How do I get my wife to stop cheating ?
loose stool

Elmhurst, NY

#24 Feb 13, 2010
If the children are mulatto, then it's already too late.
inthecan wrote:
tap her ass that should keep her in line...
That sounds colored. Are you colored?
honestly

Constableville, NY

#26 Feb 13, 2010
She's not the problem here, you are. Before you blow up at me read further. Think about it like this, if she has been cheating on you and the guys she is choosing is getting worse, shes trying to show you one of two things, either she don't want you or she needs some serious help. You can't force her into getting help, some people need to learn the hard way that people just don't behave like that now a days due to all the diseases out there. Use tough love and kick her to the curb. There is better out there and you deserve it. You mentioned that you have kids as well, well how would you feel if they found out what she did to you and you just took it, in there eyes it would seem ok and they would continue the trend with who they meet, or allow someone else to do the same to them. Some things are just not worth holding on to.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#27 Feb 13, 2010
ouch!
honestly wrote:
She's not the problem here, you are. Before you blow up at me read further. Think about it like this, if she has been cheating on you and the guys she is choosing is getting worse, shes trying to show you one of two things, either she don't want you or she needs some serious help. You can't force her into getting help, some people need to learn the hard way that people just don't behave like that now a days due to all the diseases out there. Use tough love and kick her to the curb. There is better out there and you deserve it. You mentioned that you have kids as well, well how would you feel if they found out what she did to you and you just took it, in there eyes it would seem ok and they would continue the trend with who they meet, or allow someone else to do the same to them. Some things are just not worth holding on to.
That will do ya

Constableville, NY

#28 Feb 13, 2010
RACE wrote:
ouch!
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It's not meant to be a slam against anyone, some girls you just can't figure out, nor would you want to honestly. Some show this family side and turn 360 after things get real, same for men as well.
ignorant american teens

Rochester, NY

#30 Feb 14, 2010
next time she is out with her new F buddy, call members of her family to come out and see what she's doing. Shame her. Video tape them or have someone do it, it'll be useful in court, especially if you are gonna fight over custody of kids.
But I'm betting she'll let you have the kids, cuz if she's stuck with them, then she can't go out whoring as much - you are her babysitter now. And I doubt she's gonna bang guys at home when kids are there.
Oh, and bang one of her best friends or sisters/cousins.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#31 Feb 14, 2010
bang one of her best friends or sisters/cousins just on principal!
ignorant american teens wrote:
next time she is out with her new F buddy, call members of her family to come out and see what she's doing. Shame her. Video tape them or have someone do it, it'll be useful in court, especially if you are gonna fight over custody of kids.
But I'm betting she'll let you have the kids, cuz if she's stuck with them, then she can't go out whoring as much - you are her babysitter now. And I doubt she's gonna bang guys at home when kids are there.
Oh, and bang one of her best friends or sisters/cousins.
disgusted

Pleasanton, CA

#32 Feb 15, 2010
Last night I came home and there was a condom on the floor.I dont use a condom.I confronted her when she came in.We argued,she left.And I havenet heard from her.I think she has a guy in Herkimer,she went to.I think his name is Steve.Not sure though.Im having the locks changed this morning

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me! Charlie

#33 Feb 15, 2010
If you wife is banging anybody with a penis, you should wear a condom.
disgusted wrote:
Last night I came home and there was a condom on the floor.I dont use a condom.I confronted her when she came in.We argued,she left.And I havenet heard from her.I think she has a guy in Herkimer,she went to.I think his name is Steve.Not sure though.Im having the locks changed this morning
mariep

Saint Augustine, Trinidad and Tobago

#34 Sep 9, 2012
While it is good for women to take care of their men, I believe the wives have to put out too much effort to "keep" their husbands. Men are insatiable beings and no matter what a woman does he will always have the perfect excuse to go out and cheat. I keep hearing a list of thngs that women need to do. What about the reverse? What should men do to keep their women? Performing good sex is not enough. Neither is taking home a few dollars. Society needs to fight against this destructive act instead of justifying it. Men are just too egotistical and they deem it a privilege to conquer as many of the female species as they possibly can. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and have never even entertained the thought of cheating. As a matter of fact he was the only one I have ever been with. Yet he almost cheated with a married woman who had kids. A responsible man is one who will stick to the challenge of not cheating no matter how stormy the sea is..
oh pleeeeezzzzz

Herkimer, NY

#35 Sep 10, 2012
mariep wrote:
While it is good for women to take care of their men, I believe the wives have to put out too much effort to "keep" their husbands. Men are insatiable beings and no matter what a woman does he will always have the perfect excuse to go out and cheat. I keep hearing a list of thngs that women need to do. What about the reverse? What should men do to keep their women? Performing good sex is not enough. Neither is taking home a few dollars. Society needs to fight against this destructive act instead of justifying it. Men are just too egotistical and they deem it a privilege to conquer as many of the female species as they possibly can. I have been with my boyfriend for 4 yrs and have never even entertained the thought of cheating. As a matter of fact he was the only one I have ever been with. Yet he almost cheated with a married woman who had kids. A responsible man is one who will stick to the challenge of not cheating no matter how stormy the sea is..
ALMOST cheated? LOL
married

Syracuse, NY

#37 Sep 10, 2012
what's wrong with a little bit on the side?
FL_boy

Auburndale, FL

#38 Jul 10, 2013
Do you have a small package... Some girls get really loose when they get wet... Im a lil above average... I just throw some fingers in with it
Lt Colonel

Tea, SD

#39 Jul 11, 2013
Get an enlargement!!!
Yuk

Washington, DC

#40 Nov 12, 2014
very sad - happens all the time in the valley and all over...
jen

Plantsville, CT

#41 Nov 12, 2014
nik wrote:
once a cheater always a cheather the sayin goes....
True! No matter what you do if she is a cheater she always will be. Best for you to move on. Good luck
Wal-Mart hostage

Tampa, FL

#42 Nov 13, 2014
As a woman I would say she's cheating for a reason theres something your not giving her
Y bother

Newport, NY

#43 Nov 13, 2014
Here's an idea. Grow a pair of balls and leave. If your dumb enough to stay with her then except when you kiss her someone else's weiner has been in her mouth.

Since: May 14

Ilion

#44 Nov 13, 2014
When 50% of marriages end in divorce and God knows how many co-habiting couples break up is it any wonder that this is a major topic! Look at the person on your left and then on your right. One of them is cheating and maybe both
White Trash Hoe

Ilion, NY

#45 Nov 17, 2014
Does she frequent the Polish Club? Upppss. I mean the Players Club.
totally fried

Washington, DC

#46 Dec 9, 2014
Cheating happens all the time, depends on reasons usually known btween partners. sometimes can be worked through mostly not.

sometimes not the 'cheaters' fault when mentall abuse drives them away

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