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unbelievable

Dawsonville, GA

#1 Oct 2, 2010
I heard some disturbing news today. Someone who was going to give me a job awhile back confided in me why they didnt. I was taken aback by what they said. Apparently some people in town, who shall remain nameless, but know who they are decided i wasnt good enough to work in an establishment that they frequented. They told this potential employer that "you shouldnt hire her because ...." the content of what was actually said is not important. What is important is that these "powers at be" had no right to say anything. I have been a citizen of towns county for over 11 years now, I have always been friendly and curtious to my fellow towns county neighbors. I went through an ugly but much needed divorce from a man who was abusive, a drunk and many many other things. Through this messy divorce, i was able to retain my home, my children and finish my 3rd round of college with honors. I have never stolen, berated or treated anyone in this town with anything but kindness and politeness. Anyone who truly knows me, knows that I will go out of my way for another human being if asked. I do not go to church, but that does not mean that i dont have a relationship with God (which i do, we talk daily). After sitting home and having a pitty party for myself for a long period of time, while my husband ran around town getting young girls pregnant.. i opted to have a little fun.. i will say i went a little overboard.. too much drinking and dancing but who wouldnt after all ive been through. Without going into anymore detail. I did have a few months of craziness, but nothing by no means that was against the law or hurt anyone but myself. So how dare these "powers at be" judge me and keep me from employment when they know nothing about me. I think they need to look in the mirror and when they go to church on sunday should ask forgiveness for taking out their own self loathing on someone who has never done anything to them.. You should all be ashamed of yourselves and instead of pointing the finger or talking about someone in a hurtful way, why dont you stop and think what kind of person it makes you in the long run.
I agree

Dawsonville, GA

#2 Oct 2, 2010
I think i know who this is, and i totally agree. What i find ridiculous is that they talk about you, yet your now exhusband who is all the things you said and more, they let him on their property and in their homes to paint and fix things, they let the little nasty s... who is infected and got pregnant by a married man serve them in the local restaurants, but they talk about you. If i had heard anyone say anything i would have punched them in the face, because everything you said about yourself is on the money and you are much more than that.. I am honored to call you friend, and i am sorry that people in this town have hurt you in anyway. Just remember you are loved.
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#3 Oct 2, 2010
unbelievable wrote:
I heard some disturbing news today. Someone who was going to give me a job awhile back confided in me why they didnt. I was taken aback by what they said. Apparently some people in town, who shall remain nameless, but know who they are decided i wasnt good enough to work in an establishment that they frequented. They told this potential employer that "you shouldnt hire her because ...." the content of what was actually said is not important. What is important is that these "powers at be" had no right to say anything. I have been a citizen of towns county for over 11 years now, I have always been friendly and curtious to my fellow towns county neighbors. I went through an ugly but much needed divorce from a man who was abusive, a drunk and many many other things. Through this messy divorce, i was able to retain my home, my children and finish my 3rd round of college with honors. I have never stolen, berated or treated anyone in this town with anything but kindness and politeness. Anyone who truly knows me, knows that I will go out of my way for another human being if asked. I do not go to church, but that does not mean that i dont have a relationship with God (which i do, we talk daily). After sitting home and having a pitty party for myself for a long period of time, while my husband ran around town getting young girls pregnant.. i opted to have a little fun.. i will say i went a little overboard.. too much drinking and dancing but who wouldnt after all ive been through. Without going into anymore detail. I did have a few months of craziness, but nothing by no means that was against the law or hurt anyone but myself. So how dare these "powers at be" judge me and keep me from employment when they know nothing about me. I think they need to look in the mirror and when they go to church on sunday should ask forgiveness for taking out their own self loathing on someone who has never done anything to them.. You should all be ashamed of yourselves and instead of pointing the finger or talking about someone in a hurtful way, why dont you stop and think what kind of person it makes you in the long run.
"Dancing"- say it isn't so??? All joking aside and yes I was kidding by that comment I wish you the best of luck, I do have to ask would you really want to work for and with people like that? That though isn't my main point my main point being This is just a phase in life and yet how ugly it will pass. People here call me a jerk and that's at their kindest, however at this time I wish you the best and hope that you get what you want, need and more than likely deserve which is better than what they have to offer.
cal66iber

Augusta, MI

#4 Oct 2, 2010
bonkersguy wrote:
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"Dancing"- say it isn't so??? All joking aside and yes I was kidding by that comment I wish you the best of luck, I do have to ask would you really want to work for and with people like that? That though isn't my main point my main point being This is just a phase in life and yet how ugly it will pass. People here call me a jerk and that's at their kindest, however at this time I wish you the best and hope that you get what you want, need and more than likely deserve which is better than what they have to offer.
you are a jerk ,,jerk , take a look at yourself !everybody cant be wrong ! LOL
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#5 Oct 2, 2010
cal66iber wrote:
<quoted text>you are a jerk ,,jerk , take a look at yourself !everybody cant be wrong ! LOL
On this thread who did I say was wrong? I believe I also said "at their kindest". From you my lil cyber stalker I'll take that as a compliment.
cal66iber

