want to be in a commited relationship anymore. Isn't there a moral clause for teachers?
So sorry
Colin

Pearl River, NY

#170 Jun 3, 2010
Why is this still an issue?
JC Miami

AOL

#171 Jul 29, 2010
janice wrote:
<quoted text> you have to be the same person as the person above (vernonres)
Warwick, NY , because you are a very negative person, people make mistakes, it is not like she murdered someone or molested a child, what happened is out of school, has nothing to do what she is teaching at that school. take your chip off your shoulder and allow mistakes, people screw up we arent all perfect. Look outside your doors there are more problems then this gossip crap on topix, it is supposed to be about your neighborhood, what is happening around town, wonderful things not gossip crap, grow up and pay attention to your own .
It's obvious you are a loner and DON'T excuse cheating as a little mistake and if you don't like gossip WHY are you here MORONIC people I swear. I have had the same experience with Teachers and let me tell you something in case you are too stupid to take note:
A teacher is a role model if she decides to decimate a family she should think twice~Go screw someone out of town, call a male escort, but don't go screwing around with a man who has a family.(Men are weak animals when it comes to sex)In my town we just kick ass and don't take names! Like I said before this is a GOSSIP site so I ask you: WHY are you here if you don't like to talk smacK?
You should really get another topic to squak on. Don't tell people to grow up it's not your business how others act so get a freakin life. Idiots I swear!!
JC Miami

AOL

#172 Jul 29, 2010
Old New Jerseyan wrote:
<quoted text>
So sorry
The exact same thing happened to my daughter and YES there is a MORAL clause! Check this out~
law.onecle.com/new-jersey/18a-education/index...
I got the teacher FIRED and she is now a babysitter!! LOL
What is it with these teachers??? I say go get her! Get her
fired~
Best of luck to you~
JC Miami

AOL

#173 Jul 29, 2010
Wrong answer wrote:
My man is having an affair with my sons teacher and I wan to sue the school (Day Care) and I want my money back since my son was in her class since last year. It's not fair I'm paying the school and now the father of my two son's has moved out (On Mothers Day weekend) and he is still seeing this teacher. It's crazy that he is sticking up for her and saying if I went in to complain he would say it started after he moved out which is not true and he has been commenting on FB inuendos but I could read between the lines.
He said he left me because he didn't want to be in a commited relationship anymore. Isn't there a moral clause for teachers?
Amazing Grace ... sure you are not in Miami? My daughter has gone through this as well and her man left Mother's Day weekend also.
Some men don't know when to keep their zipper up!!
You will get through this just write and demand your money back!!
law.onecle.com/new-jersey/18a-education/index... Also do some research on the Statues in your state regarding teachers moral clause. Good Luck honey~Stay strong and go for the throat and get
palimony and child support. Stick it to him!!
JC Miami

AOL

#174 Jul 29, 2010
Check out the Code of Ethics lrs.ed.uiuc.edu
Some teachers think they are above the law!
Smitty

Winchester, KY

#175 Aug 5, 2010
WTF is wrong with these posters? Have you nothing better to do? Get the B*%@$h fired & be done with this/
JC Miami

AOL

#176 Aug 5, 2010
Exactly ... get her fired!!

That is exactly what I did here in Miami and YES she is fired!
Now she's in Weston, FL (latest is she is a Director of a school) I highly doubt it ... beware Mother's in Weston watch where you take your kids! LOL
Brandy

Lorton, VA

#177 Mar 4, 2014
Where can I found a law written my son teacher is having an affair with my husband I want to destroy her and I will destroy him too I have pictures of them together .i want to walk to the principal office and show him but I want to go ready were can I found the law written please help me I don't want they get away ,she is also marry she will destroy my marriage but I will destroy her I just don't know how to proceed
Too Much

Newton, NJ

#178 Mar 15, 2014
First Brandy-learn English and how to write and make a sentence. If you can't form a simple sentence you will never understand legal matters.

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