Disgusted

Murfreesboro, TN

#86 Aug 24, 2010
Just like reader, I've followed this thread for quite a while now. It breaks my heart that people will claim to know Christ (and his love, forgiveness, mercy, patience, and grace) in one breath, and completely murder someone else with their words in the next sentence. I know the situation is still fresh, and people are still in pain and mourning, but "vengeance is mine, says THE LORD" means that God will take care of any punishment that might be deserved. It doesn't however mean that we should use harsh words that would push me to suicide if people were speaking them about me!

I'm a pastor, and it scares me to death to think that the faith I've given my life for has become nothing more than "Holy ammunition" when we need to pull it out of our holster to shoot someone else for their sins. Jesus had a story similar to that one time, it was something to do with "he without sin, throw the first stone."

But I understand it's a grieving process, so I BEG you that claim Christ and HIS RIGHTEOUSNESS to mourn the loss of your friend, and focus on who he was, and not focus on murdering someone else with your words.

I've given my life to try to be an example to a lost world who keep seeing "Christians" completely deny Christ and everything He stood for.

Christianity is more than Sunday, Christmas, and Easter. I encourage you all to investigate the topic of righteousness. And check out Proverbs, it gives a list of things that God HATES. I'm pretty sure this would qualify.
saddened

United States

#87 Aug 25, 2010
Reader and Disgusted...I have made quite a few post on here and have kept quite for some time now but have been keeping up just to see how many of Brittany's so called friends would open their eyes and see what she has done and gave them all a chance to voice their opionions.
I understand that there is a God or higher power or whatever it is people want to believe in. You people think Brittany deserves to be left alone and be forgiven?? Well do you have any idea what she is and what she did and is doing to a wonderful person and family!! Disgusted you say your a preacher and this thing about killing someone because of words..Well one thing is sure where were you when she was killing Charlie with her words and actions..It kinda amazes me that you chose to use the name disgusted being a minister and all. I would have thought you would have used something different. Huh why is it a man or woman can use the name Disgusted and claim to be a person of God and not use a name more fitting to your profession? Maybe what you and Reader are reading is not what you think it should be but I personally think everyone one has a choice whether it be for the good or bad. You 2 seem to think that Brittany should be forgiven. Well if that is the case then I can assure you whatever Charlie's friends and family say and post will surely be forgiven by God or their higher power because they didn't kill him by their words or actions. You should be addressing the TURNER CLAN AND BRITTANY for their actions not the people on here that do care and love. I have been involved with people that call themselves Christians and believe me I have found them to be more deceitful and liars more than anyone I come across. Just because you are repeating the Bible on here doesn't mean that you have all the answers cause apparently nobody on this earth does. Everyone has to deal with Charlie's death anyway they can be it right or wrong in order to even get on with their lives. IF that means trashing Brittany Turner and telling their side to this story so be it. As you said God will forgive them so you say.Go back and read the post made by Charlie's Mother and Father and then you tell me that she doesn't deserve everything that anyone can throw her way..As for as being concerned about words making her or anyone else commit suicide think about that one. Isn't that what she did to Charlie?? Disgusted if you are a pastor I personally think the name you chose is not fitting for a man of the cloth!! As for Reader keep reading on because East Tenn isn't through yet.BRITTANY TURNER AND FAMILY MAY YOU BURN IN HELL
saddened

United States

#88 Aug 25, 2010
By the way do you think for one min she is asking God for him to forgive her???Not hardly. She gets on a post and talks about having a blast at the lake with family and friends and living it up and having a good time. Maybe she should stop and think where Mr. Stout found his son. I believe it was at the lake. How in the hell can you go to the lake and brag about having the time of your life. I would go crazy knowing that is where my husband left this world and it was all because of her. Yeah she is loving life and taking it one day at a time cause she is nothing but white trash and that is all she has ever known and will ever know. But I can assure you this what comes around goes around and one day she will find somebody that will do to her what she did to Charlie..She is a tramp and a whore and her day will come.
charlies friend

AOL

#89 Aug 25, 2010
*********REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND**********
CHARLIE,i know you was not a judge mental person, and you knew the GOD above was the one that was to pass judgement, when it was to be passed. i only pray that, now that you are in HEAVEN, you will place your hands out and touch the friends that has so much hate in them, so that they understand, that the evil toung,and the evil actions from your X-wife is what took you from us. i know you didn't have this much hate in your heart, and you would not want someone else to have so much in theirs. i only pray, you bring peace to them. and let them mourn you the love for you in their heart.

