How do stop ur husband from getting online dating sites meeting women

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Broken hearted wife

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My husband is on a lot of dating sites in olive branch ms meeting women I love him and I want my marriage to work thing is I am not person getting hurt these other women are too he doesn't use real name on them I just want him to stop I love him so much I don't what else to do I tried everything
Uncle Sam

Olive Branch, MS

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Dec 20, 2011
 
Cut the Internet off and tell him how you feel.
Broken heart husbands

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Dec 20, 2011
 
Its these type of loses that have a woman at home the loves her man and he does this shit cause he thinks its fun. Well Im working my ass off to pay bills send her on trips and gives her everthing she needs. She meets these married men on line telling her how great she is how her husband is not giving her what she really needs and gets het to meet them so he can play with there minds. Drop his ass cause he will never stop he will just kie to you and keep doing it. Like I did with my wife . Kick her fat ass to the curb , they do it once they will both keep doing it. Right Linda
Broken hearted wife

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Dec 20, 2011
 
I feel like it my fault in some way I had a hysterectomy back in march which bad thing is I am young it wasn't something I wanted I had to have it done so my sex drive is not that great and I am not that affectioned do to my body trying to adjust i would turn Internet off but he has it on his Phone and he has lock on it
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Leave him! Thats how you stop it! I have been there with my ex-husband. It WILL NOT stop, he will just find a way to be sneakier about it. Him choosing to do that is NOT your fault in anyway. Why be with someone who would do that to you when you could find soneone else who will love and appreciate you and only you?
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The lord can help you through this... but dont blame your self... he is doing wrong not you
The Rogue

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Sure, go ahead, just leave him alone,...
When a man gets hungry he'll start to roam!

Moral of the story ....keep him content and satisfied, he'll stay home. Been there.....
Broken hearted wife

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Dec 23, 2011
 
The Rogue wrote:
Sure, go ahead, just leave him alone,...
When a man gets hungry he'll start to roam!
Moral of the story ....keep him content and satisfied, he'll stay home. Been there.....
he was doing it before my surgery he has been doing it for long time it doesn't matter what I do change myself or try keep him satisfied or content at home I had two of the women he cheated on me with call me he lied to them too I love my husband very much he is good man beside the cheating I have tried everything just though maybe other ppl might have some words of wisdom to help me Maybe I should just leave
The Rogue

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Dec 23, 2011
 
You see,.........there's this thing called love that's got to come from "both" sides on an alternative 49% vs. 51% ratio. If that's not happening and is not going to happen, "Its Joe Time!" Like "Hit The Road Jack!"
Broken hearted husband

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Dec 28, 2011
 
Broken hearted wife wrote:
<quoted text> he was doing it before my surgery he has been doing it for long time it doesn't matter what I do change myself or try keep him satisfied or content at home I had two of the women he cheated on me with call me he lied to them too I love my husband very much he is good man beside the cheating I have tried everything just though maybe other ppl might have some words of wisdom to help me Maybe I should just leave
You love Him , but it will always be in your mind when he is online , or on his cell phone and these chat rooms and Yoville chat . Give your heart and mind a rest and put him out of your life, Move on you will be happy you did. I didnt think I would be 4 months ago when my wife fly to hornlake to meet a man there and cheated on me with him at the Durby Inn for 2 weeks .But Iam better off and Im happy now and she is crying and broke and wants ME Back Good luck move on .I wish you the best you deserver to be happy

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Dec 29, 2011
 
Broken hearted wife wrote:
My husband is on a lot of dating sites in olive branch ms meeting women I love him and I want my marriage to work thing is I am not person getting hurt these other women are too he doesn't use real name on them I just want him to stop I love him so much I don't what else to do I tried everything
tell the bum to hit the road. You deserve better
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well wrote:
The lord can help you through this... but dont blame your self... he is doing wrong not you
Why did the lord allow this to happen in the first place? I think you are wrong about your lord.
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jezeer wrote:
<quoted text>Why did the lord allow this to happen in the first place? I think you are wrong about your lord.
With all sincerity, no one asked what you thought about our Lord.
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Feb 4, 2012
 
I'm wondering, after reading this, if the crazy lying jerk I met is your husband! I truly hope not, I believed him when he said he was divorced, but then things didn't add up and I started to question if he was truthful. I left him alone after all, the only thing worse than a cheating spouse is the one that knowing cheats with them. All I can say is you don't sound like deserve this way. No matter what you do, once a cheater always a cheater. Even if he never cheated again, you would have that doubt in your mind. My suggestion would be to get your things in order and have him served. No one should live like that.

