dead beats who get away with not foll...

dead beats who get away with not following through with court orders

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fedup

Knoxville, TN

#1 Jun 22, 2012
I am sick and tired of dead beat dads who are ordered to pay child support and anything else ordered in a divorce who refuse to pay it and NOTHING gets enforced. Why should I have to go see my attorney again when I have already paid him thousands of dollars??? It's already stated he's not paying it so why can't law enforcement just lock the bastard up? Isn't that what my tax dollars are for??? Makes no sense. In the meantime my kid suffers because I work a full time job and really don't make ends meet but still cant get to help from any of our local government agencies because "I make to much money" which is BS!!! I guess the only way to get help in this county is to be a whore, drug addict who has 15 kids living in the projects with 15 different fathers from 15 different races! Our system is ass backwards!!!!!!!!
Change

United States

#2 Jun 22, 2012
I so agree wit u its time for a change n rc!!!! I take off work to sit n court only to find out 3 hours later he hasnt been served i mean really wth he is n your damn jail for drugs hello how can u not find him or 1 time i went to court he didnt show but was served so the issue a warrant for failure to appear lmao the picked up a year later even though during this time he had been n an out of jail!!! So of course he makes bond an still doesnt show up for court so there is 2 times i had to miss work for nothing.... Then another time he was 4 hrs late for court an nothing happened he is 22,000 behind n childsupport SO I understand where you r coming from its bs all the way around
2forU

United States

#3 Jun 22, 2012
@FEDUP Is this about Billy Freytag again?
fedup

Harriman, TN

#4 Jun 22, 2012
2forU wrote:
@FEDUP Is this about Billy Freytag again?
No, I don't know who that is.....
FYI

Lugoff, SC

#5 Jun 23, 2012
I will tell you what I'm fed up with. I'm fed up with my fat ass ex girlfriend collecting child support, insurance & what ever else she wants me to pay. The bitch won't even let me see my kids, she turn them against me. I understand you women that don't get your child support paid to you but not every Dad is a dead beat, just like not every woman is a child support collecting, manipulative, fat ass bitch that turns your kids against you. Look at both sides of a situation.
Anonymous

Paducah, KY

#6 Jun 23, 2012
I feel bad for dads that pay child support or even some of their support and still can't see their kids, it's gotta be hard on a kid when they can't see their dad because maybe he can't afford to pay full child support. It isn't always about money sometimes it's about power. Do what I want or you can't see the kid? or when a mom completely refuses to let a dad see the kid even when the kid ask to see dad. There are some deadbeats, my son had a deadbeat father. Raised him without him. But people need to be civil especially for the kids, kids pick up on bad stuff.
FYI

Smartt, TN

#7 Jun 23, 2012
azfloppy wrote:
I feel bad for dads that pay child support or even some of their support and still can't see their kids, it's gotta be hard on a kid when they can't see their dad because maybe he can't afford to pay full child support. It isn't always about money sometimes it's about power. Do what I want or you can't see the kid? or when a mom completely refuses to let a dad see the kid even when the kid ask to see dad. There are some deadbeats, my son had a deadbeat father. Raised him without him. But people need to be civil especially for the kids, kids pick up on bad stuff.
That's exactly what I'm talking about. My ex started off making my kids feel sorry for her when I would go to pick them up & when that didn't work she told them she would kill herself. Then she started calling the law on me when I would go to see them because they stopped answering my calls & now they act like they hate me & she won't let me see them. I want to see my kids, I love them & miss them so much. The courts just let her do what she wants to do & there's nothing I can do about it. I HATE MY EX GIRLFRIEND FOR TURNING MY KIDS AGAINST ME & WHEN SHE GETS JUDGED ON JUDGEMENT DAY I HOPE SHE GOES STRAIGHT TO HELL FOR MAKING MY KIDS & MY LIFE HELL!!!!!!
Reggie Love

Oak Ridge, TN

#8 Jun 23, 2012
FYI....We hear you loud and clear and feel your pain.

Who else out there has a son, brother going thru a divorce where they have gone thru similar incidents? False accusations including false 911 reports, brutal attacks on their character risking their jobs and relationships with their children? Failure to comply with court orders by the female and nothing is done in contrast to males being threatened with jail, loss of employment, fines, etc. Who else has had to endure delay after delay by upstanding attorneys all the while racking up unbelievable courts costs and attorneys fees?

