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help

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#1 Jan 5, 2012
I don't have kids, but I am dating a guy that has two. His baby momma blows his phone up calling and texting 24/7. He ignores the text but not all phone calls because he may be emergency or something about the kids. Is this just how some girls are that won't move on and get a life. I have to deal with it or end it?? Not much he can do with a crazy a$$ ex he has kids with, right? Or am I being unreasonable and not care how often she calls for random stupid sh*t. 85% of the time it has nothing to do with the kids
babydaddy

United States

#2 Jan 5, 2012
Sounds like they haven't been split up to awfully long. She is jealous and will try that sh*t until she realizes he isn't coming back. It took me and mine a while to get to a comfortable level. So give him time and try to chill out it will stop you just have to be patient
help

United States

#3 Jan 5, 2012
babydaddy wrote:
Sounds like they haven't been split up to awfully long. She is jealous and will try that sh*t until she realizes he isn't coming back. It took me and mine a while to get to a comfortable level. So give him time and try to chill out it will stop you just have to be patient
Thanks, its been long enough..haha 6 months but yea I'm being patient because he and I get along very well in all areas of the relationship so its worth it to me.
youll have that

Atwater, OH

#4 Jan 5, 2012
help wrote:
I don't have kids, but I am dating a guy that has two. His baby momma blows his phone up calling and texting 24/7. He ignores the text but not all phone calls because he may be emergency or something about the kids. Is this just how some girls are that won't move on and get a life. I have to deal with it or end it?? Not much he can do with a crazy a$$ ex he has kids with, right? Or am I being unreasonable and not care how often she calls for random stupid sh*t. 85% of the time it has nothing to do with the kids
You're not being unreasonable. Been through it. Some of em just WONT give it a rest! I think it was something like 3 years before my bfs baby mom stopped calling, texting, etc. After a while, you'll be amused by the things she calls for. It'll get better eventually. Takes a lot of patience on your end though!
what

Newburgh, IN

#5 Jan 5, 2012
Are you sure he hasnt been leading her on? most baby daddies are just like the babies momma. He might be playing you both.
def agree

Akron, OH

#6 Jan 5, 2012
My ex hubbys BABY. Mama called like that too it had nothing to do wit the kids for 6 yes she did that shit stalker our house on the daily finally she stopped n got into another relationship
def agree

Akron, OH

#7 Jan 5, 2012
Years not yes and stalked. Not stalker damn autocorrect
tifffany

Louisville, KY

#8 Jan 5, 2012
i wld have to do some investigation. i am a baby momma and my baby daddy has 2 other kids with another girl but my first born is his first born and it yes was a weak moment on my behave but successfully after 3 yrs of tryin to get n my pants every time he was me i let him. idk to many baby daddies that dont go back to their baby mommas a time or two after the break up. not sayin all but a lot do... so before u put this all off on her make sure ur man is really all urs...
what

Newburgh, IN

#9 Jan 5, 2012
tifffany wrote:
i wld have to do some investigation. i am a baby momma and my baby daddy has 2 other kids with another girl but my first born is his first born and it yes was a weak moment on my behave but successfully after 3 yrs of tryin to get n my pants every time he was me i let him. idk to many baby daddies that dont go back to their baby mommas a time or two after the break up. not sayin all but a lot do... so before u put this all off on her make sure ur man is really all urs...
benn there as well. The baby mommas arent always to blame, sometimes they are but not always. agreed!
juss sayin

Cincinnati, OH

#10 Jan 5, 2012
My baby daddy played me. I'm the ex, similar to what your describing, except mine didn't even bother to tell me he moved on so I kept calling/texting holding onto false hope. Better make sure your on the same page. Juss sayin.
hope 267

United States

#11 Jan 5, 2012
My baby daddy done me the same say. Kept telling me he loved me we could make it work blah blah blah then I found out the whole time he had some girl he was dating she was staying some nights at his house then he would come and stay at my house and he constantly played us. Telling each one of the same things about how he loved & cared & a few of my friends just had this happen to them also. It's not always the baby momma. There are some but there are some where the baby daddy is making it worse by leading us on!
juss sayin

Cincinnati, OH

#12 Jan 6, 2012
hope 267 wrote:
My baby daddy done me the same say. Kept telling me he loved me we could make it work blah blah blah then I found out the whole time he had some girl he was dating she was staying some nights at his house then he would come and stay at my house and he constantly played us. Telling each one of the same things about how he loved & cared & a few of my friends just had this happen to them also. It's not always the baby momma. There are some but there are some where the baby daddy is making it worse by leading us on!
Agreed!

