I do not enable those nor encourage others in their behavior or accept the words of those in whom I do not trust.Have you ever thought that comments like yours may cause a person whose constitution is shaky to give up and give in?
Why not help strengthen them? There's an old saying, "if you don't have anything good to say, say nothing".
I speak from myself and for myself.
If my truth may cause a person whose constitution is shaky to give up and give in, then it is their actions and not my words which are responsible.
Do not use my words as an excuse for their actions.
They need to accept responsibility for their actions and stop blaming others for their situation.
They made the choice, and I will not dictate to them nor be dictated to on how I think they should fix themselves.
BOO HOO....if my truth speak words.