I will not say any names on here, so please dont ask me what his name was. It was 2 years ago and I know he had 2 boys.
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its not your fault, but he does not love you.
if he did love you in any form he would have never started getting on dating sites. Respect yourself and walk away.. Someone, somewhere will love you and you will be enough for them...

“The real deal.”

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Broken hearted wife wrote:
<quoted text> he was doing it before my surgery he has been doing it for long time it doesn't matter what I do change myself or try keep him satisfied or content at home I had two of the women he cheated on me with call me he lied to them too I love my husband very much he is good man beside the cheating I have tried everything just though maybe other ppl might have some words of wisdom to help me Maybe I should just leave
I know two wrongs dont make a right...but you need someone to rekindle your passions and desires. If you would like to contact me...feel free to send me a message.
Big Daddy

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Apr 11, 2012
 
Broken hearted wife wrote:
<quoted text> he was doing it before my surgery he has been doing it for long time it doesn't matter what I do change myself or try keep him satisfied or content at home I had two of the women he cheated on me with call me he lied to them too I love my husband very much he is good man beside the cheating I have tried everything just though maybe other ppl might have some words of wisdom to help me Maybe I should just leave
I truly hate to be the bearer of bad news, but he's not such a good man if he's cheating on you. You have two choices. First one is pray earnestly about this and see where God leads you. Second one is to admit to yourself that he's lost interest in you and set him free. You can't hold onto someone when they don't want to be held on to, and you can't take away someone who's happy. I don't know you but I know this will be hard to face. But I was once a cheater so I speak from experience. You can't change him or his behavior. Only God can through situations and circumstances. If you're a Christian, hold on tightly to Gods hand and he will get you through the pain. If you're not a Christian, now might be a great time to become one. Either way, God bless you and I will be praying for you.
Aunty Diluvian

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Hey morons, stop talking god and give the woman
some good advise. Something she can use.

If the man is looking, what is he looking for?
Something he already has; something he feels is
missing; something he feels he deserves; something
to give hin his self-esteem back? What?

Ask the man what he's looking for. He'll deny
looking for anything but don't let it go until
you get an answer. Be persistent. Annoy the hell
out of him. Stay in his face until you get some
kind of reasonable answer. Don't resort to crying,
shouting, throwing things, etc. etc. Don't let
him blow you off. Stand toe-to-toe in his face
and let him know you will not be placated with
his phoney bulls**t.

Take this confrontation to it's final and full
completion. Get to the bottom of "HIS" problem.

Once you have, don't you dare listen to his
sad-sack, woe-is-me story. If you don't
understand him it's because he has hidden
his real self so well that heither of you know
who he is. Find out. Maybe you will discover
that he isn't the kind of person you wanted to
spend your life with. If you discover this, and
you might, don't be afraid to leave and start over
by yourself or with someone else.

If you are smart enough to recognize that there's
a problem and are still sane enough to ask for help
then you are definitely "start over" material.

PS. On the other hand if during your pursuit to
discover the truth, you find that you are partially at fault then it's still *HIS* fault.
Infidelity doesn't solve marital problems.
Running from something only makes you tired and
you don't really escape anyway.

Be tough. Be as tough as he thinks he is.
He'll respect you for it even if he leaves.
Aunty Diluvian

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Smitty wrote:
Come to the legion in hernando and I will buy u a drink. Ask for smitty. U wont give a shit about ur husband after meeting me. Holla
Best way to get over one man is to get under another?
Frying pan.......fire???

When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him.- Unknown -
brokenheartedwif e

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Jun 8, 2012
 
Just thoughts wrote:
I'm wondering, after reading this, if the crazy lying jerk I met is your husband! I truly hope not, I believed him when he said he was divorced, but then things didn't add up and I started to question if he was truthful. I left him alone after all, the only thing worse than a cheating spouse is the one that knowing cheats with them. All I can say is you don't sound like deserve this way. No matter what you do, once a cheater always a cheater. Even if he never cheated again, you would have that doubt in your mind. My suggestion would be to get your things in order and have him served. No one should live like that.
I will not say any names on here, so please dont ask me what his name was. It was 2 years ago and I know he had 2 boys.
i am sorry to say he didnt have 2 boys he girl and a boy from his first wife that died we came from ark just moved ms bout 2years ago

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