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#21 Aug 11, 2012
Save it for low-budget cable tv

Raleigh, NC

#22 Sep 23, 2012
Peyton wrote:
I am really sorry for what happened to you! If you a afraid of what your husband will do, then talk to him about it, and explain to him that it happened a long time ago and he needs to get over it because you have. Just talk to him about it and most of the time it makes it better!
This is past "talk to him about it". This man has at least one foot in a different reality. Obsessive.

Phoenix, AZ

#23 Sep 24, 2012
confused wrote:
Dear annie, I am in high school now and I have a girl freind. Shes great but she is always busy and the only time we spend together is at lunch. I dont know what I should do.

What is she always busy doing. She could be doing doing positive things in regards to getting into a good college . Maybe she playing Sports for the school team and that takes up time.. You don't what's she busy doing?
Mrs Z

Blythe, CA

#24 Oct 4, 2012
unsure if it is worth it wrote:
I have been having some thoughts about breaking the cycle in my home. My husband and I went through couselling and a lot of stuff and mostly things are ok....but not good. It's to the point where my husband ignores me, in EVERY WAY! I get no contact with emotional support, physical, or anything in between. When I confront him he says things like...remember when u said this....and tells me he's still hurt or making me pay. Then tonight he told me this: "THINGS ARE GOING TO GET A WHOLE LOT WORSE BEFORE THEY GET BETTER".....OMG NO HE'S THREATENING ME, well he has done that before but I don't know what to do.....he went from insulting me or talking down to me when we were talking to ignoring me and then when I pushed a question to be answered I got that for a response. I have friends who tell me that it's not worth it.......I'm willing to try but not with a person who is unwilling, abusive or has some sort of medical thing....I don't know if he does but I really think so!!!!!!!!!!
This exact thing happened to me. Your answer is: Get your own life. He will feel left out and come back. Quit begging him to be a father and fiance'. If he sees you are fine without him, he can decide if he wants to be part of it.
Mrs Z

Blythe, CA

#25 Oct 4, 2012
The exact same thing happened to me. My advice to you is simple: Get your own life. Be strong. Do not argue, berate or beg him to be what you want. HE will see that you are someone, doing what you should do and then he can decide if he wants to be part of it. If you sit around being just a mother, he will lose interest. Get a life. If he likes it and wants to participate in it, he will.
diana Lessire

United States

#26 Feb 28, 2013
If a Guy never dresses up for you and suddenly dressed up for the doctor after y
ou caught him two weeks. Before with someone else is he still. Cheating
diana Lessire

United States

#27 Feb 28, 2013
My man has to have porn on to get friendly he doesn't touch me its all about him so when he made a video he was with someone else. No movie he was fine I guess he don't want me only my money
Janet H

Spokane, WA

#28 Jun 11, 2013
It sounds to me that you have a pattern of surrounding yourself around people who are unhealthy, manipulative, and yes, abusive. The flip side is that this manipulates you into the constant role of victim in your life. Stop playing the victim, start taking some control of your life, your choices, and tolerance for bad behavior and step up to running your life in a more healthy way. If this means that you need to put your foot down, and in fact let him go if he is threatening divorce, then let him go!! Who need him? You're better off alone, or at the very least, with someone who can be an EQUAL and emotionally supportive partner.
Samantha wrote:
Dear Annie, I was raped by my prom date, one year shy of 20 years ago. My husband is a really good guy, but, from things he has said to me...has been a bit of a "perv" when it comes to sex. Lately, our love life has fizzled out and he largely blames me because of this rape. I went through years upon years of therapy (which by the way had begun long before the incident as I was and emotionally abused child and teen), and I went through many, many steps to heal myself. It is an ongoing process which I feel I could not have done without my husband. However, when he is drunk, which happens often, sometimes he asks me about what happpened. We have been together since 1994, we were married two years later. I have always been straight forward, but I have left out details. Recently, I felt comfortable enough to tell him what happened, openly, and without restraint. We had been drinking, and Mark, hubby, said he wants me to tell him the person's name, where he lived, and his family's names and whereabouts. I have heard, from others, that this man suffered without my sayso, it just happened. And once I told my mother what had happened, she contacted the authorities and his parents. It got handled...and despite it all...I feel whole. My husband feels that this man needs some kind of punishment, by Mark's hands and by any means and costs, in order for our sexual and personal life to progess. He has even threatened to divorce me if I don't allow this. He is the kind of person that remembers almost everything when he is drunk, but it comes out a little off kilter, if not distorted, when he comes around. He is also the kind of person that would go through with his ideas, no matter how crazy, just because it seemed like a good idea when he was drunk, but now that it's twisted and distorted in his mind, he had rationalized it. I promised him I would reveal what info I could about this man because I felt I had no choice and I love my husband too much to let some old baggage come between us....but, I must admit....I AM SCARED OF WHAT MARK WILL DO. With all do respect to him, he can be an idiot. Please, any advise can and will help me. Thank you. Really, really scared...NewCastle.
Helpful Stranger

Parramatta, Australia

#29 Apr 22, 2014
Try getting her alone. Message her online or just arrange to talk to her in private. Explain what you know about the guy she likes and if she doesn't want to hear it; try a different angle. Get your mutual friend to talk to her, they probably care about her, too. When that's been sorted out (or when it hasn't- that's up to you), tell your mutual friend how you feel about her, or even tell another friend who knows her, they might know how to approach her. In the end, the worst that can happen is you get rejected, and while that's painful, most people go through it.
Hopeful Guy wrote:
Dear Annie,
Recently I saw this one girl that I feel for. She is one of my friends friends. However she likes my brothers friend. However she likes to talk to me and smile and say hi to me in school. However the brothers friend is somewhat of a manwhore. His whole thing for a dating relationship is sex. I want to talk to her but everytime I do, shes with him. What do I do?


#30 May 13, 2014
i dont know wrote:
okay, i need some advice. i have been with the same guy for about 2 1/2 years and we broke up awhile ago. and since then both of us have moved on. Anyway, i was having sex with the other guy for those 2 yrs and i lost my V to him. and he had a bigger size down below. well the guy that im with now doesnt have that and that doesnt bother me. but im just worried that i will be wayy too loose down below, and im afraid it wont feel good for him. Any Suggestions on what to do?

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