husbands cheating
well

Hondo, TX

#21 Nov 15, 2012
truth wrote:
Maybe they want to hear some affection ever now and then.. like I love you ..OR things that they use to hear when they were going with each other. What happens to a marriage where theres no communication? They are just living in the same house hold. that goes for the woman cheating also.. SOmetimes they want to feel like they are loved . especailly when you never hear it. I am talkin from a womans point of view. When all you do is cook, clean house , and take care of the kids and the man comes home and sits in front of the tv till bed time. AND never talks to his wife.
well, now we know who the cheater is
well

Hondo, TX

#22 Nov 15, 2012
truth wrote:
Maybe they want to hear some affection ever now and then.. like I love you ..OR things that they use to hear when they were going with each other. What happens to a marriage where theres no communication? They are just living in the same house hold. that goes for the woman cheating also.. SOmetimes they want to feel like they are loved . especailly when you never hear it. I am talkin from a womans point of view. When all you do is cook, clean house , and take care of the kids and the man comes home and sits in front of the tv till bed time. AND never talks to his wife.
well, now we know who the cheater is.
walked in your shoes

Versailles, KY

#23 Nov 15, 2012
married woman wrote:
If a man has a good woman at home why would he cheat on her
First of all, if you don't know the Lord as your savior, seek His spirit, and forgiveness. Then you can pray for your husband and yourself. Ask God to renew your love for each other, pray for wisdom and understanding concerning your marriage. Sometimes, jobs, kids, housecleaning all get in the way of that special relationship only a man and woman can have together when they get married. Don't question, blame, or accuse your husband, listen to him, his words and body language. If you really think he is going out on you, stand back and take a deep breath, because the hurt goes deep into your soul. But God can heal that hurt, and lift you above the whole thing. Don't make any decision without praying and asking God's will for your life and your children. If you are living for the Lord, there is nothing that goes on in your life that He does not know about already. He will prepare a way for you, provide for you and your children. But first, talk to the Lord, then your husband, and pray, pray and pray. Good luck, and I hope I have helped you in some way.
Ex Mrs Bill Holliman

Lebanon, KY

#24 Nov 15, 2012
His cheating turned out to be the best thing for me. I am now single, drawing half of his retirement, happier than I've been in years and no longer have to put up with him. He is with the woman he cheated with and who he cheats on, no house, contact with only two of his children and no contact with his grandchildren. So for all of you out there who have been cheated on, sometimes it can be a good life changing thing.
disagree

Jonesville, VA

#25 Nov 16, 2012
Ex Mrs Bill Holliman wrote:
His cheating turned out to be the best thing for me. I am now single, drawing half of his retirement, happier than I've been in years and no longer have to put up with him. He is with the woman he cheated with and who he cheats on, no house, contact with only two of his children and no contact with his grandchildren. So for all of you out there who have been cheated on, sometimes it can be a good life changing thing.
Good for you! I really mean that. Enjoy yourself.
Ex Mrs Holliman

Richmond, KY

#26 Nov 16, 2012
disagree wrote:
<quoted text>Good for you! I really mean that. Enjoy yourself.
Thank you. It was hard at first but I finally realized how much better off I am and happier.
Prenup

Tazewell, TN

#27 Nov 16, 2012
This is why guys need prenups. All women care about is getting that 50% they don't earn at all. Ain't life a bitch just life the ex of Bill holiman
Ex Mrs Holliman

Richmond, KY

#28 Nov 16, 2012
Prenup wrote:
This is why guys need prenups. All women care about is getting that 50% they don't earn at all. Ain't life a bitch just life the ex of Bill holiman
You should get the whole story. We married when I was 16 and he was 22. We have 4 children. I also worked outside the home and brought in income. After 35 years I found out he was seeing a whore, tried to lie his way out, and when I no longer would live with him I let his whore know he was free. He blamed me for getting "stuck" with her! After 4 long years he finally signed divorce papers so I could be free. KY law required the division of his retirement, not me. He now lives with a woman young enough to be his daughter, deals with her problems (drugs, stealing, selling,) and blames me for the way his life has gone down hill.
really?

