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Chicago, IL

#29 Feb 8, 2013
There is nothing wrong with it. If its what god plans for you, you shouldn't try and change that. If you are pregnant it's cause god wanted you to have that baby. I'm in the same boat right now. I'm 16 with a 27 year old guy. I'm pregnant but I work for my baby and will be starting college in the fall and we are getting married on Sunday. If your parents are okay with it and will be there when someone tries to get cops involved it will be okay. Because of my mom my fiancé is not in jail.
obviously

Duluth, GA

#30 Feb 8, 2013
Well it obvious that "curious" is a child predator.Sick-O. What's wrong with you a girl starts menstrating at 13 so shes ready to have sex, are you serious. A girl starts then because her body is starting to change an prepare for woman hood not because she's ready for breeding you should be in jail, hope you don't live in a school zone or near McDonalds with your mind set you should be caster rated but like you said were in America so you can have your own sicko thoughts but you'd be safer keepin those to yourself because we can still bare arms as you stated
curious

Duluth, GA

#32 Feb 8, 2013
obviously wrote:
Well it obvious that "curious" is a child predator.Sick-O. What's wrong with you a girl starts menstrating at 13 so shes ready to have sex, are you serious. A girl starts then because her body is starting to change an prepare for woman hood not because she's ready for breeding you should be in jail, hope you don't live in a school zone or near McDonalds with your mind set you should be caster rated but like you said were in America so you can have your own sicko thoughts but you'd be safer keepin those to yourself because we can still bare arms as you stated
My opinion doesn't mean I like little girls. I also believe that people have the right to worship in a god that I don't believe exists. I believe that if someone wants to ingest a chemical that is bad for them that's their choice as long as they are not affecting anyone else. I might add with that that I don't do drugs. I was merely pointing out the fact that there are other cultures where this is perfectly acceptable. I'm sorry you're stuck in your little bubble and think i should be jailed for my opinions, but I also won't slander you for your comments because I also believe you are entitled to your opinion. Im glad i dont live in a country who puts you in prison for your thoughts. It's just sad that we have one life to live and we have to live it based on what someone else thinks is the right way to do it.
curious

Duluth, GA

#33 Feb 8, 2013
obviously wrote:
Well it obvious that "curious" is a child predator.Sick-O. What's wrong with you a girl starts menstrating at 13 so shes ready to have sex, are you serious. A girl starts then because her body is starting to change an prepare for woman hood not because she's ready for breeding you should be in jail, hope you don't live in a school zone or near McDonalds with your mind set you should be caster rated but like you said were in America so you can have your own sicko thoughts but you'd be safer keepin those to yourself because we can still bare arms as you stated
I've got a question for you. Do you think it's right that a 19 year old man can hobble into a bar on one leg because he lost the other in war just to be told sorry, our society decided you are to young to assume the responsibilities of consuming alcohol?
Katie

United States

#34 Feb 8, 2013
How about I'm 17 dating a 30 year old?
obviously

Duluth, GA

#35 Feb 8, 2013
curious wrote:
<quoted text>
I've got a question for you. Do you think it's right that a 19 year old man can hobble into a bar on one leg because he lost the other in war just to be told sorry, our society decided you are to young to assume the responsibilities of consuming alcohol?
what does that have to do with 13 year old girls? You said they would develope breast or menstrate at 13 if they weren't ready for sex that's the topic I'm talkn on has nothing 2 do with the legal drinking age but you believe its ok for someone to think having sex with a child is ok if that's what they choose to do
curious

Duluth, GA

#36 Feb 8, 2013
obviously wrote:
<quoted text>what does that have to do with 13 year old girls? You said they would develope breast or menstrate at 13 if they weren't ready for sex that's the topic I'm talkn on has nothing 2 do with the legal drinking age but you believe its ok for someone to think having sex with a child is ok if that's what they choose to do
They're body is physically ready. In the US they probably aren't mentally ready. We don't prep women for woman hood at 13. In some countries when a man starts working and providing and is
ready they are married well before 16 and I would assume their bride is of the same age. My point was that a woman's body is physically ready at "around" 13. So who's to say the girl that started this topic isn't mentally ready now that she's 16. No one looks at it as her choice they look at it as the guy is a pervert and charge him with rape. How in the world you got that I'm a child predator and need to be jailed for posting my opinion out of that is beyond me. I have one son that I could have, and did, leave home all day by himself at 10 because he was capable. Which is legal i should add. I've got another now that is 15 who I still wouldn't leave home because he's a dumb ass and would burn the house down. You've avoided everything I said except the one line where I pointed out that nature makes a woman's body ready for sex way earlier then what we think they should be able to have sex.
Asdfghjkl