charlie, you use to say, that when a dog was down, it seemed that eveyone would kick it to death,in stead of helping it... i know what you are doing, you are praying for peace in eveyones heart. and just wanting everyone to understand that you are at peace and you are very happy now, no more evil toung and no more evil actions to hurt you.

love and miss you, i will see you some sweet day,
my friend.
reader

Knoxville, TN

#90 Aug 25, 2010
I wouldn't blame Brittany one bit for not anything anything to do with Christ after reading some of thsi stuff. Why should she? So much hate and evil wishes for her from folks that appear to claim Christ. Jesus teaches that he is the ultimate judge and vengence is His. As Christians we are commanded to love everyone, it's not an option. To hate Brittany will in no way aid in healing for the Stouts or anyone else. Mrs. Stout and Charlie's sister appear to have the strongest and closest walk with the Lord. So if it makes the others feel better to slam Brittany for the rest of her life you are only hurting yourselves, she appaers to care less. I pray that the Holy Spirit will draw Brittany to Himself, that is the only way to Jesus. If we as Christians could show her some love and forgiveness it would do wonders to all involved. You guys can damn her to hell till you turn blue but it aint up to you where she spends eternity, God is full of grace and mercy and lets not be quilty of murder by our words.
saddened

United States

#91 Aug 25, 2010
To Reader? Do you think one second that Brittany will ever feel any remorse whatsoever for the things she did to Charlie?? No I think not!! What about Mr. Stout the one that found his son on that Lake in the conditiion he was in?? Do you not think that he doesnt have a strong and and close walk with the Lord??? Huh why don't we ask him and let us see if he is willing to forgive and forget that awful day he lost his son because of Brittany?? Maybe we are all wrong and this wasn't about Brittany at all but I am curious to hear what Mr and Mrs Stout and his sister have to say on the matter. If they would like for this to stop then please let everyone know and I am sure it will stop immediately...As for as Brittany goes and forgiving her and thinking she will accept the God and beg for forgiveness I think you are badly mistaken. But why hasn't she been on here and let us hear her side of why Charlie took his life?? As for as today goes I think I will just wait and see what happens and let Charlie's family make the decision as to what we all should do?? FORGIVE BRITTANY AND HOPE SHE FINDS GOD AND ASK HIM FOR FORGIVNESS?? INTERESTING TO SEE HOW THAT OUTCOME WILL BE!!!
reader wrote:
I wouldn't blame Brittany one bit for not anything anything to do with Christ after reading some of thsi stuff. Why should she? So much hate and evil wishes for her from folks that appear to claim Christ. Jesus teaches that he is the ultimate judge and vengence is His. As Christians we are commanded to love everyone, it's not an option. To hate Brittany will in no way aid in healing for the Stouts or anyone else. Mrs. Stout and Charlie's sister appear to have the strongest and closest walk with the Lord. So if it makes the others feel better to slam Brittany for the rest of her life you are only hurting yourselves, she appaers to care less. I pray that the Holy Spirit will draw Brittany to Himself, that is the only way to Jesus. If we as Christians could show her some love and forgiveness it would do wonders to all involved. You guys can damn her to hell till you turn blue but it aint up to you where she spends eternity, God is full of grace and mercy and lets not be quilty of murder by our words.
saddened

United States

#92 Aug 25, 2010
On one last note!! God does understand people can have hatred in their hearts at times. That is why he is a forgiving God!! I think we all ask God to forgive us for our actions and hatred at times. My understanding of God is ASK FOR HIM FOR FORGIVENESS AND YOU SHALL RECIEVE.WE ALL KNOW WHEN THAT TIME WILL COME.
charlies uncle pee

AOL

#93 Aug 25, 2010
Thanks to all, but please this site was to remember my charlie, i have been watching it, and yes i pray changs can be made to bring it back to the memory of charlie, and not so much hate for the LOST. we all as christians know that the only thing to do as true christians is to bough down on our knees and pray very hard for the lost to fine the loving christ, that my charlie knew and is with.

thanks to all,
charlies uncle
pjoe
reader

Knoxville, TN

#94 Aug 25, 2010
Sorry to hi-jack this forum Uncle Pee,you are a wise man and I love your heart. saddened, I wasn't insinuating Mr. Stout's walk with the Lord is not close. But I will say a close walk oozes with forgiveness. Though this tragedy will never be forgotten, forgiveness is vital. Jesus said we must forgive: Matthew 6:14-16
For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
reader