Winchester, KY

#29 Nov 16, 2012
Prenup wrote:
This is why guys need prenups. All women care about is getting that 50% they don't earn at all. Ain't life a bitch just life the ex of Bill holiman
Not all women are after 50%. I make more money than my husband does. I have always made more than him. If he cheats I will get my share though and the same would go for me if I done it. The lesson is, don't fucking cheat. It's not nice.
lol

London, KY

#30 Nov 16, 2012
Jimmy Rants wrote:
<quoted text>
Because he is a scumbag/bottom feeder to say the least.
How would you know anything about a man? Why did you wife leave your sorry ass? I guess she found one that gets hard!
seen them out

Campbellsville, KY

#31 Nov 16, 2012
kelly hall and lori mcknight
Crazy

London, KY

#32 Nov 17, 2012
I bet the person talking about multiple wives doesn't even work to support one woman...lol. Pretty sure I know who this is because I've seen this same stuff posted on FB. By the way, you have to have a marriage license in the sate of Ky to be married. Pretty sure you're not married to the first one, so if you could convince another to fall for you, it would really be called multiple shacking.
Nope

Corbin, KY

#33 Nov 18, 2012
Sorry but I am not a man : ) but good for the man who is posting those things. It takes courage for someone to stand up for whats right even when they know they will be persecuted for it. And I couldn't care less if the state of Kentucky says someone is married or not. I don't see in the bible that you need the state to say that you are married to someone. It doesn't work that way.
Crazy

London, KY

#34 Nov 18, 2012
Male or female, I still know who you are. Has he has got you believing that you are married to him in God's eyes. The Bible says that you are supposed to submit to the governing authorities. That means you are disobeying God when you disobey the laws of government. It "does" work that way even if you don't like it. You are shacking up, plain and simple. I feel sorry for you, you are so blind that you are being led straight to hell and don't even know it.
To crazy

Corbin, KY

#35 Nov 18, 2012
Just wanted to say to the last poster that the mark of the beast law will be a LAW. I don't know about anyone else here but you best believe I am going to brake that law.
Cowboy

Wright, WY

#36 Nov 20, 2012
Myth wrote:
... The show with the man and his wives is just that, a show. They are going for the most drama possible, because that's what sells. Happiness does not make money. Those people are mormon ...
Those TV people are NOT Mormon. The husband was raised Mormon but when he became polygamous, he was excommunicated. That church did advocate polygamy when the Gov of Missouri issued an extermination order in 1837 directing that the killing of a Mormon was not murder or any crime at all. A lot of widows and orphans needed husbands and dads. Polygamy was preferable to starvation for the survivors. Polygamy was banned by the church over 120 years ago.
stargazer

Parksville, KY

#37 Nov 20, 2012
WOMEN LOVE ABUSE. THEY LOVE IT WHEN YOU BEAT THEM,LIE TO THEM,USE THEM,OR CHEAT ON THEM. I HAVE DONE SOME RESEARCH INTO THIS. SO ALL OF THIS IS TRUE. IF YOU ARE A DECENT AND GOOD MAN,WOMEN DON'T WANT YOU OR EVEN BETTER THEY WILL CHEAT OR LEAVE YOU FOR A LOSER. THAT'S MY PROBLEM I DON'T GIVE A GIRL A CHRIS BROWN. NEXT TIME HOWEVER WILL BE DIFFENT. I AM GONNA TO BE THE LOSER SHE ALWAYS DREAMED OF.
Opinion

Harlan, KY

#38 Nov 22, 2012
We where not meant to be monogamous. Males mature slower than females, females reach their sexual peak later than men. The problem is the taboo of relationship one man one woman is what we are taught and if that's what you desire that's fine, but many people need an emotional relationship with occasional sex as well as a home relationship someone to share the daily chores, kids, bills, etc. we tend to separate emotionally from the person we share our daily lives with. Alot of families and marriages could be saved if the parties involved where completely honest about their happiness and needs and have an open mind of course about a solution.
soo

Hyden, KY

#39 Nov 22, 2012
lets sum ever thing up,a cheater never wins .and a winner never cheats,and all that shines is not always gold.just fools gold. ok how did i do?..
youuu

Hyden, KY

#40 Nov 22, 2012
soo wrote:
lets sum ever thing up,a cheater never wins .and a winner never cheats,and all that shines is not always gold.just fools gold. ok how did i do?..
did good baby..

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