Augusta, MI

#6 Oct 2, 2010
bonkersguy wrote:
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On this thread who did I say was wrong? I believe I also said "at their kindest". From you my lil cyber stalker I'll take that as a compliment.
everybody is your lil cyber stalker here on topix because your name leads every thread.
Ringlet

Texarkana, TX

#7 Oct 2, 2010
Amen!!! to thst one. Now go on Bonkersguy; go get on your own thread!!
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#8 Oct 2, 2010
cal66iber wrote:
<quoted text>everybody is your lil cyber stalker here on topix because your name leads every thread.
Good point........lol
truth will set you free

Pendergrass, GA

#9 Oct 2, 2010
bonkers you just cant get a break can you? Wait you bring all this on yourself because of your ignortant rants and weird supposed facts that you present. First why dont you change your nic that way you can start fresh and no one will know who you are, that is until you put some of your stupid jerk remarks in here, nah on second thought keep your nic and keep being a ignorant jerk.
cal66iber

Augusta, MI

#10 Oct 2, 2010
truth will set you free wrote:
bonkers you just cant get a break can you? Wait you bring all this on yourself because of your ignortant rants and weird supposed facts that you present. First why dont you change your nic that way you can start fresh and no one will know who you are, that is until you put some of your stupid jerk remarks in here, nah on second thought keep your nic and keep being a ignorant jerk.
every one will still knoew its him just by looking at the thread list ,,,,he will be the one whos name is all in a row and always on top! bonkers
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its kinda creepy lol
Bible winch

United States

#11 Oct 2, 2010
unbelievable wrote:
I heard some disturbing news today. Someone who was going to give me a job awhile back confided in me why they didnt. I was taken aback by what they said. Apparently some people in town, who shall remain nameless, but know who they are decided i wasnt good enough to work in an establishment that they frequented. They told this potential employer that "you shouldnt hire her because ...." the content of what was actually said is not important. What is important is that these "powers at be" had no right to say anything. I have been a citizen of towns county for over 11 years now, I have always been friendly and curtious to my fellow towns county neighbors. I went through an ugly but much needed divorce from a man who was abusive, a drunk and many many other things. Through this messy divorce, i was able to retain my home, my children and finish my 3rd round of college with honors. I have never stolen, berated or treated anyone in this town with anything but kindness and politeness. Anyone who truly knows me, knows that I will go out of my way for another human being if asked. I do not go to church, but that does not mean that i dont have a relationship with God (which i do, we talk daily). After sitting home and having a pitty party for myself for a long period of time, while my husband ran around town getting young girls pregnant.. i opted to have a little fun.. i will say i went a little overboard.. too much drinking and dancing but who wouldnt after all ive been through. Without going into anymore detail. I did have a few months of craziness, but nothing by no means that was against the law or hurt anyone but myself. So how dare these "powers at be" judge me and keep me from employment when they know nothing about me. I think they need to look in the mirror and when they go to church on sunday should ask forgiveness for taking out their own self loathing on someone who has never done anything to them.. You should all be ashamed of yourselves and instead of pointing the finger or talking about someone in a hurtful way, why dont you stop and think what kind of person it makes you in the long run.
that is what happens in a small town like this. It is not right but you are not the first. Lots of people have jealous preconceived notions about how people are and you can't change it. I have seen it on the front page of the newspaper. Hang on you will find something much better. when one door closes another opens.
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#12 Oct 3, 2010
unbelievable wrote:
I heard some disturbing news today. Someone who was going to give me a job awhile back confided in me why they didnt. I was taken aback by what they said. Apparently some people in town, who shall remain nameless, but know who they are decided i wasnt good enough to work in an establishment that they frequented. They told this potential employer that "you shouldnt hire her because ...." the content of what was actually said is not important. What is important is that these "powers at be" had no right to say anything. I have been a citizen of towns county for over 11 years now, I have always been friendly and curtious to my fellow towns county neighbors. I went through an ugly but much needed divorce from a man who was abusive, a drunk and many many other things. Through this messy divorce, i was able to retain my home, my children and finish my 3rd round of college with honors. I have never stolen, berated or treated anyone in this town with anything but kindness and politeness. Anyone who truly knows me, knows that I will go out of my way for another human being if asked. I do not go to church, but that does not mean that i dont have a relationship with God (which i do, we talk daily). After sitting home and having a pitty party for myself for a long period of time, while my husband ran around town getting young girls pregnant.. i opted to have a little fun.. i will say i went a little overboard.. too much drinking and dancing but who wouldnt after all ive been through. Without going into anymore detail. I did have a few months of craziness, but nothing by no means that was against the law or hurt anyone but myself. So how dare these "powers at be" judge me and keep me from employment when they know nothing about me. I think they need to look in the mirror and when they go to church on sunday should ask forgiveness for taking out their own self loathing on someone who has never done anything to them.. You should all be ashamed of yourselves and instead of pointing the finger or talking about someone in a hurtful way, why dont you stop and think what kind of person it makes you in the long run.
Sounds like a classic "them problem" and not a "you problem". Please keep your chin up and don't let the bastards get you down.
I agree

