in love with a married man
Tarts

United States

#141 Mar 29, 2012
stillinlove wrote:
You act like you know his wife? Bet you don't! Besides, If she was dumb enough to wait until he made sure I wasn't gonna be with him, to marry him, then I guess she should have known what she was getting herself into.
Inside Message to him: I hope it all doesn't "breakdown" just when things are getting good! LMBO!
Someones the broken road leads to a better place
Tarts

United States

#142 Mar 29, 2012
Youranidiot wrote:
<quoted text>
Thats funny, cause he was with this "so called" love of his life the whole time he was begging. lol!
Yep if he was begging then why are you begging now???
Tarts

United States

#143 Mar 29, 2012
Tarts wrote:
<quoted text>Someones the broken road leads to a better place
*Sometimes
stillinlove

Madison, TN

#144 Mar 29, 2012
Tarts wrote:
<quoted text>Someones the broken road leads to a better place
Hate to admit it, but You are right. I am sure he is happy, and he deserves to be. No ill will wished upon either of them. Letting this go for good....
Truth Hurts

Harlan, KY

#145 Mar 29, 2012
Honey please GROW UP and move on already! Why are you still obsessing?!? He IS married now so take your trifling a$$ somewhere else! Listen to you, your not a woman your a childish ho!
LOl

United States

#146 Mar 30, 2012
How do I taste Sweety ? You're so Stupid !! Oh. " by the way .., I'll be with him again next week " Same Time ...Same Place ...
trixrabbit

Harlan, KY

#147 Mar 30, 2012
Can't remember the name of the band, but they recorded a song called" LOVE STINKS"
trixrabbit

Harlan, KY

#148 Mar 30, 2012
stillinlove wrote:
<quoted text>
Hate to admit it, but You are right. I am sure he is happy, and he deserves to be. No ill will wished upon either of them. Letting this go for good....
I know this ain't the Dating Game or anything like it,but I got a good friend of mine you need to meet.
lol

Manchester, KY

#149 Mar 30, 2012
If he cheats, he will cheat on you too!
yumyum

Madison, TN

#150 Mar 30, 2012
lol wrote:
If he cheats, he will cheat on you too!
Right you are!
gag me

United States

#151 Mar 30, 2012
* VOMIT * do none of you have any morals? or maybe you do not believe in god or the vows you have to take? lust is not love ... my advice is for you to move on. make yourself happy in a new life with someone who loves only you.
let go

Somerset, KY

#152 Mar 31, 2012
Just move on!! It is really as simple as that. I think he said it all when he said I DO!

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#153 Mar 31, 2012
stillinlove wrote:
I know he loves me because he told me he did and begged me to live with him right up until he was married. I refused to move to Harlan with him and he said he couldn't wait on me any longer. It was one of those "once in a life time loves" sorry I passed up that opportunity to be with my best friend for the rest of my life. I miss you.:(

Advice from one former mistress to another. If he doesn't want to marry you, forget him. It isn't worth the heartache, pain, or even your thoughts. I was 'in love with married man'---yeah, he got divorced but, he never came back for me. He just 'moved on.' Guess I wasn't worth the time or effort to him. My advice to you: Don't sacrifice your self-respect or even waste your time. If he loves you, he will come find you. If he doesn't, don't make yourself look stupid.

“Question Authority.”

Since: Mar 12

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#154 Mar 31, 2012
just my opinion wrote:
I think this man should be left alone for the sake of his more than likely unsuspecting wife. Obviously, he was deceiving both of you, but I have been in the shoes of the loving wife who had no idea. It is a painful realization for the person who has been hurt by adultery. If you love him as much as you say, do you think he feels the same? Being that he married another woman... probably not. If you ever intend to pursue this man, you should give his wife the benefit of knowing. Bring it all out into the open. When he is faced with a decision in front of both of you, the truth will come out, and you can move on knowing the truth... with or without him. I feel you will not be satisfied until this is resolved so, for your own sanity, see it through. Good luck.

I was in love with someone who was married. This 'gentleman' played both his now EX-wife AND me and married someone totally different.

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Since: Mar 12

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#155 Mar 31, 2012
stillinlove wrote:
I know he loves me because he told me he did and begged me to live with him right up until he was married. I refused to move to Harlan with him and he said he couldn't wait on me any longer. It was one of those "once in a life time loves" sorry I passed up that opportunity to be with my best friend for the rest of my life. I miss you.:(
Don't waste your time honey. Life is short. He's a player and a user too. Been there and done that. Hold your head up, dust yourself off and move on. If you are like me then, you grew up believing in the fairy takes that you were read as a child. What they DON'T tell Cinderella in the fairy tale is what to do if Prince Charming doesn't come along, or otherwise turns out to be a frog. Don't spend your life waiting for a man to come along and make your life all better. Go out and make your life better by yourself. Find activities and things that YOU are interested in, and get involved. You might be surprised that you find someone else who is more appropriate for you. Good luck sweetheart. Been there and done that.

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Since: Mar 12

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#156 Mar 31, 2012
The Voice Of Experience wrote:
<quoted text>Believe you me, honey, Harlan Co, can handle a lot more drama than your situation. You need to leave that MARRIED man alone and move on with your life. He obviously has, and if he was as miserable as you hoped he was, he would have left her and moved on by himself. If you love him like you say you do, you will care more about his happiness than yours and you will leave him alone. He's not yours anymore. You are going to have to accept that. No one held a gun to his head when he married his wife. HE MADE A CHOICE. Now you make a choice for yourself and maintain your dignity and pride and move forward. You can do it if you choose to.
amen. I agree with you.

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#157 Mar 31, 2012
Apple At Cha wrote:
Just remember, if you ever find yourself in love with two people at the same time, pick the second one. This is because there was something about the first one that enabled you to fall in love someone else.
uh, I dunno about that.

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#158 Mar 31, 2012
Truth Hurts wrote:
Honey please GROW UP and move on already! Why are you still obsessing?!? He IS married now so take your trifling a$$ somewhere else! Listen to you, your not a woman your a childish ho!
Ouch! That was pretty harsh! Could you have been MORE insensitive?

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#159 Mar 31, 2012
gag me wrote:
* VOMIT * do none of you have any morals? or maybe you do not believe in god or the vows you have to take? lust is not love ... my advice is for you to move on. make yourself happy in a new life with someone who loves only you.
in this day and age, it is naive to assume that there is only ONE person in the whole, wide world that you could love/ be loved by. In actuality, there are many people one could love/be loved by. A friend of mine read in Psychology Today, I think, that for every person on the planet there is something like 250 PERFECT matches.
you knew it

Manchester, KY

#160 Apr 1, 2012
Some people out there still believe in honesty and integrity. In not cheating and in doing the right thing. One may have several loves in their life but not at the same time, it's called adultery and it's wrong not to mention a sin. We all need to seek God and then maybe we could see how sinful things are even though they happen everyday. Just because some people think it is ok to cheat and lie does not actually make it ok, those people are decieved.

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