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need help

Jackson, KY

#1 Feb 29, 2012
I need know the best way for a father to get full custody of their child when the mother never and I mean literally never has the child?
fred

Somerset, KY

#2 Feb 29, 2012
need help wrote:
I need know the best way for a father to get full custody of their child when the mother never and I mean literally never has the child?
lawyer!
Well

Georgetown, KY

#3 Mar 1, 2012
Maybe the child shouldn't be with you either since your on Topix asking for advice. You should have enough common sense to know that the first step is to pick up the phone and call a lawyer and ask questions.
meeeeeeeeeee

London, KY

#4 Mar 1, 2012
Well wrote:
Maybe the child shouldn't be with you either since your on Topix asking for advice. You should have enough common sense to know that the first step is to pick up the phone and call a lawyer and ask questions.
maybe he was just needing a opinion and u need to quit being a smart a__, you probally need to get a lawyer and let social services no if the child is not being taken care of.
I know

United States

#5 Mar 1, 2012
Social Services won't do anything as long as the BASIC needs are being met. As far as a lawyer...good luck because most lawyers don't want to take up a child custody case. KY is a mom state and it's very very hard to take custody from the mother.
LoveMyMiner

Anderson, SC

#6 Mar 1, 2012
I know of cases where the dad has custody I wouldn't listen to anybody but a lawyer though I'm sure if you have a case a lawyer would be happy to take it. But make sure that if you work you have childcare lined up insurance safe/clean place to live and sufficient income to support. Child support should be utd also so the mother can't turn the case around on you... Good luck!
need help

Manchester, KY

#7 Mar 1, 2012
Well wrote:
Maybe the child shouldn't be with you either since your on Topix asking for advice. You should have enough common sense to know that the first step is to pick up the phone and call a lawyer and ask questions.
Maybe u don't know what u are talking about. I have already been to court once, but they want me to prove it. Okay that's not so easy to prove that the mother never has the child. I have done somethings and have plans on going back to court, but some tell me that the this wont work in court and you can't use this. I was just wanting some advice on how to prove that the mother never has the child. I would love to have more time with my baby but all I am aloud is every other weekend and 2 hours every other Thursday. The mother has the rest of the time and during her time doesn't keep the child. It makes me sick to think that she could just pass it around like candy. I am missing everything and yet she has the chance to see it all and doesn't want that chance. I just don't see it as right. Yea it would be okay to let the family spend time with the child to, but we had the baby and I feel that it is only right that one of us take care of it. If she doesn't want to why not give me that chance.
need help

Manchester, KY

#8 Mar 1, 2012
Okay I guess that I should have said what is the best way to prove that the mother doesn't keep the child. I have talked to many lawyers and they want proof. I do keep a book with everytime I see my child out who it is with, everytime I call and it's not home, and when I see her out without the baby, but will this kind of stuff help? My point is if she don't want the kid I do! I don't want her to be passed around everywhere.
Jessie

Clarksville, TN

#9 Mar 2, 2012
Get a good lawyer. It will be worth it for you and your child. It will cost you some money, but anything worth having usually comes at a price. This site used to be a place to come to for things like this. But in the past few years it has turned into a gossip page that does nothing but slander people. Sorry. People use it as an outlet so say ugly hurtful things to others and not deal with the consequences of people knowing who they are...
I know

United States

#10 Mar 2, 2012
Not sure if it would help but you could hire a private detective if there is one in that area. This way it is a third parties point of view. I know exactly what your going through. My kids mother did the same thing. Kids would come home from school and away she went. Ultimately it hurts the kids. My oldest would often say things that made my heart break. Now my kids think this is the way it is supposed to be. I make the most I can whenever I have them but their mom constantly calls and it makes them and me miserable (I usually turn all phones off). I've talked to her and it goes in one ear and out of the other. There was nothing I could do as I got the same thing from lawyers and child services. It's really a shame. I could write a book about the stupidity that the kids and I have went through. Good luck as the law is not on your side.
bambam

Harlan, KY

#11 Mar 2, 2012
Yep the laws are set up for the mother even though judges and lawyers will tell you its equal. Had a lawyer tell me that I could catch my xwife in bed with five at one time, a needle in her arm, and snorting coke and they would not remove the child as long as she maintained a caring bond with the child. But this was in Tn.don't know about Ky.laws
LoveMyMiner

Anderson, SC

#12 Mar 2, 2012
Who is keeping the child? Can't you get statements from these ppl maybe they would be more loyal to the welfare of the kids than to the mother and give you a statement, I would get a phone or digital camera that can time stamp pictures and take pictures everytime you see the baby or mother not together. Surely there is some way to prove this.
a_friend

Harlan, KY

#13 Mar 2, 2012
Get someone to video her so that is shows she never has her child with her. And I know it works know a guy who got his two kids this exact way, and when the mother appealed the courts decision she lost the second time around as well. So try it for your case.
need help

Clay City, KY

#14 Mar 2, 2012
a_friend wrote:
Get someone to video her so that is shows she never has her child with her. And I know it works know a guy who got his two kids this exact way, and when the mother appealed the courts decision she lost the second time around as well. So try it for your case.
Thanks I have been wanting to try this, but all I hear is video will not work in the courtroom, but after a day like I had today I will try anything.
need help

Clay City, KY

#15 Mar 2, 2012
LoveMyMiner wrote:
Who is keeping the child? Can't you get statements from these ppl maybe they would be more loyal to the welfare of the kids than to the mother and give you a statement, I would get a phone or digital camera that can time stamp pictures and take pictures everytime you see the baby or mother not together. Surely there is some way to prove this.
I could try that if it wasn't all her family that keeps her 24/7. I am to the point I have begged her to take keep the child because after all she does belong to us and not the rest of the family. I mean I don't care for the family to see her I just think she should have some responsibility or let me do it if she's not going to. Also the mother has gotten a few DUID'S so hopefully this will help as well.
idkbutneedhelp2

London, KY

#16 Mar 3, 2012
i don't know how to go by doing it but how do you take a child from the mother if she done gave her other two kids away?
well

London, KY

#17 Mar 3, 2012
idk how to help when i have the same problem but my baby mama has done gave her other two kids away how do i get my kid if she done gave her rights away from the other two kids?
help

London, KY

#18 Mar 3, 2012
i have the same problem but how do i get my child from a mother who has already had two other kids she gave away?
saywhat

Harlan, KY

#19 Mar 3, 2012
help wrote:
i have the same problem but how do i get my child from a mother who has already had two other kids she gave away?
If you are the father she can't give away the child.
LoveMyMiner

Anderson, SC

#20 Mar 3, 2012
need help wrote:
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I could try that if it wasn't all her family that keeps her 24/7. I am to the point I have begged her to take keep the child because after all she does belong to us and not the rest of the family. I mean I don't care for the family to see her I just think she should have some responsibility or let me do it if she's not going to. Also the mother has gotten a few DUID'S so hopefully this will help as well.
yeah that's what I figured, but would definitely ask a lawyer about a PI I just don't know what they want as proof if they don't take videos, maybe follow her and see if she is going to certain stores etc often and ask those ppl for a statement saying they see her a lot without the kid but they would have to agree to testify also if it went to court they can't take statements as the main evidence I think (judge Judy) lol but I would get as many independent witnesses as possible the dui will probably help also. Good luck again!!

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