This is 2012 and females wanted equality. How is it that they can play this "poor pitiful me" card in today's world and get away with it? I acknowledge that not all cases are this way but it would be an eye opener for most to realize what females get away with today during divorce proceedings. The worst part is that the dicorce courts are still prejudiced in favor of females.
FYI

Smartt, TN

#9 Jun 23, 2012
Reggie Love wrote:
FYI....We hear you loud and clear and feel your pain.
Who else out there has a son, brother going thru a divorce where they have gone thru similar incidents? False accusations including false 911 reports, brutal attacks on their character risking their jobs and relationships with their children? Failure to comply with court orders by the female and nothing is done in contrast to males being threatened with jail, loss of employment, fines, etc. Who else has had to endure delay after delay by upstanding attorneys all the while racking up unbelievable courts costs and attorneys fees?
This is 2012 and females wanted equality. How is it that they can play this "poor pitiful me" card in today's world and get away with it? I acknowledge that not all cases are this way but it would be an eye opener for most to realize what females get away with today during divorce proceedings. The worst part is that the dicorce courts are still prejudiced in favor of females.
I agree totally. The women scream order of protection & get their way. No police reports, no medical records, no nothing but yet it gets granted. I did research online & apparently so did my ex. If someone says they are fearful for their safety & the kids safety boom automatic emergency custody. I have never hit a woman in my life but Judge Wicks was quick to grant it for a damn year with no proof. Her word against mine & she was the abusive one in our miserable relationship. I'm sick of all of the bull shit lies she tells. She shed some fake tears & I had the shit on my record & lost a damn good job. When I couldn't find another job for 6 months she tried to put me in jail for getting behind on my support payments. Crazy, crazy, crazy that bitch is crazy!
Vinny Gambini

Oak Ridge, TN

#10 Jun 23, 2012
In total agreeance. Not all cases proceed in such corrupt manner, but any that do so in Roane County definitely are exceptions to the rule. There are far too many back door dealings in the so-called judicial system that has done nothing other than make a total mockery of the few decent individuals in the justice system that attempt to do the right and just deed for their clients. The model corrupt attorney, the long-time acqaintance judge friend of his/hers and a few of the less than reputable officers of the police force and it is nothing but the makings of a total travesty on behalf of the "justice" system. There needs to be very stiff penalties for parties filing false 911 police reports (AKA-felony charges),there needs to be stiff accountability for police officials/officers that do not do their duty and overlook false 911 reporting,there needs to be very stiff penalties and accountability held for attorneys and judges that prolong court proceedings for personal gains or gains for their friends (AKA-Code of Ethics violations and fines,suspensions,debarrment).
The system is in place, use it. Accountability for your actions would solve many of today's society problems, but then again, that would require the Roane County justice system as a whole to look within itself and correct its own.
Citizens of Roane County, reflect upon what a vote means prior to casting it, personal gains and/or friendships definitely are not worth what it may cost society as a whole. Look at the status of our youth now and think about the individuals (not ALL mind you)in elected offices currently- spectacular examples of what appears to be John Q. Publics confidants.
Roane County, pathetic at best.
LOLATU

United States

#11 Jun 23, 2012
I do feel sorry for the men who pays his child support and gets treated like crap.(IM A WOMAN) And I have never kept my kids from seeing their dad. Mine are 4-6 boy and girl. If they want to call their dad I dial the # and let them talk to him. Im NOT on welfare, foodstamps or AFDC. I might be 1 of the lucky ones that doesnt have to depend on anyones help. We go to church every sunday and the play their sports. With me doing this for my kids, Shows the Morels and Values. Id be lieing if I said I didnt need his full child support. But he does what he can and give what he can. I work my butt of at 2 40 hours a week to give them what they need. YES my parents helps me watch them, but I tuck them in bed every night.
So I guess what im trying to say is.... Mother's dont keep your kids fathers away from them. Because when they get older you dont want them to hate you. And dont talk bad to the kids about their father's. If you cant set down alone with the father and be adults about the issue you have, Then try it. Make things right for the kids. Or 1 day you will be sorry that you didnt. It was like beating my head againt the wall when this started but we grew up because OF OUR KIDS.
tasha

United States

#12 Jun 24, 2012
A woman with 5 kids, custody of not one, and she has not paid a dime in child support, yet she is still running the roads and making babies. You tell me who the courts are easier on. But I will tell you right now that instead of complaning about it the best thing to do is simply raise your kid(s). Whether we are talking about a dead beat dad or mom, complaning won't get us no where. If one parent isn't there because of being worthless so be it. When your kid(s) are old enough and ask questions tell them the truth.

