“You'll Put An Eye Out.”

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#1 Apr 15, 2010
Ok, so I've been posting for a while now on topix, I just made a profile today and my first post was in a topic about Fugate's Bowling Alley. Most of my posts have been in topics about sexuality, and some people are downright awful about it. First off I am a bisexual female, twenty-seven and still to this day after realizing when I was twelve that I was attracted to females, few people know. I want to know(without bringing religion into this) why it bothers people so much when someone is gay, lesbian, or bisexual? I mean it doesn't affect you directly, and for the most part if a non-straight person knows you're straight, they aren't going to waste their time hitting on you. Some people still do, I have no clue why but they do. But like I said, give me some reasons why it bothers you so much if it does.
unknown

Hazard, KY

#2 Apr 15, 2010
To be honost with you it doesn't bother me wether anyone is gay, straight or bi-sexual...I however am straight but as you said I find that as long as you let them know that you are straight you pretty much never have a problem...I believe that anyones sexuality is strictly their bussiness and as long as you are not trying to push it onto anyone else no one should have anything to say about it because it's none of their bussiness.

“You'll Put An Eye Out.”

Since: Apr 10

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#3 Apr 15, 2010
unknown wrote:
To be honost with you it doesn't bother me wether anyone is gay, straight or bi-sexual...I however am straight but as you said I find that as long as you let them know that you are straight you pretty much never have a problem...I believe that anyones sexuality is strictly their bussiness and as long as you are not trying to push it onto anyone else no one should have anything to say about it because it's none of their bussiness.
Yea, I find it funny though most people on here if it isn't a religion stand point it's just, "GAH, they're gay!!!". With no actual reason for it. People are just too worried with other peoples lives I think.
Not So

Hazard, KY

#4 Apr 15, 2010
The purely scientific aspect of homosexuality is a complete contradiction to the entire reproduction of life itself. Leaving religion totally out of it, and just looking at the natural side of it. There must be a male and a female in order to procreate. Even if by means of help from a lab with Invetro, artificial, or any other way, you MUST have female eggs, and male sperm to procreate human life. So it by nature, goes completely against the natural order of things to be "Gay". That by itself should be enough of a reason to tell you it's wrong, even against nature.
There, that's a scientific answer without bringing God or religion into it, and I didn't BASH anyone over it either. Just a plain and simple answer.
It's a choice people make to be "Gay". One is not born a homosexual. So if you felt you were drawn to women, you made a choice to allow that to develope further when you could have simply looked at it scientifically at that time, and realized how it isn't natural, goes against procreation completely, and you could have sought help on the matter then.
Not So

Hazard, KY

#5 Apr 15, 2010
unknown wrote:
To be honost with you it doesn't bother me wether anyone is gay, straight or bi-sexual...I however am straight but as you said I find that as long as you let them know that you are straight you pretty much never have a problem...I believe that anyones sexuality is strictly their bussiness and as long as you are not trying to push it onto anyone else no one should have anything to say about it because it's none of their bussiness.
Yes, that is true. But when a person who IS homosexual asks your opinion, and it differs completely from what they Want to believe on it, they usually start getting mad because they see you're not gonna willingly accept what they do as a natural act, when it isn't. Two males together can't reproduce a child on their own, neither can two females. So it goes against nature entirely. Life would cease to exist if males were only with males and females only with females. That by itself should be a big red flag to anyone considering becoming a homosexual, and should be telling them, wait a minute, something just isn't right about this.
Hell, the reproductive organs don't even fit together right if you're with the same sex as you are. That should be, Helloooo, Red light! Something isn't right here!

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#6 Apr 15, 2010
Little Squid wrote:
Ok, so I've been posting for a while now on topix, I just made a profile today and my first post was in a topic about Fugate's Bowling Alley. Most of my posts have been in topics about sexuality, and some people are downright awful about it. First off I am a bisexual female, twenty-seven and still to this day after realizing when I was twelve that I was attracted to females, few people know. I want to know(without bringing religion into this) why it bothers people so much when someone is gay, lesbian, or bisexual? I mean it doesn't affect you directly, and for the most part if a non-straight person knows you're straight, they aren't going to waste their time hitting on you. Some people still do, I have no clue why but they do. But like I said, give me some reasons why it bothers you so much if it does.
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Since: Apr 10

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#7 Apr 15, 2010
Little Squid wrote:
Ok, so I've been posting for a while now on topix, I just made a profile today and my first post was in a topic about Fugate's Bowling Alley. Most of my posts have been in topics about sexuality, and some people are downright awful about it. First off I am a bisexual female, twenty-seven and still to this day after realizing when I was twelve that I was attracted to females, few people know. I want to know(without bringing religion into this) why it bothers people so much when someone is gay, lesbian, or bisexual? I mean it doesn't affect you directly, and for the most part if a non-straight person knows you're straight, they aren't going to waste their time hitting on you. Some people still do, I have no clue why but they do. But like I said, give me some reasons why it bothers you so much if it does.
you know 90% of ladies have tryed it my ex wife was it was no biggie to me what she did / was

“You'll Put An Eye Out.”

