Forgiveness Or Hate
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JustMe

Romeoville, IL

#1 Aug 17, 2012
Forgive and forget? Hard to do when someone's lied so moch about you! Can't seem not to want to bash them all over this site. What's that going to prove? That I'm only sinking to there level. Inside I know Im a better person than they ever though about being! Hiding behind there self rightous holier than thy atitudite. Easy to say hard to do!
Yea

United States

#2 Aug 17, 2012
Let the hate go, hate only kills a person inside so try to let it go and you will feel better
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#3 Aug 17, 2012
You forgive for yourself not the other person my mamaw always said forgiving them gives you back your control and when i forgave him i felt better
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#4 Aug 17, 2012
JustMe wrote:
Forgive and forget? Hard to do when someone's lied so moch about you! Can't seem not to want to bash them all over this site. What's that going to prove? That I'm only sinking to there level. Inside I know Im a better person than they ever though about being! Hiding behind there self rightous holier than thy atitudite. Easy to say hard to do!
I totally understand. It's so hard when people think someone is just the "greatest guy ever.." and they give him praise and label him a "good guy" but you know how evil he really is... and then you feel sorry for all the stupid people around him that are completely oblivious to his wickedness. The way I see it.. I don't need to bash him on here.. he will get his one day. I just really hope I get to witness it :->
so true

United States

#5 Aug 17, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
<quoted text>I totally understand. It's so hard when people think someone is just the "greatest guy ever.." and they give him praise and label him a "good guy" but you know how evil he really is... and then you feel sorry for all the stupid people around him that are completely oblivious to his wickedness. The way I see it.. I don't need to bash him on here.. he will get his one day. I just really hope I get to witness it :->
Amen!!!!!!!!
you should not

Louisville, KY

#6 Aug 17, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
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I totally understand. It's so hard when people think someone is just the "greatest guy ever.." and they give him praise and label him a "good guy" but you know how evil he really is... and then you feel sorry for all the stupid people around him that are completely oblivious to his wickedness. The way I see it.. I don't need to bash him on here.. he will get his one day. I just really hope I get to witness it :->
Want to witness anything. Although he may have hurt you in the past you are still allowing him to hurt you by holding in all this agression towards him. You should move on and let go of the anger and you will truly feel much better.
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#7 Aug 17, 2012
you should not wrote:
<quoted text>Want to witness anything. Although he may have hurt you in the past you are still allowing him to hurt you by holding in all this agression towards him. You should move on and let go of the anger and you will truly feel much better.
oh..., I don't wish him dead... just.. maybe... severely maimed, haha!!
I assure you honey... I'm not angry. I have even forgiven him. This is me being nice :-D
blah

United States

#8 Aug 17, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
<quoted text>oh..., I don't wish him dead... just.. maybe... severely maimed, haha!!
I assure you honey... I'm not angry. I have even forgiven him. This is me being nice :-D
Do we have the same pos guy??? Lol!
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#9 Aug 18, 2012
blah wrote:
<quoted text>Do we have the same pos guy??? Lol!
I'm sure it's a good possibility. He was a reeaall winner.....
blah

United States

#10 Aug 18, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
<quoted text>I'm sure it's a good possibility. He was a reeaall winner.....
Lol! I know the feeling :// how long ago were y'all together and broke up?
agree

Louisville, KY

#12 Aug 18, 2012
I have to admit that it was hard to forgive but we all pay for our mistakes and now that one person well lets just say its hitting home
My Two Cents

United States

#13 Aug 18, 2012
There's a real thin line between love & hate. I chose the forgiveness route but it was a complete waste of time
agree

Louisville, KY

#14 Aug 18, 2012
My Two Cents wrote:
There's a real thin line between love & hate. I chose the forgiveness route but it was a complete waste of time
yes mine was too.but now i am the Winner
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#15 Aug 18, 2012
blah wrote:
<quoted text>Lol! I know the feeling :// how long ago were y'all together and broke up?
@ a year, I guess. Marriage was over long before that though.
blah

United States

#16 Aug 18, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
<quoted text>@ a year, I guess. Marriage was over long before that though.
Well, unless mine has been married and divorced while with me, I suppose that means there are just more than one pos man out there. What were the odds of that? LOL! I'm trying the forgiveness thing... But it's so hard.
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#17 Aug 18, 2012
blah wrote:
<quoted text>Well, unless mine has been married and divorced while with me, I suppose that means there are just more than one pos man out there. What were the odds of that? LOL! I'm trying the forgiveness thing... But it's so hard.
I forgave him for me, not for him. He is without. My sons will have nothing to do with him because of what he did to me. All I know is that anybody that can sleep at night after all the lives and families he's torn apart.. then he is truly a sick sick man. I find myself feeling sorry for the next poor woman he is with but especially.. I feel sorry for any children she may have :(
My Two Cents

United States

#18 Aug 18, 2012
Not all men are like that ladies. There's alot of us who want a GOOD woman but our paths seem to never cross with one. Unfortunately I'm running into just as many worthless females as y'all are worthless males. It really sucks. Not being arrogant, but I'm an above average looking/built guy who's got some things going for me & I'm still coming up empty. Such is life
Wully the mf'n Bully

United States

#19 Aug 18, 2012
10ThingsIHateAboutYou_ wrote:
<quoted text>I forgave him for me, not for him. He is without. My sons will have nothing to do with him because of what he did to me. All I know is that anybody that can sleep at night after all the lives and families he's torn apart.. then he is truly a sick sick man. I find myself feeling sorry for the next poor woman he is with but especially.. I feel sorry for any children she may have :(
so lemme get this straight. You will not let your kids see their father, because of what he did to "you". You are taking your anger out on your kids because of what he did to "you". Those kids should see their father as longs he didn't do anything to " them". It's not their fault for what he did to u. Your harming ur kids because ur mad at him. You are truly pathetic. Gross!!! You make me sick! End of story.
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#20 Aug 18, 2012
[QUOTE who="Wully the mf'n Bully"]<quoted text>so lemme get this straight. You will not let your kids see their father, because of what he did to "you". You are taking your anger out on your kids because of what he did to "you". Those kids should see their father as longs he didn't do anything to " them". It's not their fault for what he did to u. Your harming ur kids because ur mad at him. You are truly pathetic. Gross!!! You make me sick! End of story.[/QUOTE]
You're an idiot. My "kids" are over 18 and HE is not their father so stfu. Hence, I said MY sons-not OURS. It's because of morons like you that get stupid rumors started. You don't have all the facts so don't even try to judge me. Run along now.. you embaress yourself.
10ThingsIHateAbo utYou_

Huntington Beach, CA

#21 Aug 18, 2012
My Two Cents wrote:
Not all men are like that ladies. There's alot of us who want a GOOD woman but our paths seem to never cross with one. Unfortunately I'm running into just as many worthless females as y'all are worthless males. It really sucks. Not being arrogant, but I'm an above average looking/built guy who's got some things going for me & I'm still coming up empty. Such is life
I don't think ALL men are like that. I don't make all men pay for his mistakes. I realize that he was just a bad man. I know there are decent men out there. Good luck to you. There are decent women still out there.

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