Sexless Marriage Advice

Sexless Marriage Advice

Posted in the Hernando Forum


Shrewsbury, MA

#1 Mar 25, 2013
Hello Friend, I hope you find this advice of help, I sure did. A sexy mature women like yourself trapped in a sexless marriage is a shame. It does not have to be so. Things are not always black and white, this is a truly grey area. If he can not or simply does not want to provide you what you still desire what's a girl to do. Leave him? If he's a jerk then yes. If he's a decent person who's good to you, not so easy. He wants companionship, you may be all he has. Continue to be that companion, that is the decent thing to do. However, your whole life you have done for others, just because that will continue does not mean you cannot also finally do for yourself! An open marriage? No. That is not the route for you, too public, to in his face, probably hurtful to even suggest. This is not a public decision for you, the bar scene or craigslist is not an option. Your husband may actually understand and want this for you but why do that to him, he does not need to know, spare his feelings. You should consider finding yourself a "Friend With Benefits". Look it up on line for further explaination. You may already have someone in mind, trust me someone has you in mind! Think of your life, your circles, your routine. Chances are there are between 1 to 3 men who may fit the bill. A man you trust, have access to, and most importantly are attracted to. Statistics say one of the three will be interested for sure, one is most likely, and the other probably would but will find a reason to decline although he would be honored and secretive. Narrow it down and trust your instincts. Ever flirted even teased, exchanged that look? If ever even once you had that though, that one of those moments occured, that man is the one. If you were not the one who initiated, it is your turn, do not be scared, you only live once. He will reciprocate. Let me share my story as an example that you can copy or alter, I hope you do, he hopes you do as well.
I am 54 and he is 39, he is a neighbors son that I have known since he was 19. We always flirted a bit, exchanged those glances etc., very hot. He would walk over to borrow then return things, always just after my husband would leave. He still visits and helps his mom often and still pays me his visit on occasion. Finally one day while unloading groceries I caught him checking me out while bending over. He walked to me and smiled, said "caught". Then offered to help me carry them in. My luck, up the street comes my husbands car. God I wonder what would have happened once inside. Drove me crazy thinking of it. A month went by and every minute was spent wanting to recreate that moment. So ladies, I took some initiative. I called him over to help remove a limb from my roof, actually a twig I tossed there. When he came I was in my robe tightly wrapped as I "forgot" he was coming. It took him maybe 30 second to remove the "limb". When he came in I had a beer for him and the robe had loosened considerably. I said, thanks for doing that for me otherwise I may have had to of waited for a slight breeze to do it. He said he was glad I hadn't because he had waited long enough to do this, and with that he leaned in to me and kissed me as he slid his hand beneath my robe. What happened next was the most amazing afternoon of my life. I am finally living for me! His mom would be devestated which is why we both know we can trust each other competely, the pefect scenerio. No one gets hurt. It can happen. make it happen for you. All the best!

United States

#2 Sep 15, 2013
A big thanks to DR atakuma, who brought back
ex girlfriend. My name is samson Benard, from
Canada. Last year, August
26th 2012, I proposed to my
ex girlfriend and she agreed to marry me then we both planned for the wedding. Our wedding was
to hold September
30th. We had a little
misunderstanding and she left me for another
guy. I almost committed
suicide; I never knew there was hope for me, a friend of mine would always advise me to be
hopeful and that one day she will
come back to me, Some
times I will go to her house to ask for forgiveness
to come back to me because she
really means a lot to me and I love her so much and she will ask me to leave her alone and I
should never come to her
house again. I found it
really hard to fall in love with another girl, months
passes by and I was
waiting patiently for her to come back to me but in my heart I was still going through hell, there
was a big hole in my
**One morning I received a call from my friend
and he told me to come to
his house immediately, I quickly put on my clothes and ran to his house because I felt he was in
trouble, when I got to he’s
house, I met him on
his computer system and I ask him what the
problem was, he said when he was
browsing through the internet, he came across some testimonies on how a spell caster brought
someone’s ex husband back.
I was angry with him
because he frightened me and now he’s telling
about spell caster. I told
him to forget about the matter because I never believed in spell casters, he asked me if I really
want my ex girlfriend to
come back to me and I said
yes so he said I should give it a try because if you
really need something
that is very important to your life, then you go for it. I agreed to what he said and I took the spell
casters email address
and I emailed him, few
minutes later he replied me and asked what can
he do for me so I told him
what I wanted and he asked me to do what ever he asked of me which I did. He told me not to
worry that my ex girlfriend will
come back crawling on
her kneels asking for forgiveness as soon as he
cast the spell so he cast
the spell and the following day my ex girlfriend came back to me, right now I and my girlfriend
are happy. This is the reason I
decided to put it in
writing so that anybody that is hopeless will find
the reason to be
hopeful. If you are in the same situation, DR atakuma is the right spell caster that will solve
your problem, You can email
on: try and
see what he can do!

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