Why does it matter to you so much? Are you gay and struggling internally with that? Did a family member (like one of your 2 sons, perhaps?) tell you he's gay and you're struggling with that? I'm pretty sure there are support groups for that in Pennsylvania if that would help you.<quoted text>
My eyes are wide open. I keep looking to see a real marriage. At the most, all I've seen is a mutually sterile, duplicate gendered half of marriage!
What the hell am I not seeing???