Wow nothing like name dropping right out the gate lol I love it. I've been cheated on. Destroyed my children and my marriage but thankfully I've moved passed it. Once the initial shock embarrassment and pain go away you pick up the pieces and move on. Learn to love again and most importantly trust again. It does happen with time. I took the time to help my children through it. Not only did their father leave but they also lost the feeling of being safe and listing their home. I made sure they were OK and in the process healed myself. The bitterness is gone. It feels good not to be consumed with hate.