How do I get my wife to stop cheating ?

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disgusted

Pleasanton, CA

#1 Jan 31, 2010
dont say divorce.but she cheats on me with always disgusting guys.they dont have a job,they hang out in bars in herkimer,couple are on welfare,and the one last night i seen her with lives at the winstin arms.isnt that a sex offender hotel?
i work,i treat her very good,i am 5'6 inches tall and weigh 145 lbs.i cant go around beating up guys.that will get me in trouble anyways.but i love her,and i do the right things as a husband.we have children

Since: Jul 08

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#2 Jan 31, 2010
sew her cootch shut
nik

Oneida, NY

#3 Jan 31, 2010
once a cheater always a cheather the sayin goes....
eye 4 eye

Twinsburg, OH

#4 Jan 31, 2010
cheat on her back, give her some of her own medicine. who knows maybe you will find a better person and then you will dump her. besides what kind of diseases is she bringing home to you??????????
Face to Palm

Paw Paw, WV

#5 Jan 31, 2010
introduce her calm cents its enough to make any woman go celibate. In fact she may turn lesbo after that

Since: Jul 08

Location hidden

#6 Jan 31, 2010
Face to Palm wrote:
introduce her calm cents its enough to make any woman go celibate. In fact she may turn lesbo after that
now that's funny. just when i thought i hated you, you went and made me laugh.
Billy

United States

#7 Jan 31, 2010
wack her? that should do it.
wack her

Pleasanton, CA

#8 Jan 31, 2010
then he goes to jail.you going to bail him out
Billy

Baldwinsville, NY

#9 Feb 1, 2010
sure, you gunna help him?
If you are serious

Woodbridge, NJ

#11 Feb 1, 2010
disgusted wrote:
dont say divorce.but she cheats on me with always disgusting guys.they dont have a job,they hang out in bars in herkimer,couple are on welfare,and the one last night i seen her with lives at the winstin arms.isnt that a sex offender hotel?
i work,i treat her very good,i am 5'6 inches tall and weigh 145 lbs.i cant go around beating up guys.that will get me in trouble anyways.but i love her,and i do the right things as a husband.we have children
Think about your kids and what kind of example you are setting for them. Is this the type of relationship that you want them to think of as "normal" when they grow up?
Talk to your wife. Divorce should be your last option, but maybe she would be open to working with you to fix whatever is wrong with your relationship. Really listen to what she is saying about what she wants out of the relationship. See if you can find couples counseling through your church or local community services.
Don't beat up the guys. Sure, they are slimeballs, but your real issues are with your wife, not the strangers that she is using.
poor guy

Budapest, Hungary

#12 Feb 1, 2010
I would be afraid of catching something.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#13 Feb 1, 2010
Turn it into an internet porn web cam business. You will make millions, then you can buy that new mechanical woman for your loving and let you wifey be a slutbag until her hoo-hoo falls out..
Hey

Constableville, NY

#14 Feb 1, 2010
chasity belt( they are still sold) only u have the key also marriage counsling maybe shes a sex addict and needs help on a different level

“Joy is the shadow cast by pain”

Since: Dec 08

Twin Cities, MN

#15 Feb 1, 2010
Try reading about being a "cuckold" -- you may find that you change your mind and your wife's infidelities turn you on. Win-win situation!

If not that, then I like Race's idea above.

“A Programmer is not in IT!”

Since: Feb 09

Neda, stay with me!

#16 Feb 1, 2010
Thanks, I try to see the positive.
AngelaMN wrote:
Try reading about being a "cuckold" -- you may find that you change your mind and your wife's infidelities turn you on. Win-win situation!
If not that, then I like Race's idea above.
loose stool

Brooklyn, NY

#17 Feb 1, 2010
You sound white? Has she gone black? Could be a problem.
Face to Palm

Emmitsburg, MD

#18 Feb 12, 2010
calmn cents wrote:
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now that's funny. just when i thought i hated you, you went and made me laugh.
I don't hate anyone I just love to aggitate
LOVER

United States

#21 Feb 12, 2010
Get a knew wife,put her out with the recycables,or trash whichever you prefer!
Sparky

Seneca Falls, NY

#22 Feb 12, 2010
disgusted wrote:
dont say divorce.but she cheats on me with always disgusting guys.they dont have a job,they hang out in bars in herkimer,couple are on welfare,and the one last night i seen her with lives at the winstin arms.isnt that a sex offender hotel?
i work,i treat her very good,i am 5'6 inches tall and weigh 145 lbs.i cant go around beating up guys.that will get me in trouble anyways.but i love her,and i do the right things as a husband.we have children
Who's children?
inthecan

Constableville, NY

#23 Feb 12, 2010
tap her ass that should keep her in line...

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