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#8 Apr 15, 2010
Not So wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes, that is true. But when a person who IS homosexual asks your opinion, and it differs completely from what they Want to believe on it, they usually start getting mad because they see you're not gonna willingly accept what they do as a natural act, when it isn't. Two males together can't reproduce a child on their own, neither can two females. So it goes against nature entirely. Life would cease to exist if males were only with males and females only with females. That by itself should be a big red flag to anyone considering becoming a homosexual, and should be telling them, wait a minute, something just isn't right about this.
Hell, the reproductive organs don't even fit together right if you're with the same sex as you are. That should be, Helloooo, Red light! Something isn't right here!
Actually in nature alot of animals have sex with the same sex.Some of us do not want to have children, I do not want to have children. I love who I love, it's not all about reproducing.
Survivor

Jackson, KY

#9 Apr 15, 2010
Not so, based on your reasoning (I use the term loosely), if two people have absolutely no possibility of producing a child they should not be together. That eliminates individuals who are sterile, the elderly the physically incapable,and those who choose not to produce, even some soldiers returning home from war. May want to come up with another reason. That one just doesn't 'fit' know what I mean.
Barnstormer

South Bend, IN

#10 Apr 15, 2010
I am Christian, but I don't hate or judge. I think it's wrong, but I am not a judge or jury. I have had uncles, aunts, cousins, friends, ex-wife who were either gay, or bi-sexual. I can see others perspective, their points and feelings, I do not agree with biggots, hatred, racists, or all religious leaders, but I do believe God, and every word in the bible. I can see why people would be attracted to same sex. It's different, and probally a great thrill. But everybody loves their crime, know what I'm saying? Robert Corimer said in 'The Chocolate Wars','Everybody loves the smell of their own sh"t'. He was right.
unknown

Hazard, KY

#11 Apr 15, 2010
I don't see how this don't "fit" and I don't see how reproduction is really that big of a deal with it anymore...That is why they made things like ADOPTION...As much as you hate to admit it people that are homosexual CAN still have children and still be parents.

“You'll Put An Eye Out.”

Since: Apr 10

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#12 Apr 15, 2010
Anyhow, how does someone's sexuality effect you directly? In my opinion it doesn't, if you want to reproduce, go ahead. Not everyone does, and not everyone has to. People act as if somehow it hinders their everyday living. What other people do on their time, in their lives has no outward effect on you living, and doing what you deem the right thing to do. I mean right now, yes I am in a heterosexual relationship... but if for some reason it ended and I found a female that I really cared for, I'm not going to pass it up because somewhere, someone has a bad day because of it.
Survivor

Pikeville, KY

#13 Apr 16, 2010
Look, homosexuality is inherited, it's a gene which is passed down by one of the parents or grandparents. That is why you will see in a family more than one. You'll often see cousins, siblings, uncle or someone connected by kin homosexual. Its like certain types of physical illnesses, heart problems, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, it runs in families. It is not a sin some people choose to committ. No one choses to be gay, they are born that way. It is not an abomination to God. The abomination comes when people who are not homosexual , through their lust, committ homosexual act, with anyone. If two homosexual people get together and fall in love and plan to committ to each other, O.K. When people want to gang rape like in Sodom and have group sex like in Romans, that does not please God. That is a sin. The people of Sodom and Rome were not homosexual, they were just full of sexual lust and perversion and would have sex with anyone, animals, their mother, father, sister, mother-in-law, etc. that was the problem.There really needs to be some good teaching on this topic, maybe some people could see and quit the hate.
Survivor

Pikeville, KY

#14 Apr 16, 2010
barnstormer,

I really feel for those who fall in love with a homosexual, and sometimes they marry and have children and really try to live the straight life. When they realize they cannot pretend any longer, many people get hurt. I understand spouces get hurt and children. If society would just allow people to be who they are a lot of people could be spared this pain. I myself am a Christian and in this I am in opposite belief that most others especially in this region. I really wish people did not have to be hurt becasue society has an acceptance problem
unknown

Hazard, KY

#15 Apr 16, 2010
Well most of the people that cause this acceptance problem are your people...The "Christian" people.

“You'll Put An Eye Out.”

Since: Apr 10

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#16 Apr 16, 2010
Survivor wrote:
Look, homosexuality is inherited, it's a gene which is passed down by one of the parents or grandparents. That is why you will see in a family more than one. You'll often see cousins, siblings, uncle or someone connected by kin homosexual. Its like certain types of physical illnesses, heart problems, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure, it runs in families. It is not a sin some people choose to committ. No one choses to be gay, they are born that way. It is not an abomination to God. The abomination comes when people who are not homosexual , through their lust, committ homosexual act, with anyone. If two homosexual people get together and fall in love and plan to committ to each other, O.K. When people want to gang rape like in Sodom and have group sex like in Romans, that does not please God. That is a sin. The people of Sodom and Rome were not homosexual, they were just full of sexual lust and perversion and would have sex with anyone, animals, their mother, father, sister, mother-in-law, etc. that was the problem.There really needs to be some good teaching on this topic, maybe some people could see and quit the hate.
That's what I try to tell people, I was born this way, and a few close relatives are the same way, but the way my family is we keep it quiet and be as happy as possible without attracting attention.
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