i hate pill heads
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drugs

Hyden, KY

#1 Mar 2, 2013
They are trash!
doughy biscuit

London, KY

#2 Mar 2, 2013
drugs wrote:
They are trash!
Does this include pill hoes and needle freaks?
good girl

London, KY

#3 Mar 2, 2013
Alcoholics too. All those kinds of people ruin their lives and those that love them too. Anything for that next pill, high, or drink. Nevermind who they hurt. For every one of them there is someone somewhere who is heartbroken over them and the way they are acting.

Karma.
seriously

Doniphan, MO

#4 Mar 2, 2013
good girl wrote:
Alcoholics too. All those kinds of people ruin their lives and those that love them too. Anything for that next pill, high, or drink. Nevermind who they hurt. For every one of them there is someone somewhere who is heartbroken over them and the way they are acting.
Karma.
They do make it hard for others. When its family its really hard because you are always going to love them, but if its a husband/wife or girl or boy friend I say get rid of them and find someone else. They definitely ain't worth your time or love. Let their families love or something, right!!!
A M B 123

Harlan, KY

#5 Mar 2, 2013
addiction is a cruel disease.
it is as bad as losing the person,except with addiction you are forced to watch them slowely dive into oblivion.

their well-being deteriates more and more each day.
the personality of your loved one disappears and is replaced slowly thenall of a sudden,completly by that of a heartless stranger.

drugs take something from a person,a precious commidity....the drugs take away their humanity.

the heart of the problem can start many places,self-esteem problems,a traumatic experience,abuse,hereditary pre-disposition to addiction,experimentation,clin ical depression, and then there are a select few who honestly JUST WANT TO GET HIGH.

whichever begins it, once the person is hooked on drugs,physically,mentally,emot ionallyaddicted it is not all peaches and cream to get clean and sober, it takes effort from more than just the addict,it takes a support system of loving family and friends to help them achieve sobriety.

stop dogging these people, it is no easy task.
but also do NOT enable them.
do not buy them drugs and alcohol,do not give them money, but be there to talk and be supportive instead of being a group of judgemental hypocrits
FedUp

Richmond, KY

#6 Mar 2, 2013
They steal,lie and con for their high.I love my family that I have lost to it,but I can't take it anymore.Don't want the next generation of my family exposed to them.
A M B 123

Harlan, KY

#7 Mar 2, 2013
I am not referring to not protecting children from exposure to problems that can arise from addiction

i am talking about the people who will say they have so much of an issue with drugs and then their son or daughter husband or whatever family member who has a drug problem comes and tells them "i need money for this or that"
so they hand it over, transport them back and fourth to drug dealers homes, take the individual to buy alchol and pay for both,fueling the VERY addiction they claim to want to prevent....ENABLING the addict to maintain that "HIGH" no matter what substance it is with is being an ENABLER, which hinders any hope at the individuals recovery.

That IS the HYPOCRACY i was referring to in my previous post.
FedUp

Richmond, KY

#8 Mar 3, 2013
I agree with you.There is nothing you can do for them.It is their decision alone to quit.Kick them out of your home till they go strsight.They play on your pity.
Disgusted

Mayfield, KY

#9 Mar 3, 2013
Have lived with one for years . Too old to make a new start so i just exist with her . Most of what they tell you is a lie . They cheat ,lie ,steal and decieve you all the time . It is a miserable life . I don't understand it . I have seen people in the community go to jail for years and a few months AFTER THEY ARE OUT they are back on dope .
seriously

Doniphan, MO

#10 Mar 3, 2013
It is a miserable life being with a drug addict, but you don't have to stay in that situation. They do cry all of the time, and pretend that they are going to kill themselves if you make them leave. But believe me they wont. They are just still scheming trying to get high.

If you do kick them out, be prepared because they are going to start going to church and get saved and quit drugs. That is also another trick and scheme.

Just kick her out, you seem to have done all you can. There ain't no sense in you having to live disgusted and miserable because of someone else.
choices

Pikeville, KY

#11 Mar 3, 2013
A M B 123 wrote:
addiction is a cruel disease.
it is as bad as losing the person,except with addiction you are forced to watch them slowely dive into oblivion.
their well-being deteriates more and more each day.
the personality of your loved one disappears and is replaced slowly thenall of a sudden,completly by that of a heartless stranger.
drugs take something from a person,a precious commidity....the drugs take away their humanity.
the heart of the problem can start many places,self-esteem problems,a traumatic experience,abuse,hereditary pre-disposition to addiction,experimentation,clin ical depression, and then there are a select few who honestly JUST WANT TO GET HIGH.
whichever begins it, once the person is hooked on drugs,physically,mentally,emot ionallyaddicted it is not all peaches and cream to get clean and sober, it takes effort from more than just the addict,it takes a support system of loving family and friends to help them achieve sobriety.
stop dogging these people, it is no easy task.
but also do NOT enable them.
do not buy them drugs and alcohol,do not give them money, but be there to talk and be supportive instead of being a group of judgemental hypocrits
i don't think addiction is a disease it's a choice
meme

Harlan, KY

#12 Mar 3, 2013
choices wrote:
<quoted text>i don't think addiction is a disease it's a choice
thats why you dont get payed for thinking.
poo poo

Versailles, KY

#13 Mar 3, 2013
It's not a disease! A disease can't be helped an addition can. I know people who have diseases, and they can't help being sick. I also know people who are addict, and they made a choice to be addicts. So, there is a BIG difference. It's really hard to feel sorry people who do these things to themselves.
FedUp

Richmond, KY

#14 Mar 3, 2013
They don't feel bad about what they do to you.Might act shameful for a few minutes,but as soon as they catch your back turned they'll rob you again,even their own crying mothers.Only thing they respect is a good ass whipping.
choices

Pikeville, KY

#15 Mar 3, 2013
meme wrote:
<quoted text> thats why you dont get payed for thinking.
it's common sense you have a choice to take drugs and become an addict you don't with a disease
The Apostle

Somerset, KY

#16 Mar 3, 2013
Drugs are destroying Harlan County and many other places throughout the country. I know several teachers in Harlan who are pill heads and this is sad!
help

Versailles, KY

#17 Mar 3, 2013
choices wrote:
<quoted text>it's common sense you have a choice to take drugs and become an addict you don't with a disease
If I go out and do a chick with aids and and don't ware a condom. I made a choice and will get a disease.
yep

Pikeville, KY

#18 Mar 3, 2013
help wrote:
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If I go out and do a chick with aids and and don't ware a condom. I made a choice and will get a disease.
a consequence of your actions
help

Versailles, KY

#19 Mar 3, 2013
yep wrote:
<quoted text>a consequence of your actions
I was just trying to point out that you can get a disease by choice. The other post said you couldn't.
disagree

Jonesville, VA

#20 Mar 3, 2013
help wrote:
<quoted text>
If I go out and do a chick with aids and and don't ware a condom. I made a choice and will get a disease.
Yep. There's people that done that too. That's stupid just like starting on drugs.

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