i could treat her better

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heartbroken

United States

#1 Mar 11, 2012
There is a girl I know who is married to someone who does not treat her right. I wish I could just swoop her off her feet and rescue her from him but not sure if I want to be a homewrecker but he treats her like crap and I love her. Does anyone e feel the same way or can give me advice on this
peaches_cream

Henderson, KY

#2 Mar 11, 2012
you should be up front with her!
Love

Princeton, KY

#3 Mar 11, 2012
Tell her how you feel, she needs to know that her man isn't the only option...and that there is someone else who loves her.
sleepless in hendo

Jasper, IN

#4 Mar 11, 2012
I know what you mean.Most of the married girls in Hendo are treated like crap.Just tell her how you feel.The worst that could happen is she could say no.At least you cant reget that you didnt try.Im in the same boat as you.All this time this girl thought I didnt love her anymore.I finally told her recently and now its a waiting game.I gave my heart to her many years ago and she never gave it back.Good luck to ya man.I hope it works out for ya.
Jacknbox

Washington, DC

#5 Mar 11, 2012
heartbroken wrote:
There is a girl I know who is married to someone who does not treat her right. I wish I could just swoop her off her feet and rescue her from him but not sure if I want to be a homewrecker but he treats her like crap and I love her. Does anyone e feel the same way or can give me advice on this
Are you in a position to "swoop" her off her feet? Meaning financially, mentally, and physically. Are there kids living in this home that you are potentially wrecking? Your idea maybe for the best for her but not all parties involved.
heartbroken

United States

#6 Mar 11, 2012
That's my problem there are kids and he loves his kids but not her and the kids in my opinion would be better off not seeing how he treats her and makes her cry but I don't think either of them are bad parents just can't get along. And I'm not by any means able to support her and the kids alone but I work and would do what I could to make sure they had what they need emotionally and physically
Heart

Evansville, IN

#7 Mar 11, 2012
Just have confidence in yourself tell her how you feel and run with it! You never know she might be just waiting for you to say something?
jp

Evansville, IN

#8 Mar 12, 2012
Whats her name? If u dont mind me askin.
my opinion

Jasper, IN

#9 Mar 12, 2012
Don't believe everything she tells you. There is always 2 sides to every story. She may just want sympathy. Iv seen it before. WARNING!!!!!!
yup

Haubstadt, IN

#10 Mar 12, 2012
my opinion wrote:
Don't believe everything she tells you. There is always 2 sides to every story. She may just want sympathy. Iv seen it before. WARNING!!!!!!
amen
Jacknbox

Washington, DC

#11 Mar 12, 2012
my opinion wrote:
Don't believe everything she tells you. There is always 2 sides to every story. She may just want sympathy. Iv seen it before. WARNING!!!!!!
this is not always the case!! Evidently it sound like heartbroken knows the story very well, so I doubt the lady is wanting sympathy. C it's men like u that make us women out to b bad. Always trying to find a way to make the women the bad or CRAZY one, when in actuality if you'd kept ur dick in ur Pants, had quit checking everything out with huge titts and two legs and Maybe told us we were beautiful, we wouldn't b looking for a shoulder to cry on and some "sympothy"!
my opinion

United States

#12 Mar 12, 2012
Jacknbox wrote:
<quoted text>this is not always the case!! Evidently it sound like heartbroken knows the story very well, so I doubt the lady is wanting sympathy. C it's men like u that make us women out to b bad. Always trying to find a way to make the women the bad or CRAZY one, when in actuality if you'd kept ur dick in ur Pants, had quit checking everything out with huge titts and two legs and Maybe told us we were beautiful, we wouldn't b looking for a shoulder to cry on and some "sympothy"!
Excuse me....... I'm a female. To heartbroken. You will be if you don't check out her story. JS.
Whatever

Washington, DC

#13 Mar 12, 2012
And sometimes it's the man that goes out talkin trash about gf or wife to make them look bad so other girls will take sympathy on them I wish someone would swoop in and save me!!! Tired of the lies and trash talk and being used!
realman

United States

#14 Mar 12, 2012
Whatever wrote:
And sometimes it's the man that goes out talkin trash about gf or wife to make them look bad so other girls will take sympathy on them I wish someone would swoop in and save me!!! Tired of the lies and trash talk and being used!
here I am girl. What's up!
realman

United States

#15 Mar 12, 2012
Whatever wrote:
And sometimes it's the man that goes out talkin trash about gf or wife to make them look bad so other girls will take sympathy on them I wish someone would swoop in and save me!!! Tired of the lies and trash talk and being used!
I need a good girl
Whatever

Washington, DC

#16 Mar 12, 2012
I'm not going to cheat on my husband cause I don't wouldnt want it done to me, but really tired of supporting a lazy lieing cheating dead beat so may be divorcing soon!
realman

United States

#17 Mar 12, 2012
Whatever wrote:
I'm not going to cheat on my husband cause I don't wouldnt want it done to me, but really tired of supporting a lazy lieing cheating dead beat so may be divorcing soon!
well can I be your friend for now ?
heartbroken

Chicago, IL

#18 Mar 12, 2012
I do know the situation. Very well anyone who knows them knows they shouldn't be together he cheats yells screams and. Belittled her but she doesn't want to take his kids away because he does love them I just don't want to be the reason for their marriage ending
Whatever

Washington, DC

#19 Mar 12, 2012
And how am I suppose to even know who u are...lmao
sleepless in hendo

Jasper, IN

#21 Mar 12, 2012
Maybe she wants to be saved.Ever think of that.Married so what.She obviously deserves better.The girl I was referring to in my earlier post is married also,But its not stopping me.I know she is not happy.She is the love of my life and I wont stop fighting for her till she's back in my arms.Sometimes you gotta ask yourself.What more important?True love waits for eternity.Im living proof.And if somehow she is reading this I want her to know that I died the day she left.I havent been the same.Only half a shell of a man.I miss and love everything about you.Your beautiful eyes,your smile,your laugh and that sweet little voice.Im sorry for messing up what we had and it was real.And when you leave that douche,I promise you will never feel heartache again.I love you till my very last breath.

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