United States

#37 Feb 8, 2013
needtoknow wrote:
I'm 16 and my bf is 22 what are the legal issues with this and could he get introuble? My mom doesn't have a problem with it because he is an amazing man and supports me. And also if I was to get pregnant what would happen?
That's ugggggg....he's 22 & you're 16. You need to re-evaluate your life. Your mom needs to beat the breaks off you, smh.
obviously

Duluth, GA

#38 Feb 8, 2013
well "curious" my son started havin boners at 8 so your sayin his body also is ready for sex. these other countrys where girla are gettin married so young ia called prearranged marriagea its not the childs choice 2 familys get 2gether an bargin for money or trade to breeding rites to their child who has no say in it its called salvery and lota of these girls run away to america where they have freedom an their youth isnt stolen by someone elses greedy agenda i feel sorry for your children you also stated you see nothing wrong with prostution how bout the spredding stds to every unknown contact they have afterwards prostution is a form of man slauder cause 1or the other has no idea what theyll end up with so lets legalize or overlook it an help the spread of aids you have a sorry outlook on life hope your children see things more realisticlly instead of using every other matter in life to make the sexually sick things ok
obviously

Duluth, GA

#39 Feb 8, 2013
and for the girl who started this topic ur not 13 so its not that biga deal as long as ur parents dont push the issue of pressing charges u hv nothing to worry bout good luck in ur decisions
curious

Duluth, GA

#40 Feb 8, 2013
obviously wrote:
and for the girl who started this topic ur not 13 so its not that biga deal as long as ur parents dont push the issue of pressing charges u hv nothing to worry bout good luck in ur decisions
So you're telling her that even though its illegal, 16 is ok but 13 is not? So you don't agree with the laws but have your own standards? Clearly you are very unclear of any of my points and only reiterate the ignorance of our culture.
curious

Duluth, GA

#41 Feb 8, 2013
obviously wrote:
well "curious" my son started havin boners at 8 so your sayin his body also is ready for sex. these other countrys where girla are gettin married so young ia called prearranged marriagea its not the childs choice 2 familys get 2gether an bargin for money or trade to breeding rites to their child who has no say in it its called salvery and lota of these girls run away to america where they have freedom an their youth isnt stolen by someone elses greedy agenda i feel sorry for your children you also stated you see nothing wrong with prostution how bout the spredding stds to every unknown contact they have afterwards prostution is a form of man slauder cause 1or the other has no idea what theyll end up with so lets legalize or overlook it an help the spread of aids you have a sorry outlook on life hope your children see things more realisticlly instead of using every other matter in life to make the sexually sick things ok
And the "boner" thing. Bad analogy. Guys get erections for more reasons then wanting to have sex. When I wake up in the morning and have to pee I'm harder then Chinese arithmetic. If he's getting boners because he's fantasizing about having sex at 8 then that would very abnormal.
obviously

Duluth, GA

#42 Feb 8, 2013
well when a girl gets breast an starts menstrating she isnt thinking of sex either shes in pain from the changes cramps hormones upset emotional the only 1s thinkn of sex then is the perverts noticing the difference an thinkn of the fresh meet it really seems ur mind set is strong on the whole its ok for a girl just reaching puberity to have sex still leaves one to belive your a sick-o you cant just let it drop still trying to convience every1 its ok whats wrong with you bet your not LEGALLY ALLOWED AROUND MINORS
curious

