another angle

Ilion, NY

#21 Jul 28, 2014
they cheat because they can lots of times. its not that they don't love their wives or girlfriends, they usually do. men cheat for the easy sex. even if they get plenty of quality sex at home they still cheat just for more sex with a woman who usually falls in love with him. hes in it for easy sex and the "other woman" is too stupid to realize he only wants sex. his heart is home.
Observer

Ilion, NY

#22 Jul 28, 2014
another angle wrote:
they cheat because they can lots of times. its not that they don't love their wives or girlfriends, they usually do. men cheat for the easy sex. even if they get plenty of quality sex at home they still cheat just for more sex with a woman who usually falls in love with him. hes in it for easy sex and the "other woman" is too stupid to realize he only wants sex. his heart is home.
If his heart was home, and he was getting great sex at home, why would
he possibly want more sex? Again, the "other woman" is the stupid one, not him and not the wife. LMAO! Sounds like another stupid wife trying to make excuses for her husband cheating on her.
Reality

Herkimer, NY

#23 Jul 28, 2014
Two reasons for people to cheat. Sex and love. Most men cheat for sex and most women cheat for love.
dale m

Utica, NY

#24 Jul 28, 2014
I cheat to get tea bagged upurs dale
another angle

Ilion, NY

#25 Jul 28, 2014
Observer wrote:
<quoted text>
If his heart was home, and he was getting great sex at home, why would
he possibly want more sex? Again, the "other woman" is the stupid one, not him and not the wife. LMAO! Sounds like another stupid wife trying to make excuses for her husband cheating on her.
low self esteem. who knows why? when theyre caught they never leave. if the "other woman" was their true love, they'd leave in a heart beat. but they don't. sounds like you're one of the "stupid other women".
another angle

Ilion, NY

#26 Jul 28, 2014
and let's face it, after a few yrs together life happens, kids happen, finances happen. sometimes the routines become boring for the huy who needs his ego stroked. The wife is usually busy with all the afore mentioned, but the "other stupid woman", to her its fresh, new, and exciting. she strokes his ego because she hasn't got to pay the bills, raise his kids, pick his sox up, cook his meals..... etc etc etc.... she thinks because he comes to her that he somehow has feelings for her, but its just getting his ego stroked and sex. this doesn't make her the good and the wife the bad person. but women are delusional, the other woman is just as delusional as the wife, but in the end the wife has every right to try to save HER marriage, the other woman just has stains on her sheets and sits by the phone.... dig it?
Observer

Ilion, NY

#27 Jul 28, 2014
another angle wrote:
<quoted text>low self esteem. who knows why? when theyre caught they never leave. if the "other woman" was their true love, they'd leave in a heart beat. but they don't. sounds like you're one of the "stupid other women".
LMAO-I am a man, not a woman. Nice try though!! I just know a lot of my friends that have done it over and over for years. One has a nut job of a wife and family that think they have his balls in their pockets. If they only knew! He dicks around all the time! Dude is miserable at home. How he keeps all his lies straight is amazing to me!
Observer

Ilion, NY

#28 Jul 28, 2014
another angle wrote:
and let's face it, after a few yrs together life happens, kids happen, finances happen. sometimes the routines become boring for the huy who needs his ego stroked. The wife is usually busy with all the afore mentioned, but the "other stupid woman", to her its fresh, new, and exciting. she strokes his ego because she hasn't got to pay the bills, raise his kids, pick his sox up, cook his meals..... etc etc etc.... she thinks because he comes to her that he somehow has feelings for her, but its just getting his ego stroked and sex. this doesn't make her the good and the wife the bad person. but women are delusional, the other woman is just as delusional as the wife, but in the end the wife has every right to try to save HER marriage, the other woman just has stains on her sheets and sits by the phone.... dig it?
Hail no! The other woman gets the best of it. She gets the guy at his best. Romancing her. Buying her gifts. All the sweet talk with none of that dealing with the dirty crap that comes with bein married. Me? I got my love on the side and my woman at home doing the crap. Who smells my crapp a$$? Not my girlfriend. I get to be perfect in her eyes and not put down and treated like a cash machine like I do by the ball n chain at home.
say what

Boston, MA

#29 Jul 28, 2014
For the men that cheat is that really what it's like for u. To know your wife is home taking care of the "crap" and having someone on the side that doesn't see u the way u are at home. I'm generally curious what men are thinking when they cheat. I'm a wife who's been cheated on and have never clearly understood why. I do everything sexually and will do anything asked of me and I'm spontaneous. Obviously I can be a bitch but what woman can't. So I've always wondered what goes on in the guys head when he cheats why he cheats and why he thinks he could get away with it. Cuz let's face it guys are idiots lol. Like I said I've been cheated on before it took me less than a week to figure it out.. Now I'm the one cheating and after 7 months of doing so my husband is still clueless.
chloe

East Hartford, CT

#30 Jul 28, 2014
say what wrote:
For the men that cheat is that really what it's like for u. To know your wife is home taking care of the "crap" and having someone on the side that doesn't see u the way u are at home. I'm generally curious what men are thinking when they cheat. I'm a wife who's been cheated on and have never clearly understood why. I do everything sexually and will do anything asked of me and I'm spontaneous. Obviously I can be a bitch but what woman can't. So I've always wondered what goes on in the guys head when he cheats why he cheats and why he thinks he could get away with it. Cuz let's face it guys are idiots lol. Like I said I've been cheated on before it took me less than a week to figure it out.. Now I'm the one cheating and after 7 months of doing so my husband is still clueless.
Good for u pay back is a bitch!!
starlight

Boston, MA

#31 Jul 28, 2014
say what wrote:
I heard Heath Bailey is one not to be trusted with women. He's probably screwed half of Dolgeville and then some. The sex must be good or something.


