do you ever truly get over your first...

do you ever truly get over your first love?

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love(:

United States

#1 Jul 5, 2012
Its been almost four years, it's gotten easier but will I ever be over it?
b.

United States

#2 Jul 5, 2012
[QUOTE who="love(:"]Its been almost four years, it's gotten easier but will I ever be over it?[/QUOTE]

No it's hard.
VOICE OF REASON

Slaughters, KY

#3 Jul 5, 2012
[QUOTE who="love(:"]Its been almost four years, it's gotten easier but will I ever be over it?[/QUOTE]

Yes, after someone else comes into your life and you give them your whole heart. Then there will be days, weeks, months that you never think about that first love. When you find someone, marry and have children, the first love will be a distant memory like an embarrassing moment in grade school. It's all a part of life. In the meanwhile, if you're hurting, I suggest you start a walking routine. It releases endorphines that help you feel better mentally and physically. My best to you.
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United States

#4 Jul 5, 2012
I really jus don't believe so... I mean I tell myself everyday that idc & I don't want him! But regardless he manages to mess up any r-ship I get in bc he always has my heart- makes it worse I have kids by him! I jus feel as if imma be lonely for the rest of my life...:(
ll

Richmond, KY

#5 Jul 5, 2012
It's been 24 years since the love of my loved moved away and broke my heart. There have been other men in my life, but I never felt for them what I did for him. Still have the poems he wrote and the pictures of us together. He will always have a piece of my heart.
past

Cincinnati, OH

#6 Jul 5, 2012
I agree. I haven't seen mine for 25 years. We have a son and he has never seen him. I think of him everyday. If you ask if I still love him, I would have to say that I am in love with the memory I have of him, because I've changed and he too certainly has changed. We aren't the same people we were 25 years ago, but my heart still flutters any time I hear someone mention his name. I even went on his daughters Facebook page to look at pictures of him.... And I'm in a great relationship, but I'm still curious out him.
melanie

Jeffersonville, IN

#7 Jul 5, 2012
i got my first love back after 13yrs and we couldnt be happier. i had totally for got about him until we ran into each other at the bar one night. come to find out our friends were the same and we had just miss each other by chance but i have him back now and love him just was much as i did 13 yrs ago
StatingtheObviou s

Columbus, OH

#8 Jul 5, 2012
It's been eleven years for me since I first met him. I don't think anyone ever stops loving their 'first love,' but... after so many years, you do learn to put it where it 'belongs,' within your mind, and your heart. After eleven years, when I think about him I still get the butterflies. When someone says his name I still get giddy. I think I'll still be that way when I'm fifty something but you just learn to put the feelings where they belong.
who

Dunmor, KY

#9 Jul 5, 2012
Yes trust me
PiScEs

Morganfield, KY

#10 Jul 5, 2012
Yes!
love awaits

Burlington, KY

#11 Jul 6, 2012
No you do not.Anyone who says otherwise is lying to theirself.It only gets easier because you end up burying that person deep within your heart,forgetting them for a spell.Until one day something triggers a memory of this person then they surface until you push them black down into that hole in your heart.Only if people were more open with their feelings maybe things would have been different.So instead of acting hard with no compassion.Tell someone you care about them.Hell them em you love em.I gurantee you 9 times out of 10,they'll return the favor.I know from experience.Its been 2o yrs for me.She's all I think about everyay.Sometimes I wish I were blind so I couldnt see her.
haha

Jeffersonville, IN

#12 Jul 6, 2012
No u don't I'm married 2 kids and still think of my first love I know his birthday I'll never get over him and it's been over 30 yrs
i have

Akron, OH

#13 Jul 6, 2012
i havent and its been 9 years 4 kids and a husband later. when i c him, hear f him i jus smile and i had a chance w him wish i wouldve took it bc i still wonder. i really hope n time i do forget him its makeing things hard for me w my husband
honeybadger

New Albany, IN

#14 Jul 6, 2012
Yep just kill the botchchacha

“Sexy is as Sexy does”

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#15 Jul 6, 2012
No, I'm afraid you do not.
honeybadger

New Albany, IN

#16 Jul 6, 2012
SexxxxyBish75 wrote:
No, I'm afraid you do not.
i invented bish...bish
justme

Owensboro, KY

#17 Jul 7, 2012
I think you will always be in love with what used to be when u first found out what love was... but people change and u grow up and move on. Im still in love with what we had and who he used to be but if he walked in my front door right now we would never work again. we lead two different lives now days.
VOICE OF REASON

Slaughters, KY

#18 Jul 7, 2012
justme wrote:
I think you will always be in love with what used to be when u first found out what love was... but people change and u grow up and move on. Im still in love with what we had and who he used to be but if he walked in my front door right now we would never work again. we lead two different lives now days.
That's a sound dose of reality. Well said.
girl

United States

#19 Jul 7, 2012
It's been 7yrs and a boyfriend ago and I still haven't got over him

“Sexy is as Sexy does”

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#20 Jul 9, 2012
honeybadger wrote:
<quoted text>i invented bish...bish
Bish. Do you have a copy right?

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