y wont my bf marry me?
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Little Johnny

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#23 Jul 30, 2012
Wee-Wee2 got married cause she did her man's homework

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#24 Jul 30, 2012
same wrote:
I'm so happy having what we have. I didn't waste 9 years. We are still together so how did I waste time? I have and will continue to enjoy every minute of out time together. Everyone I know just gets married bc the girls push for it bc they want a ring and to trap him in. I'm completely happy married or not! These same people I watch get married are going through divorces now so I think we have made a mature choice for our future.
I am sorry. I was mistaken you for the original poster on my comments

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#25 Jul 30, 2012
You never said how many bastard children you had?

Since: Mar 11

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#26 Jul 30, 2012
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I'm in the same situation but we were never ready to be married before. butane more ready now but we are both worried about being married bc of divorce. I think we made the right choice by waiting to be sure that's what we want bc once it's done you can't take it back. We love the lifestyle of a married couple only I don't have his last name or cheaper insurance rates lol it's good to wait and make sure your ready. I have decided I'm happy just being together rather we are married or not. The though of marriage scares me a little!
You speak of not being ready to get married, because you are both worried about divorce, but you went ahead and had children, kind of putting the cart before the horse isn't it? Having children is also something, that once its done, you can't take it back. Shouldn't the thought of raising them in a broken home either way be scary too? Js
While you may be living the married lifestyle and loving it, there are things you are overlooking. Because you don't have his last name, if he were to be killed, in an unforeseen accident, you would not be legally entitled to his SSI benefits, nor would you have any legal rights in any of his other affairs. I hope you are not in a situation, where you and his legal next of kin, do not get along, because if that is the case, things could get ugly fast. This may be of no consequence to you, but is one of the many benefits of marriage, for yourself and your children. I have seen that happen to people first hand and it's quite tragic. I am by no means saying, marry him so you can get more if he dies, what I am saying is, the legality of marriage also entitles you, to a deserved say so in things. Just something to consider. I will say,it is great that you are both happy after all these years together.

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