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Curious Girl

Nerinx, KY

#1 Jan 22, 2013
To all Men and Women who read this i would like to ask each of you a question and please keep it real with a yes or no.if you want to add an Explanation as to why you chose the answer you did thats fine. but don't make accusations towards others, Okay Q. if your Spouse or significant other was cheating on you would you want to know?.
now remember just a yes or no, and no one start telling billy is cheating with molly, this is not why i ask this.i only ask out of sheer curiosity of how many really would want to know.
howdy

Winchester, KY

#2 Jan 22, 2013
Curious Girl wrote:
To all Men and Women who read this i would like to ask each of you a question and please keep it real with a yes or no.if you want to add an Explanation as to why you chose the answer you did thats fine. but don't make accusations towards others, Okay Q. if your Spouse or significant other was cheating on you would you want to know?.
now remember just a yes or no, and no one start telling billy is cheating with molly, this is not why i ask this.i only ask out of sheer curiosity of how many really would want to know.
I guess it would depend on how long you have been with someone
howdy

Winchester, KY

#3 Jan 22, 2013
Or how much you cared. Lol
Lol

Baxter, KY

#4 Jan 22, 2013
Gonna go with how much u care. If ur just with them for money or such, no! But if you care, for sure! It won't change anything if u live someone though, just cause hurt for nothing.
disagree

Jonesville, VA

#5 Jan 22, 2013
Lol wrote:
Gonna go with how much u care. But if you care, for sure! It won't change anything if u live someone though, just cause hurt for nothing.
Yes I would want to know. Hopefully I would make a wiser choice the second time around...if I decided to get hitched again. Or at least enjoy the single life.
ummmm

Somerset, KY

#6 Jan 22, 2013
disagree wrote:
<quoted text>Yes I would want to know. Hopefully I would make a wiser choice the second time around...if I decided to get hitched again. Or at least enjoy the single life.
No! Too much pain, hurts self esteem, sometimes beyond repair!
disagree

Jonesville, VA

#7 Jan 22, 2013
ummmm wrote:
<quoted text>
No! Too much pain, hurts self esteem, sometimes beyond repair!
I'd recover. That's why my husband doesn't do it.
Curious Girl

Nerinx, KY

#8 Jan 22, 2013
While i appreciate and respect the opinions of those who have posted. i somewhat agree with ummmm i think it would be to much pain. but i don't think it would hurt my self esteem,i think i would look down on my Husband in a degrading way, but then on the other hand i can agree somewhat with Disagree i think i would want to know because i don't think i would want to be in the dark and have someone know they got one over on me, and i think i would deserve the right to make the choice if i wanted to stay in the relationship or move on and start a new life and try to maker wiser choices
Yeah

Baxter, KY

#9 Jan 22, 2013
I've been used and cheated on. I'm not a bad looking woman, have much to offer a man, but somehow I wasn't enough and it's been hard to move on. Especially considering the woman he's treating like gold is Harlan trash, and I'm not. I really don't understand men. I was close to psych ward crazy when I found out. And it's been a month and still isn't easier knowing the man I loved adored highly respected and trusted is with trash and not thinking twice about me!
Curious Girl

Nerinx, KY

#10 Jan 22, 2013
Yeah wrote:
I've been used and cheated on. I'm not a bad looking woman, have much to offer a man, but somehow I wasn't enough and it's been hard to move on. Especially considering the woman he's treating like gold is Harlan trash, and I'm not. I really don't understand men. I was close to psych ward crazy when I found out. And it's been a month and still isn't easier knowing the man I loved adored highly respected and trusted is with trash and not thinking twice about me!
sorry to hear you have had that experience,I hope things begin to look up for you.

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