Knoxville, TN

#95 Aug 25, 2010
Uncle Pee, and saddened I apologize for upsetting you , please forgive me if you can, this is my last post. God bless each of you and I pray for healing during this horrific time.
LivinInHarriman

United States

#96 Aug 25, 2010
Brittany Turner is nothing more than white trash. She lived near me until the house "mysteriously" burnt to the ground. Im quite sure it burnt due to drugs. They are all on something. And none of them amount to anything. What a waste of air! The house she lived in with Charlie is now empty. After his death her mom and brother and Lord knows who all were living in it. I saw her at a funeral last night wearing the suit her former in-laws bought for her to wear to Charlies funeral. And she said its so hard every day. And as for filing for disability./.....its called LAZY for all of them.
slspwhh

Paducah, KY

#97 Aug 27, 2010
This is what Charlie Stout stands 4 2 me.

C ompassionate
H onest
A mazing
R eliable
L oving
I ndependent
E nduring

S weet
T ruthful
O bedient
U nselfish
T op-notch

So when U think of Charlie see if u don't agree with me. I love and miss u Charlie.
charliesmom

Hendersonville, TN

#98 Aug 27, 2010
slspwhh: I love this thank you!!!
hates a ho like brittany

Elizabethtown, KY

#99 Aug 29, 2010
A Friend wrote:
For everyone's information, I personally heard Brittany say last year that she was told by doctors that she could not have any kids. So yes, Charlie was trying to do the right thing when he heard he was suppose to be a daddy and YES, she did not pull the trigger physically, but rather mentally. There was never a miscarriage or an abortion, at least not in my mind ...To be claiming that she can't have kids one day then pregnant the next, yea that was just a simple ploy to con him into marrying her.
God, how I hope that stupid cow really CAN'T have children. I wouldn't wish her on any kid. She should take her sorry a$$ back to South Carolina. We don't want her here.
AuntNeeli

Antioch, TN

#100 Aug 29, 2010
Charlie Stout, everyday I think of your sweet face and the cute things you did and said while growing up. I'm so happy you were and still are part of my life. I love you and miss you very much.
SaveAPlace

Smartt, TN

#101 Sep 1, 2010
Charlie has such a wonderful family... a kind, loving mother, a warm father, a beautiful sister, a cute as a button neice, and alot of other family and friends who are filled with love because he loved them. I look at them today and they are such an inspiration!! I know that they come in here sometimes and read what people write to or about Charlie so that they can just remember who he was to all of us.

Anyone who knew Charlie loved him. Anyone who was around him was laughing and smiling. We were ALL touched by this amazing human being.

The best really do die young and when I think of the best, I think of Charlie "Country Boy" Stout.

Every single day I pray for everyone affected by this tragedy, even those I feel should be judged for their behavior. Though I have never met them, I pray for Kay and Chuck daily and keep up with them via Facebook. Their life is now a testimony of how to deal with a tragedy with dignity and respect. Like I said before, it is nothing short of inspiring. So, although we share the common bond of being touched by Charlie, please know that your lives are shining a light to inspire others ... we see you all :)

Rest in peace you wonderful man. Save a place for us and we'll be there soon...
charliesdad

Hendersonville, TN

#102 Sep 1, 2010
SaveAPlace thank you for your kind words yes Charlie was a chip off the block i'm very proud of him and the way that he took care of people i hurt every second of every day and long to see his smiling face thank you again chuck
charlies friend

AOL

#103 Sep 11, 2010
REST IN PEACE MY FRIEND

got up this morning with you on my mine, i am so blessed to have a friend like you man, i can not and will not say had a friend like you, because to me you are still here, as long as we keep happy memories going of you man. keep a close hand on all of us left here on earth my friend, and guide us, so the one beautiful day we will see each other again. we can sit back and chatt about all the fun on the lake, camping, and the boat, and all the bomfires. i so bad miss them man. it is very quite over there, when i pass by with the boat, i alwaays have to look, and remember all the good times man we had there.

rest in peace, see ya, one great day my friend
SaveAPlace

Smartt, TN

#104 Sep 12, 2010
Charlie, I really need you today, just let the breeze blow one time so I can feel you. I could use someone to talk to.
charliesdad

Hendersonville, TN

#105 Sep 12, 2010
save a place if you ever need someone to talk to i'm here' number is in book' be glad to talk to you chuck

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