“Just be yourself”

Since: Dec 11

Colorado Springs CO

#13 Jan 7, 2012
My fiance has 2 baby mamma's one I get along with one I don't Every baby mamma drama is different. The baby mamma I don't get a long with is a 100% nut case. At first we got along and she went CRAZY. She wanted my fiance to give her more money. She has even taken he to court to try and get more child support. SH*T he already pays over $300 a month in child support. His child support is taken directly out of his check each week. Though his job has shut down periods and he doesn't get paid for the shut periods. So when its shut down time his child support is late. She calls every day until she gets it threatening that she is going to call the child support office and getting him thrown in jail. I know its all BS but I still have to deal with this moron. She is lucky that she gets child support. I was a single mom of 2 until I met my fiance and I have NEVER received a child support payment. So I know all about baby mamma drama. Some times there is nothing you can do about it. Oh yea my fiance doesn't even get visitation with his youngest even though it is court ordered. But the judge for some reason doesn't make her follow through with it. I have NO IDEA why either. She can't say he is a bad person and is unfit because he has custody of his oldest child.

Since: Jan 12

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#14 Jan 7, 2012
This will continue for the next 18 years so be prepared. If you don't like it...move on.

“Just be yourself”

Since: Dec 11

Colorado Springs CO

#15 Jan 7, 2012
Wee-Wee2 wrote:
This will continue for the next 18 years so be prepared. If you don't like it...move on.
I don't know if that comment was for me or not. But if it is just letting everyone know I have waited 6 years for him and she will not come in between me and him.(he feels the same way) Just thought that I would share my story.
hmmmm

Newburgh, IN

#16 Jan 9, 2012
Baby mommas can get crazy!
tifffany

Louisville, KY

#17 Jan 12, 2012
hmmmmm, yeah ur right we baby mommas can get crazy. my baby daddy and i were child hood friends we had an on going sexual relationship for 6 yrs before i got pregnant. we were best friends. then i got pregnant. he went to jail and was n there the whole time i was pregnant and bc there is more than one person out there with my name everytime some one said something about the other grl he thought they was talkin about me so instead of cumin to me asking me if the shit being said was tru he let it come in between us and now he has nothing to do wit his child. he goes 11 12 months wih out any contact pays wat he wants when he wants n child support tries to make my life a living hell so yeah sum times crazy is jst wat his punk ass gets.

Since: Jan 12

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#18 Jan 12, 2012
tifffany wrote:
hmmmmm, yeah ur right we baby mommas can get crazy. my baby daddy and i were child hood friends we had an on going sexual relationship for 6 yrs before i got pregnant. we were best friends. then i got pregnant. he went to jail and was n there the whole time i was pregnant and bc there is more than one person out there with my name everytime some one said something about the other grl he thought they was talkin about me so instead of cumin to me asking me if the shit being said was tru he let it come in between us and now he has nothing to do wit his child. he goes 11 12 months wih out any contact pays wat he wants when he wants n child support tries to make my life a living hell so yeah sum times crazy is jst wat his punk ass gets.
You shouldn't blame other people for his choices. Plus....why in the heck would you be with a guy who gets put in jail? Have better pride in yourself, girl....
sickofit

Madisonville, KY

#19 Jan 12, 2012
Wee-Wee2 never has anything nice to say. Wee-Wee2 just because someone has been in jail doesn't make them a bad person. And yes I have been to jail before and I a single father who is raising my child because the mother is troubled, and the court found me more fit to raise our child even though I have been to jail.

Since: Jan 12

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#20 Jan 12, 2012
sickofit wrote:
Wee-Wee2 never has anything nice to say. Wee-Wee2 just because someone has been in jail doesn't make them a bad person. And yes I have been to jail before and I a single father who is raising my child because the mother is troubled, and the court found me more fit to raise our child even though I have been to jail.
1. Actually, I'm sure that you can find lots of nice things that I've said on here if you care to look.

2. If you are looking for nice little sweet compliments, you probably want to visit another site besides Topix.

3. Jail is full of people who have done bad things. If you break the law bad enough or enough times to go to jail, you are toxic and are not the type of person someone should be whining or causing drama over.

4. What is with everyone on here either being on food stamps or disability or just out of jail?

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