upset

Duluth, GA

#1 Dec 1, 2012
For the past four years I haven't received a cent of my ex's tax money for back child support. He is and has been several thousands of dollars behind and it keeps adding up thousands of dollars each year. Four years of waiting and calling the child support office each year after tax time asking my case worker Brenda what is going on? Why haven't I received his taxes?
No one can tell me why! She says the state didn't catch it this year or he didn't get any money back this year but she can never tell me where it went(IRS, medical bills, other debt collectors).
Something doesn't make sense because the years we were together he would get his taxes back without hesitation.
Does anyone else have this problem? Is it brenda? Is it henderson county?
Is there anything I can do, someone I can call?
Is there some way he is getting around the state taking it from him?
Soooo

Duluth, GA

#2 Dec 1, 2012
You appearantly got pregnant by a loser. You should have kept you legs closed. You and him work it out. Why should the rest of society help you with your problem? Why do dumb ass girls let this happen? Do you not have any sense? This shit is getting old.
Well

Henderson, KY

#3 Dec 1, 2012
The child support office should give u a number to call to see if his name has been "red flagged" by the IRS to get his taxes! I'm in the same boat.. My sons dad is over 10,000 thousand dollars behind.. Yes he is worthless but I was only 20 when I had my son so I was still learning! You can also call the IRS yourself and let them be aware of the situation! I totally understand how u feel!
Well

Henderson, KY

#4 Dec 1, 2012
Also... The only place the money would go before child support is the IRS.. Medical bills and everything else are after child support!! So unless he owes the IRS there should be NO reason u don't get it!
sorry

Hopkinsville, KY

#5 Dec 1, 2012
unless you recieve a medical card they can take the tax return
typical

Evansville, IN

#6 Dec 1, 2012
oh wow look another women bitchin about money. how typical
x

Henderson, KY

#7 Dec 1, 2012
If I cannot get the answers u want at the local office, call Frankfort. There is also a website that shows i everything ur case worker is doing to ur case!!!! Not too many ppl know about it!! http://csws.chfs.ky.gov/csws/
I have not used it yet, but a lady I know who travel the U.S. to set this system up said u can see EVERYTHING that your case worker sees. Nothing to hide anymore. Hope it helps :)
Woman with money

Henderson, KY

#8 Dec 1, 2012
It isn't so much that we bit$h about money.. If men would just do their darn part in raising a child we wouldn't have to ask these crazy questions!! Sure all u guys go get that big tax check and go spend it on hunting.... Boating... New fast cars... Whatever... And leave the mother of ur child wondering how she is gonna afford Christmas... Bills... Child's clothing.... Ect. I know there are some worthless mothers out there too and the same goes for them!! Take care of ur responsibilities so no one has to complain!! Raising a child is very expensive and I know things happen unplanned... But it takes two to make a child just as it takes two to raise one.. Emotionally.. Financially... And physically!! Grow up all u absent parents..when u have a child u have to put them FIRST... Stop beig selfish and take care of your responsibilities first being your child/children!!!
drew blackston

Chicago, IL

#9 Dec 1, 2012
I'm not on any side but in some cases I think its bs that the ex has to pay child support like mine for instance I have full custody of one of my children an I am suppose to pay on my youngest son an I don't receive child support on the one I have. Also my youngest child's mother signed off on support in owensboro then got mad at me an picked it up in Henderson I didn't think u could do that but that's besides the point. My money gets spent on my kids regardless if its required through courts but now just BC this dirty skank is mad an wants to take my money from me my oldest son an myself are goin through tough times while my youngest son is living large taking a fourth of my paycheck every week. While she goes out to bars an pops pills an goes to Richmond to see her bf an rides around all day an never has our child she leaves him with her mother all the time. She one of these Henderson no good parents u always hear about. Anyway I'm not pay in the bitch another cent until Christmas an birthdays are over an my bills are caught up. An if the money meant so much to her y hasnt she went to the court house an filled out the papers for them to take it out of my check instead of continuously trying to throw me in jail an take me away from my children when I get our son every Tues Thurs an every other weekend an I have my oldest son every day except on week ends I do not have our son in which I think is fair BC I deserve a break. I work 60 hrs a week to support myself an my children an if any of u cock suckers wanna talk shit an act like I'm lying u don't fcking no me. But for the dead beats yea throw them in jail take there money but not all of us deserve this kinda treatment so keep it in mind. I have my flaws but being a father an supporting my children is not one of them thank u
upset

Duluth, GA

#10 Dec 1, 2012
Thank you. I will try the resources you given me :-)
upset

Duluth, GA

#11 Dec 1, 2012
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