Dawsonville, GA

#13 Oct 3, 2010
bonkersguy wrote:
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Sounds like a classic "them problem" and not a "you problem". Please keep your chin up and don't let the bastards get you down.
Thanks... I just felt i needed to vent and maybe by chance the people who like to point fingers when they dont really even know you will see this post and think twice the next time they go to open their mouths... unfortunately people like this usually dont learn or have a true concious (spelling?) but thank you for the positive feedback :)
you guys are great

Dawsonville, GA

#14 Oct 3, 2010
to i agree thank you for sticking up for me and to bonkers guy and bible winch.. i appreciate your comments
truth will set you free

Pendergrass, GA

#15 Oct 3, 2010
you guys are great wrote:
to i agree thank you for sticking up for me and to bonkers guy and bible winch.. i appreciate your comments
You just have not been on here enough to know bonkers or you wouldnt be saying that. As for your problem, not to be cruel, but that is what is known as LIFE AND THE REALITY OF IT. No one said anywhere would be nice to you. Especially now days with the non existence of moral values(thus bonkers) and the it is all about me attitudes. You just need to move on and if you let one or two people rule your life and feelings then you have one hard ass road ahead of you.
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#16 Oct 3, 2010
I apologize for my cyber stalkers and if they have infected this thread just to lash out at me. Me it be further proof for you that there are still a spiteful lot out there.

I stand by my original thoughts and wish you the best I also apologize if my input has caused you to be reminded of others negativity
cal66iber

Augusta, MI

#17 Oct 3, 2010
bonkersguy wrote:
I apologize for my cyber stalkers and if they have infected this thread just to lash out at me. Me it be further proof for you that there are still a spiteful lot out there.
I stand by my original thoughts and wish you the best I also apologize if my input has caused you to be reminded of others negativity
unlike this person you bring most of ours response to you upon yourself bonkers , everybody has sympathy for this person and you are way out of character showing sympathy here on this thread ,you reap what you sow dude ! I for one am surprised you even give a damn
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#18 Oct 3, 2010
cal66iber wrote:
<quoted text>unlike this person you bring most of ours response to you upon yourself bonkers , everybody has sympathy for this person and you are way out of character showing sympathy here on this thread ,you reap what you sow dude ! I for one am surprised you even give a damn
Please explain how I don't give a damn??
truth will set you free

Pendergrass, GA

#19 Oct 3, 2010
bonkersguy wrote:
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Please explain how I don't give a damn??
Bonkers why dont you take a few days off from typing your misguided and misinformation on here and go back and read all of your post. You are like a teenager you start running your mouth before your brain kicks in and I dont think yours has kicked in as of the last month or so. By the way hows about you and new girl getting a room or start your own thread, why you can call it New girl tell me about the MEN in your life yummy. In all seriousness though Bonker think about this if you can. Even the people I disagree with and a few that I just think are downright ignorant all have the same conclusion about you, and that is that you are just an ignoramous.
bonkersguy

Atlanta, GA

#20 Oct 3, 2010
truth will set you free wrote:
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Bonkers why dont you take a few days off from typing your misguided and misinformation on here and go back and read all of your post. You are like a teenager you start running your mouth before your brain kicks in and I dont think yours has kicked in as of the last month or so. By the way hows about you and new girl getting a room or start your own thread, why you can call it New girl tell me about the MEN in your life yummy. In all seriousness though Bonker think about this if you can. Even the people I disagree with and a few that I just think are downright ignorant all have the same conclusion about you, and that is that you are just an ignoramous.
....and this answers the question how??? or just says I type something and you find a way to disagree or attempt (and fail) to get under my skin. So far in your view I'm a Black, Gay, Teenager which leads me to ask if I was just that wouldn't I stick out and everybody know who I am? Wouldn't that make me an easy target for you to find? Either that or you conclusions about me are totally wrong. By the way you still didn't answer the question.

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