Duluth, GA

#43 Feb 9, 2013
obviously wrote:
well when a girl gets breast an starts menstrating she isnt thinking of sex either shes in pain from the changes cramps hormones upset emotional the only 1s thinkn of sex then is the perverts noticing the difference an thinkn of the fresh meet it really seems ur mind set is strong on the whole its ok for a girl just reaching puberity to have sex still leaves one to belive your a sick-o you cant just let it drop still trying to convience every1 its ok whats wrong with you bet your not LEGALLY ALLOWED AROUND MINORS
Ok you got me. I just want to have sex with kids. I'll remember that the next time I take my grand children to the park. You really have a problem going on. You might want to go talk to someone. I usually try to refrain from insults but you seem to keep wanting to make accusations that I'm a perv and can't be allowed around children. You know that boner your 8 year old got? Go suck it you cu*t
uknowwhothisis

Duluth, GA

#44 Feb 9, 2013
I really hope this isn't who I think it is BUT if it is she needs to be more careful when it comes to gettin pregnant!!!
On another note, this is not going to be such a big deal when ur 20 and he's 26. Age is honestly not the problem here, the problem is u at 16 have things you can NOT let fall behind just to try and keep up with a 22yr old.
YOU have school to finish!
And regardless if the boy is a phase or the real thing I PROMISE YOU, if u don't finish ur plans, get all the teenage things out of ur system, think of YOUR future, YOU WILL REGRET IT!!! My worst mistake as a teenager was not taking all the adults in my life serious, listen to what they say, they are right!! As bad as u hate to admit it, as stupid as it sounds, as smart as u think u are, as much as u think it's not gonna happen to u, as concrete as ur future plan is........ U ARE WRONG! Props to the teenagers who actually listen and sympathy to the ones who don't.
TO THE 16yr OLD: If you do not protect, plan, think, be smart, concerning ur self there will come a day when u realize u can't go back and u have chosen the hard road and IT SUCKS!!!
obviously

Duluth, GA

#45 Feb 9, 2013
curious wrote:
<quoted text>
Ok you got me. I just want to have sex with kids. I'll remember that the next time I take my grand children to the park. You really have a problem going on. You might want to go talk to someone. I usually try to refrain from insults but you seem to keep wanting to make accusations that I'm a perv and can't be allowed around children. You know that boner your 8 year old got? Go suck it you cu*t
I don't need to say any more cause you just showed your true colors who said I was a bitch you as* hole your the 1 who made under age sex about everything but what it was child abuse including refering to a disabled under age vet wanting to drink. Youv tried comparing it to everything thinkable instead of being a real man an thinking of the safty of a vurnable under age girl and a adult man and any man who'd say that to someone looking out for the safty of a minor shouldn't be allowed around any children even your grandchildren
curious

Evansville, IN

#46 Feb 9, 2013
obviously wrote:
<quoted text>I don't need to say any more cause you just showed your true colors who said I was a bitch you as* hole your the 1 who made under age sex about everything but what it was child abuse including refering to a disabled under age vet wanting to drink. Youv tried comparing it to everything thinkable instead of being a real man an thinking of the safty of a vurnable under age girl and a adult man and any man who'd say that to someone looking out for the safty of a minor shouldn't be allowed around any children even your grandchildren
There you have it to the original poster of this topic. Obviously says you're merely a child and your boyfriend is just a pedophile trying to have sex with a kid. Someone either needs to notify the police for child molestation or "obviously" needs to deal with "her" own securities probably caused by being molested herself as a child. News flash obviously. Not all men just want to get off when ever possible. I'm sorry that whomever caused you to believe this did what they did to you.
umm

Eddyville, KY

#47 Feb 10, 2013
The human brain isn't even fully developed until around age 20. People don't physically have the mental capacity to make food judgement calls until then. That doesn't mean they can't make good judgement calls. 13 is WAY to young as is 16.
umm

Eddyville, KY

#48 Feb 10, 2013
umm wrote:
The human brain isn't even fully developed until around age 20. People don't physically have the mental capacity to make food judgement calls until then. That doesn't mean they can't make good judgement calls. 13 is WAY to young as is 16.
Make that age 25 before the brain is fully developed.
Doyourthang

Memphis, TN

#49 Feb 10, 2013
Katie wrote:
How about I'm 17 dating a 30 year old?
Do your thing if he makes you happy. Who cares what these people say. That means don't get on here asking what others think. If your asking your looking for a reason.

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