As for the dads who kids have turned aganist you, one day you will get to tell them the truth and when that day comes they will end up resenting their mother for all she did.
Robin

United States

#13 Jun 24, 2012
You can blame judge Mike Davis. He will not rule against the mother. He is a sorry excuse for a man and will be,in jail one day,i'm sure he's getting something from all these so called mothers.
Guess

White House, TN

#14 Jun 24, 2012
Let me guess, Ashley Fetters? Isn't she like the top baby maker of Roane County? She need's to be court ordered to birth control and condoms so that she won't keep spreading her nasty STD's.
FYI

United States

#15 Jun 24, 2012
Robin wrote:
You can blame judge Mike Davis. He will not rule against the mother. He is a sorry excuse for a man and will be,in jail one day,i'm sure he's getting something from all these so called mothers.
Judge Jeff Wicks is worse than Mike Davis. He hates men but just wait until he goes to jail after driving home drunk one night from the Rockwood Golf Course. I will laugh my ass of when that happens.
Birth Control

Lubbock, TX

#16 Jun 25, 2012
Birth Control! What a concept! Use it and you all wouldn't have these child support problems whatever side of the fence you are on. You have no one but yourselves to blame, yet your kids are the ones suffering the most. Irresponsible people want to blame everyone else for being victims of the system. Keep yourself out of the corrupt system you are referring to and you won't be a victim of it. Seems pretty simple to me. If it too late for that, I wonder if you continue to have sex w/o birth control?

Some people never learn, but they have no problem gripping about everyone's else's bad and unchanged behavior.
Birth Control

Lubbock, TX

#17 Jun 25, 2012
I heard about one lady that was jailed in RC for not paying child support. She died in jail. A very young mother, and now her kids have no mother. So pay your child support people! It could be a matter of life and death. I don't know why she was jailed when everyone on here says that they don't jail people for not paying child support. I believe they do.
FYI

Knoxville, TN

#18 Jun 25, 2012
Birth Control wrote:
I heard about one lady that was jailed in RC for not paying child support. She died in jail. A very young mother, and now her kids have no mother. So pay your child support people! It could be a matter of life and death. I don't know why she was jailed when everyone on here says that they don't jail people for not paying child support. I believe they do.
They do put people in jail for not paying child support, they also suspend your driving license.
fedup

Harriman, TN

#19 Jun 25, 2012
Let me tell you a little about me: I do work a full time job. I do not get help from anyone!!!!!!! I pay my own way in life. I just happened to get a divorce from a man who use to be a upstanding person. He developed an uncontrollable drinking problem and has not paid a dime in child support in over 3 years. I believe I am entitled to be pissed at the system cause they sure as hell don't help the people who try to help themselves and make it on your own. So for all you quick to judge topic junkies, you can kiss my ass! I guess I would get help if I quit my job and depended solely on the government for housing, insurance, food, and a cell phone! A damn cell phone? If you are on government assistance why in the hell do you need a cell phone but most importantly, why is the government paying for you to have one??? That's why I am FEDUP!!!!!!!!!
FYI

Knoxville, TN

#20 Jun 25, 2012
fedup wrote:
Let me tell you a little about me: I do work a full time job. I do not get help from anyone!!!!!!! I pay my own way in life. I just happened to get a divorce from a man who use to be a upstanding person. He developed an uncontrollable drinking problem and has not paid a dime in child support in over 3 years. I believe I am entitled to be pissed at the system cause they sure as hell don't help the people who try to help themselves and make it on your own. So for all you quick to judge topic junkies, you can kiss my ass! I guess I would get help if I quit my job and depended solely on the government for housing, insurance, food, and a cell phone! A damn cell phone? If you are on government assistance why in the hell do you need a cell phone but most importantly, why is the government paying for you to have one??? That's why I am FEDUP!!!!!!!!!
I am not speaking badly of you, I am speaking the truth about my ex & I too am Fed Up. I agree that both parents should contribute to their children. All I am fed up with is not getting to see my kids. I feel that any parent that is ordered to pay child support should want to & not consider it a burden, my kids are a blessing but my ex is a curse. I JUST MISS MY KIDS! I AM NOT A DEAD BEAT DAD, I AM A DAMN GOOD DAD IF MY EX WOULD STOP MANIPULATING MINE & MY KIDS RELATIONSHIP JUST BECAUSE I LEFT HER & LATER ON GOT MARRIED TO A GOOD WOMAN! I HOPE YOU CAN UNDERSTAND THAT BUT IF YOU DON'T THAT IS NOT MY PROBLEM!

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