Heath is obsessed with trying to get women to sleep with him but I heard he was sleeping with some married woman
Reality

Herkimer, NY

#32 Jul 29, 2014
Observer wrote:
<quoted text>
LMAO-I am a man, not a woman. Nice try though!! I just know a lot of my friends that have done it over and over for years. One has a nut job of a wife and family that think they have his balls in their pockets. If they only knew! He dicks around all the time! Dude is miserable at home. How he keeps all his lies straight is amazing to me!
I can't figure out how cheaters lie so much too!
Reality

Herkimer, NY

#33 Jul 29, 2014
say what wrote:
For the men that cheat is that really what it's like for u. To know your wife is home taking care of the "crap" and having someone on the side that doesn't see u the way u are at home. I'm generally curious what men are thinking when they cheat. I'm a wife who's been cheated on and have never clearly understood why. I do everything sexually and will do anything asked of me and I'm spontaneous. Obviously I can be a bitch but what woman can't. So I've always wondered what goes on in the guys head when he cheats why he cheats and why he thinks he could get away with it. Cuz let's face it guys are idiots lol. Like I said I've been cheated on before it took me less than a week to figure it out.. Now I'm the one cheating and after 7 months of doing so my husband is still clueless.
.

Why are you doing the same thing? Do people not believe there is truly a soulmate out there for them? Why cheat? If it's not working, leave your husband! Maybe there's a great man out there that wants a great wife!

Since: Jul 14

West Hartford, CT

#34 Jul 29, 2014
All women cheat, you only here about the ones that get caught.
say what

United States

#35 Jul 29, 2014
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>.
Why are you doing the same thing? Do people not believe there is truly a soulmate out there for them? Why cheat? If it's not working, leave your husband! Maybe there's a great man out there that wants a great wife!
Why am I doing the same? At first it was a if he's gonna do it then so will I kinda thing but I got that out of my system. I don't really believe in soul mates. Since I've cheated my whole mentality of being with 1 person forever has changed. I believe that once u love someone u always love them but our needs and desires are constantly changing and growing I don't think we were meant to just pair up with someone and be with only that person. I used to think that way but when I learned my husband was cheating not just sexually but was emotionally involved with another woman as well I hurt it was the rip my heart out of my chest kinda hurt. I never imagined myself being with anyone but him. I never thought "well I wonder what that guys like in bed?" he was it for me until he made me realize that I wasn't it for him. So I stopped believing that there's one person out there for me bcuz doing so well just bring more hurt than its worth. And we stay with each other bcuz we have a handful of amazingly beautiful children together that we support as a family
Clueless

Little Falls, NY

#36 Jul 29, 2014
Cheaters are everywhere, men and women! In every home there's someone that has cheated, been cheated on, or is close to someone that has done one or the other. It's not right by any means, but it's the sad truth.
Dirty Little Secret

Syracuse, NY

#37 Jul 29, 2014
The old adage holds true. Once a cheat always a cheat. Women and men are both equally guilty. Women maybe more these days. I laugh at the ones who claim they did not know their spouse was cheating, or the other women or man who denies up and down they did not know they where fooling around with a married person. Denial is not a river in Egypt.
Reality

East Granby, CT

#38 Jul 29, 2014
say what wrote:
<quoted text>
Why am I doing the same? At first it was a if he's gonna do it then so will I kinda thing but I got that out of my system. I don't really believe in soul mates. Since I've cheated my whole mentality of being with 1 person forever has changed. I believe that once u love someone u always love them but our needs and desires are constantly changing and growing I don't think we were meant to just pair up with someone and be with only that person. I used to think that way but when I learned my husband was cheating not just sexually but was emotionally involved with another woman as well I hurt it was the rip my heart out of my chest kinda hurt. I never imagined myself being with anyone but him. I never thought "well I wonder what that guys like in bed?" he was it for me until he made me realize that I wasn't it for him. So I stopped believing that there's one person out there for me bcuz doing so well just bring more hurt than its worth. And we stay with each other bcuz we have a handful of amazingly beautiful children together that we support as a family
People shouldn't cheat unless they're ready to leave. In other words you're just swingers who love having sex outside the marriage.
SangriaSid

Ilion, NY

#39 Jul 29, 2014
All of the many times I have cheated were with women who were 'hotter' than my spouse, in one way or another from a particular dimension.

None of them had all of the pieces like my spouse though. It's tricky for women because men define HOT differently depending on the time of day!! but, it typically begins with a smokin bod(or at least a lean one) and a pleasant non-bitch like face.

Beyond that men can also be turned on mentally(obviously). If you are into what he is into and have legit (non-girly) knowledge while maintaining at least a modicum of femininity - you will also be a force to be reckoned with. happy hunting.
wow

Ilion, NY

#40 Jul 29, 2014
the women that cheats loses out , the husband usually ends the marriage. when a man gets caught , in most cases , the women is afraid to leave because of children or finances. you don't poop in your own back yard.i know tons of politicians

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